Please don't be mean...but am I weird?

[BebeFleur.]

I am a young teen girl going through puberty and:

-Have no boyfriend
-Have a HUGE crush that I won't act on
-Don't have sex
-Don't watch porn
-Don't want to see naked guys until I am in a relationship
-Don't masturbate
-Want to wait until marriage for sex
-Think oral sex is disgusting
-Think anal sex is disgusting
-Think swallowing semen is gross
-Think getting semen all over your body is gross
-Don't care about what a guy looks like


Am I weird and unnormal?

[Elysium]

Hon, you're perfectly normal. Honestly, when it comes to sex, sexuality, identity, etc. there is no "normal." Just society's standard. People are so vastly different in infinite ways.

[TinyDancer]

Sounds like you have yourself together pretty good good and you're comfortable with everything. No problems there.

[BebeFleur.]

Thanks :)

I just...feel so awkward...

[CaliforniaMatt]

I'm a guy but:
-Have no girlfriend at the moment (broke up a while back, just haven't pursued another)
-Have a HUGE crush that I won't act on (I can't act on mine, she's taken xD)
-Don't have sex
-Don't watch porn
-Don't masturbate
-Want to wait until marriage for sex
-Think anal sex is disgusting
I don't drink or do drugs, either. I guess we're all different.

[Celtic.]

-Have no boyfriend normal
-Have a HUGE crush that I won't act on Pfft really normal
-Don't have sex normal
-Don't watch porn normal
-Don't want to see naked guys until I am in a relationship Normal
-Don't masturbate Good
-Want to wait until marriage for sex That is your choice but its normal
-Think oral sex is disgusting DEAR GAWD!
-Think anal sex is disgusting no that really normal because i find it disgusting too
-Think swallowing semen is gross JESUS!
-Think getting semen all over your body is gross I passed out
-Don't care about what a guy looks like oh thats a Real Good thing

[iwannago]

tbh you sound like a normal preppy girl! dont what you think is normal, what you like and dislike is normal. there is no normal and non normal, dont let things like that bother you!:) hope i helped

[Heike16]

Everything is fine with you! Some points may change in the future, others not. That's ok!

[Taryn98]

Everyone is different and there's nothing wrong with you. I have a feeling that as you mature, your feelings on a lot of these issues will change though.

[BebeFleur.]

Thanks :) I just have to sit around listening to my friends talk about their wonderful sex experiences and I'm like "ew!"

Some of that might change, but swallowing semen, oral, and anal? I HIGHLY doubt it....

[brandon1995]

I am a young teen girl going through puberty and:

-Have no boyfriend
-Have a HUGE crush that I won't act on
-Don't have sex
-Don't watch porn
-Don't want to see naked guys until I am in a relationship
-Don't masturbate
-Want to wait until marriage for sex
-Think oral sex is disgusting
-Think anal sex is disgusting
-Think swallowing semen is gross
-Think getting semen all over your body is gross
-Don't care about what a guy looks like


Am I weird and unnormal?

Normal but immature in some ways.

[Celtic.]

Thanks :) I just have to sit around listening to my friends talk about their wonderful sex experiences and I'm like "ew!"

Some of that might change, but swallowing semen, oral, and anal? I HIGHLY doubt it....

swallowing might not change but oral and anal probably will

[CaliforniaMatt]

When you're in the mood, you think differently

[Sasha M]

I am a young teen girl going through puberty and:

-Have no boyfriend - I don't have a girlfriend.
-Have a HUGE crush that I won't act on - Same here.
-Don't have sex - I'm only 13.
-Don't watch porn - What? Why?
-Don't want to see naked guys until I am in a relationship -Why?
-Don't masturbate - Try it!
-Want to wait until marriage for sex -Why?
-Think oral sex is disgusting - Ok.
-Think anal sex is disgusting - Me too.
-Think swallowing semen is gross - Me too.
-Think getting semen all over your body is gross -Why?
-Don't care about what a guy looks like - I'm not to picky about girls.


Am I weird and unnormal?
Take into account what I said.

[Wanderer_]

You're fine don't stress sweety - I'm afraid you will end up masturbating so don't be upset about that, eventually every human has to

And you might find done of the other things aren't so bad when you have a bf - but if you aren't comfortable and he loves/respects you he'll accept your boundaries

[smelliot44]

Just as everyone else said, you are perfectly normal. :)

[Wanderer_]

Well as normal as any of us are lol

[Ryhanna]

That really is fine. Everybody's likes and dislikes are different, and there really is no 'normal.'

Sexuality is vastly different for each and every person, and our tastes change over time. What you dislike now, might be completely different from ten years now. And what you like now might change, too.

[Synyster Shadows]

You're perfectly fine. i can't say normal, but you're not weird either. If that's how you feel, that's ok. Why give a damn about what others think of you? My best friend, oh jeez, he's a really odd guy. But I think it's cool, even if we're both sorta 'outcasts'. You're ok. And as others have said, some of those will probably change. And if you're a young teen like me, then it's good you don't have sex yet. It's a, illegal until at least 16, and b, very risky for young people.