View Full Version : I've never had a relationship and im 16
IKnow
March 28th, 2013, 09:42 AM
Im 16 and i've never had a relationship, and i have never kissed someone
is that wired?
NudistKid
March 28th, 2013, 10:01 AM
not really you just havent found the right person yet you will do one day though
ReginaGeorge
March 28th, 2013, 10:42 AM
It's not weird at all, everyone goes at their own pace. :) There's no shame in taking it slow, whether that be by choice or situational. I'm 17 in a couple of days and I haven't had romantic experience either. Don't stress.
Pierce
March 28th, 2013, 11:22 AM
Dude it's nothing to worry about. Don't sweat it.
Jess
March 28th, 2013, 05:44 PM
Not at all. My brother's 19 and he's never been in a relationship, let alone kissed someone. Same with me.
thisisben
March 28th, 2013, 05:59 PM
im pretty much the same , im 15 but only been in one serious relationship ... but in a way im not too bothered my friends are my world at the mo !
xxPerryPlatypusxx
March 28th, 2013, 06:29 PM
Im 16 and i've never had a relationship, and i have never kissed someone
is that wired?
nope this isn't weird at all
some people don't find the right people until they are much older
it takes time. don't worry someday you will find the perfect person <3
SAR151
March 28th, 2013, 06:30 PM
Yeah there's nothing wrong with, in my honest opinion its just more drama and expenses for you when you are in one. Nothing to be ashamed of, it means you're not in a relationship week in week out. Focus on bigger and better things like you, making money...I love money more than anything and that's what my time goes to, school and work.
Dirtychevrolet
March 28th, 2013, 06:46 PM
Yeah not weird for me things came together in junior year high school, don't neccasarily make it happen just let things happen and they will no worries
Well I take that back let yourself get into the position to make things happen that make sense?
Please don't double post.
Grand Admiral Thrawn
March 28th, 2013, 07:54 PM
It's not weird at all.
To be honest, I don't think most teens are mature enough for a relationship. Not a real one, anyway. Everyone has their own pace, and there's nothing wrong with that.
RCT109
March 28th, 2013, 08:22 PM
dont feel bad im 18 and still no one
peaceNlove
March 29th, 2013, 11:54 AM
Definitely not weird. Sometimes people just don't find what they're looking for yet. I have had three relationships and the longest one was 4 months and the shortest one was less than i day. Lol. It's because i was desperate and wanted a relationship because i thought I was weird to, but I'm starting to understand that I haven't found someone that shared the same interests as me. Oh and I'm 16 and haven't kissed anyone either, even in my relationships because i didn't want to waste my first kiss on someone that i didn't really like. So no, you're not weird:)
Xpert
March 29th, 2013, 11:57 AM
Im 16 and i've never had a relationship, and i have never kissed someone
is that wired?
This is perfectly ok. And so do not worry. Take a chance when you get one.
Erasmus
March 29th, 2013, 12:12 PM
That's not weird at all. I'm in the same boat :)
brisk
March 29th, 2013, 12:30 PM
There are plenty of people just like you, myself included. It's probably a good thing. Personally, I don't like befriending anyone who's been out-and-about in eighty-five relationships. They're unstable and not as likely to be there for you! :)
kye.
March 30th, 2013, 01:56 AM
Im 16 and i've never had a relationship, and i have never kissed someone
is that wired?
How about this one....
I'm 18 and never ever been in a relationship or kissed someone. Isn't that weird? lol I'm just waiting for my first and last one :)
SAR151
March 30th, 2013, 02:08 AM
I'm telling yall...focus on getting money, its better than a relationship lol it brings me joy when I know I have money in the bank and don't have to worry about spending it on someone that won't appreciate it.
gamerdudeW
March 30th, 2013, 02:21 AM
sounds pretty normal to me. ive lightly kissed and made out some, but no real relationship or deep intense kisses before. im sure that happens at different times for peeps
brandon1995
March 30th, 2013, 02:24 AM
A lot of 16 years olds are in your situation. It will happen when you meet the right person.
Ryhanna
March 30th, 2013, 02:25 AM
I'm turning 18 in 3 months, and I've never even kissed anyone. I'm not worried, though, because I'm obviously not ready. It'll happen when it happens.
Iron Man
March 30th, 2013, 02:28 AM
I didn't have my first relationship or first kiss until I was 17, and even then it only lasted like 3 weeks (And we rarely saw each other for the duration)
So yeah. Give it time, and that special someone will come along.
Eagle1
April 1st, 2013, 01:19 AM
Im 16 and i've never had a relationship, and i have never kissed someone
is that wired?
Not weird at all, I am 19 and still have not ever had a girlfriend. Now I have kissed (or rather been kissed) by a girl but that didn't happen until I was 17 and since then nothing has happened. So don't worry.
Apollo.
April 1st, 2013, 01:46 AM
I'm telling yall...focus on getting money, its better than a relationship lol it brings me joy when I know I have money in the bank and don't have to worry about spending it on someone that won't appreciate it.
Money doesn't bring everyone happiness, I've grown up with money and until I met my boyfriend I was never happy. I always say money doesn't make you happy although it can make happy people happier.
To the OP, don't worry about it, you aren't weird at all, most relationships when people are as young as you are fail miserably anyway. It just means when the right person comes along you will appreciate them more.
crazy_teen
April 1st, 2013, 02:00 AM
Not weird at all. It's not a matter of time but it's a matter of finding the right person you can have your first kiss or relationship with.
SAR151
April 1st, 2013, 02:05 AM
Money doesn't bring everyone happiness, I've grown up with money and until I met my boyfriend I was never happy. I always say money doesn't make you happy although it can make happy people happier.
To the OP, don't worry about it, you aren't weird at all, most relationships when people are as young as you are fail miserably anyway. It just means when the right person comes along you will appreciate them more.
Gotcha. It makes me happy though, that's because I was raised in an opposite lifestyle, I never had money growing up, I hardly got what I wanted and when I did I learned to cherish it for a long time, now that I make money on my own I enjoy having it and love spending it on me and me only. That's just me though, I don't have the time nor the want (with work and college) to dedicate my time to someone else but if that's what someone needs to be happy then go for it but the op shouldn't be so worried about it, he's still young, its not that important, being single doesn't kill us.
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