guy seeking girl advise

[xxyzn]

im 17 years old. i guess girls think im attractive, i don't know. i used to be a ladies man in middle school, but since puberty my "love life" has gone down the drain. which seems weird because i would have thought it was suppost to "spark" during puberty, raging hormones, sex, all the such. i used to have a mild case of acne, but not so much anymore. i've gotten it under control. i listen to alot of "underground" music. having that said i don't dress according to the mainstream fashion style, i.e. abercrombie, hottopic, all that bullshit. it just doesn't appeal to me. my cousin says i dress like i don't give a shit about people, therefore girls won't give a shit about me. apparently i dress like i don't care about myself or something. but, what ever. i like the way i dress. well, let me cut to the point. what are girls attracted to? i know most of you will say a nice personality. but, whenever i get near girls and talk to them face to face, i don't exactly "lock-up"... but i don't exactly relax. im too self concious of what i'm doing, what the girl is thinking about me. but it's not so much an obsessive thing, like i NEED to know what i'm doing, i'm just curious to put myself into the girl's shoes and see if i'm an attractive guy or not, aside from the clothes. wow, i just went off track again. hehe... i'd rather only girls respond to this. so, what are girls attracted to? be honest now.

[Sage]

Females make up about half of the entire human population. So, that's about 4 billion. I don't think anyone can summarize what 4 billion people are all, to an extent, attracted to.

Just be yourself and wait for a girl to find you. If you have to change yourself to be with someone, well, I can't see that being a very good relationship.

[xxyzn]

Females make up about half of the entire human population. So, that's about 4 billion. I don't think anyone can summarize what 4 billion people are all, to an extent, attracted to.

Just be yourself and wait for a girl to find you. If you have to change yourself to be with someone, well, I can't see that being a very good relationship.

no truer words have ever been spoken before. fuck 'em. it's time for ME to stop searching and looking. it's time for 'em to start searching and looking. she'll find me... one day... *sigh* lol

[Serenity]

Girls Puberty :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[Sage]

no truer words have ever been spoken before. fuck 'em. it's time for ME to stop searching and looking. it's time for 'em to start searching and looking. she'll find me... one day... *sigh* lol

If you're being sarcastic I don't appreciate it.

[Lifesreject]

Girls are strange with what pleases them. Everyone likes something different so you can please everyone. I think maybe you just need to try and relx abit dont worry about what the girl is thinking it dosent matter and it will shine through if you are trying to hard. Its also easier if you get to know them as friends before you try to make a move on them. Find out what they like and things like that.

[tmkf]

If you're being sarcastic I don't appreciate it.

no i dont think he was!! they are good wrds!:)

[Unknown_kid]

Well at my school, the more attractive girls,(to me), like guy's the don't ware those tight skater pants, or that don't ware to baggy pants.

[audreyh_wannabe]

I personally don't like the whole emo look - like Fall Out Boy etc. It just freaks me out if a guy openly admits to straightening his hair... Tight pants are never a good idea haha. Just personally for me, it's all in the eyes, but anyway, don't be super nervous - but don't be overconfident either, that gives the impression of cockiness/conceit which makes me immediately switch off to anything the guy has to say =]

[mynameisjane]

your cousin says you dress like you don't care? so how exactly do you dress?

[Elandy3]

Girls like guys that have a good sense of everything, dressing, creativity, and the thing that will get you ANYWHERE with a girl, is being funny, trust me lol, no matter how bad you might dress.
How is it that you dress tho? Normal clothes?

[chucknorrisrules]

your cousin says you dress like you don't care? so how exactly do you dress?

Really! Are you dressing like you're rebellious? Or do you wear raggedy clothes or something? :confused::confused::confused:

[Titlacauan]

just pick one u know and start coming onto her in a very obvious yet comical fashion. and if u wanna create the illusion of wearing preppy clothes just pick a brand that used to be IT 10 years ago and wear that. it's all the same shit