Difficulty with Ex Girlfriend...

[SQLguy]

My ex girlfriend who I still care for greatly, told me that she loves me. The only issue is that she has a boyfriend right now. We are both 15.

She lives about 100 miles from me, but we are going to hang out over the summer for a while. After she told me she loves me, we started talking about hooking up over the summer. Neither of us have ever made out with anyone before, and the most that we have done with a partner is a quick peck kiss.

I really want to have sex with her or at least go to third base, because I think she is beautiful and the perfect girl for me in my opinion. I havent run that by her yet, but she knows that I have a great interest in making out with her.

BUT! then she interjects randomly and is like, "I dont cheat, so if I am still with him when we hang out, sorry...." That is a total buzzkill for me to be honest, and I find it hypocritical considering SHE JUST TOLD ME SHE LOVED ME! - I am completely freaking out and I really want them to break up so I can be with her.

What do I do?

[peaceNlove]

Well you can't really make them break up. And if she wants to stay with this guy there's no stopping it, sorry:( my advice is to talk to some other girls. I'm so not trying to be mean or anything but if she really loved you like she said, she'd be with you right now and would have broken up with her boyfriend. So talk to other girls. There are going to be so many other girls that you will come into contact with and you'll be able to find a girl that really does love you and even lives near you. So don't just feel that this girl is the one, you know? I really hope this helped. Sorry if it didn't.

[SQLguy]

Thanks, but there really arent many other chances for me to be with girls. I go to a private all guys highschool, there are events with all girls schools, but most of those girls like at least a half hour away from me, which is very annoying.

My entire hometown has pretty much forsaken me, they all have their tight cliques and there are never any outsiders allowed. I am from a very rural area, so there are no public places, nobody in my neighborhood, the closest mall is a 45 minute drive. AKA if you want to do anything with anyone, you need to have plans, or you are going on your own.

I just dont know what to do.

[justagurl]

This whole thing is a little unfair to her boyfriend. If she is really telling you that she loves you, then she is not being respectful of the fact she is in a relationship.