my new shadow

[Troy35216]

so all of a sudden the last week my middle brother has decided we're best buds. Everywhere I go he goes. if i go to the mall he wants to go with me. if i go to the movies with my friends he wants to go with us. at home if i go watch tv he watches tv with me. if i go to my room!!! he wants to come with me and hang out and play games and shit. i keep waiting for him to follow me when i need to piss. he's driving me crazy. the only way i get him to leave me alone is to tell him to leave me the freak alone and then he looks like i punched him or something. i don't wanna be mean but dang we're not siamese twins. i haven't even been able to log into VT that much the last few days cuz he's always with me.

[Emerald Dream]

Moving this to Family and Friends, because...well, he's your brother.

TWPR :arrow: Family and Friends

[CoolKid97]

Sounds like my sister. I got an iPod Touch, she wants a iPod Touch. I get a portable DVD player, she wants a portable DVD player. For me she just wants objects I have and try's to do things I do. Can get annoying. Just tell him to give you space. If he doesn't then do things he doesn't like? Works for me.

[Harry Smith]

I'm sure it's annoying but it's probably him just trying to feel better, maybe one of his friends is shutting out or he could just be feeling lonely

[birdie]

I can certainly sympathise with how frustrating that can be. but he probably looks up to you a lot or somethings going on in his life that he doesn't know how to deal with. usually I find that you do have to sacrifice some of your time to spend with him, really spend with him, so that when you need to draw the line it is easier. you never know, you might even become closer for it and you will be able to explain to him why you need space in a way he will understand or not throw a tantrum about