sleepover

[tomfelix]

Ok so I've been invited to my first ever sleepover next week, I'm kinda nervous. I've read loads of stories about what people do on sleepovers and I don't think I want any of that sex-type stuff to happen.

But what do I do if my friend wants to experiment? I don't think he will but ya know...

[swimBoy]

Hi Tom, I'd go on the sleepover. I've been to several and they are awesome. I sleep on the floor most of the time. We talk about sex and stuff, but haven't done any of the stuff you are worried about. I know these kids well so I've never worried.

Have fun, sleepovers are way way cool

[rodriguez_miker]

Go Nd enjoy yourself. If they try, just say you are not comfortable doing that. It will work out.

[denisss]

Go and enjoy. If he wants to experiment, go along with it if you are comfortable with it.

[Trinity_15]

Go to it. Have fun. If they complain about you not wanting to do it, stand your ground. Dont let them take advantage of you. If they try and force anything then you should leave.

[Straya]

If you don't wanna do anything just say to him that it's not what you wanna do

[mynameisJ]

Dude you're a human being. You have the right to say no. If he offers you to experiment with him and you don't want to, JUST SAY NO.

[Danny Phantom]

Well I think you should go and have fun.
If they want to do something that you don't want to do or you aren't comfortable with, say no. If they are good friends, they wont make you do anything you don't want to do. If they try to force you, then leave and you know they only care about desires instead of friendship.

[justin 13]

Dude, go. I had TON of sleepovers with my friends and notin happened just play, fun and sleep.

[erikzero99]

just go and have fun and nothing with happen

[irishguy123]

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[blingibong]

Ok so I've been invited to my first ever sleepover next week, I'm kinda nervous. I've read loads of stories about what people do on sleepovers and I don't think I want any of that sex-type stuff to happen.

But what do I do if my friend wants to experiment? I don't think he will but ya know...

tomo your from england, its different over here mate it hardly ever happens like that bro! but if it does you can always kind of shy off, he is your friend he wont do stuff that might make it awkward! go to the sleepover and enjoy the life out of it ! some of my best memories are from them!

[DeepFriedFat]

let me tell you quite frankly that at most sleepover, people don't have sex. and if they do it's because they want to, not just because its something they're forced into - don't worry about doing something you don't want to.

[tomfelix]

Thanks guys, I know it's a weird question. I know it's weird just to assume my friend will ask but I get s little paranoid lol

Also I just want to make sure I could control the situation and stay friends after if he wanted to do something like that

[Jasperf]

Ok so I've been invited to my first ever sleepover next week, I'm kinda nervous. I've read loads of stories about what people do on sleepovers and I don't think I want any of that sex-type stuff to happen.

But what do I do if my friend wants to experiment? I don't think he will but ya know...

well just say no, or in the spur of the moment go with it. i think he will only do "sexual stuf" if you guys have a close sort of relationship and talk about that stuf

[dufus]

id take it as it cums...

[Kjcj]

I would go, but just explain that you didn't want any freaky junk happening.... he will understand

[chrisf55]

That doesn't happen at every sleepover, you shouldn't have to worry. In the event that your friend actually tries something, just show no interest and say you don't want to.

[FergusDunn]

Ok so I've been invited to my first ever sleepover next week, I'm kinda nervous. I've read loads of stories about what people do on sleepovers and I don't think I want any of that sex-type stuff to happen.

But what do I do if my friend wants to experiment? I don't think he will but ya know...

ok well first off not all you read is true !

how well do you know your friend and you can always maybe say before the sleep over you are not into experimenting and stuff. If anything happens you do not feel ok about then just say no - or just take it as it comes and see how you feel.

[Iam_1]

id take it as it cums...

Couldnt have said it any better. lol anyway, dont be nervous. The worst that can happen is you say no if he tries anything. Be real about it.

[SmartTee]

just decide whether you join them or not its your decision to be followed

[brodyk15]

Just have fun. Don't worry!

[VirtualGuy012]

Just avoid anything that may lead to that.

[countryboi9]

sleep overs are a great place to try new thing and experiment

[tomfelix]

Nothing did happen in the end, well.... he said he wanted to experiment but I told him I didn't want to. Then he told me he was gay, I'm still not sure how I feel about it...

[Olliemithcrazy]

don't be nervous have a blast

[Aidoon123]

Ok. I have never had a sleepover with even the slighest sexual contact. They come over, play x-box, watch movies, go to sleep at 7am and they leave. Nothing happens, atleast not in Ireland. Interestingly enough, all the people with those kind of sleepovers are in America, I wonder what's happening right now...

[Meh Guy]

If he does tell him you would be more comfortable if you didn't and leave it at that

[IAMMCLOVIN]

Just tell him no! If you change you're mind, then go with it. You might like it. :)

[thatblondeboy69]

I agree with the last one!

[chicohunter]

go and if he tries to experiment, go along with it. You might like it, but if you don't, you'll know for sure

[SniperKing]

Not many people actually do do stuff haha. ive been to heaps of sleep overs and have never had something happen