Awkward moment with friend

[Werwer12]

Over the weekend I had a friend sleep over and were really good friends and all that. Anyways while I was sleeping I woke up it was like 3am and he had his hand in my pants fealing my penis! He wasn't doing anything he just had his hands in my boxers. I pretended to sleep though bc I had another friend I did things with and that kinda ruined our friend ship. I don't know what to do, should I say something?

[Iam_1]

If your not comfortable with it then talk with him. If you were ok with it /liked it then maybe next time you can continue the act if it was a sign of his move.

[Jasperf]

i would just go with the flow and see what happens. but if you are really no happy i would talk to him about it.

[The Chameleon]

You could try to bring it up casually if its really bugging u

[Werwer12]

It didn't bother me, I like it but I'm not sure weather to try and go farther or not vc that kinda wrecked one of my old friendships

[Iam_1]

If he does it again. Try moving to see if hes purposely touching you. And maybe that can tell if he wants to try things. Maybe touch him back "by accident". Hope this helps

[mynameisJ]

You should talk to him about it. You could tell him not to do it again since it feels uncomfortable. I'm not really sure. It's up to you on what to say.

[swimBoy]

Like everyone said, if you are ok with him touching you, don't say anything. I have friends that will touch me during the day, we're close and long frineds so I don't say anything. One even asks me to sleep naked during sleep overs. It sorta make me feel good knowing he thinks I look good enough to look at.

[FergusDunn]

Don't let it ruin a friendship as you say you enjoyed it and you let him - you say you were awake.

but anyways just dont mention it and if anything happens again you can bring it to a stop or carry on but you must decide.

[Kjcj]

Over the weekend I had a friend sleep over and were really good friends and all that. Anyways while I was sleeping I woke up it was like 3am and he had his hand in my pants fealing my penis! He wasn't doing anything he just had his hands in my boxers. I pretended to sleep though bc I had another friend I did things with and that kinda ruined our friend ship. I don't know what to do, should I say something?

I had something similar happen, I have woke up and my friend asleep and it looked like we were spooning, but we had on clothes!

[itsLOGAN]

if you dont want to ruin your friendship then dont do anything

[DeepFriedFat]

Yes you should say something. he should really know that you are aware of what happened, and doing things with him may not definitely ruin your relationship - that last time could have just been a one off.

[Luke91]

It didn't bother me, I like it but I'm not sure weather to try and go farther or not vc that kinda wrecked one of my old friendships

Since you said it didn't bother you then you must have liked it somewhat. Why would you say anything to him now. If it happens again then see how far he goes. If he goes farther each time, you can stop him or join in.

[Stig]

I say if he does it again, do it back to him and see if he says anything. If he does, say that he was doing to you. That's what I would do.

[scer123]

do what u feel is right. if you feel it will ruin your friendship like the other one, dont do it

[Maras]

I agree with others. If you felt good, don't say anything. If you didn't - told him.

[brodyk15]

Stay another night and "wake up" while he is doing it.

[VirtualGuy012]

If you are uncomfortable with it, I would talk to him. And if you want to do more, next time you start and see how he reacts.

[Inkhead2013]

Tell him how you feel, but just try not to embarrass him no matter what you've decided to say. :)

[mrfrog871]

Just leave it

[Rima]

Just go with the flow :)

[MaguireUk]

I had the same problem and the advice i could give that helped me was just call him round again confront what he did and why, then go from there have fun

[klecknnt]

up to you really

[johnsmith1]

It didn't bother me, I like it but I'm not sure weather to try and go farther or not vc that kinda wrecked one of my old friendships

Since he initiated it, he may want to go further. By the sounds of it, you didn't do anything as there was someone else there at the time. Decide how you feel and speak to him when the two of you are alone. Try and bring it up informally, so it can be brushed aside if he doesn't want to know. If he does, take it from there.

[Olliemithcrazy]

get him to suck you

[Pyro99]

If you like it and he likes it keep doing it. If not, tell him.

[Meh Guy]

Yeah that's probably just two close friends being friends but like many other say, go with it, which in this case I would say something or do it to him first as a sign of want. Or tell him you're not ok with it and move on.

[The_Hunger_Games]

If ur uncomfortable then just leave it be he was just experimenting. If you liked it use it to your advantage and bring it up with him. That's what I would do

[likemike]

You got molested in your sleep. Friend or not he violated your privacy at the very least talk to him about it he may o it again if it goes unchecked

[sartbimpson55]

Was he awake?

[fast8]

i say stay another night an see if he does it aging or you do it to him an see how he reacts that may have been a sign from him

[pyropilot1668]

Do it again. If the little curious spider crawls into your underpants, petend your asleep and turn a little. If the spider jerks out, he is doing it on purpose. If it stays in, its an unconcious thing.

[Famos]

If you liked it let it go and if not say something