Would any of you white guys go out with a black girl?

[peaceNlove]

Okay so, I'm just curious if any of you white guys would go out with a black girl. It seems really hard for blacks girls to get a white guy. Personally i find white guys attractive and would like to date one ( I'd date other races, so its not like white guys are the only race I'd go for). At my school, its mostly black guys that date white girls and it makes me feel as though white girls have something that black girls don't have and I don't really get it. If someone could explain to me why guys might feel that way, I'd be happy. Sorry if this seems any way racist, I'm not trying to be, I just would like to know. Thanks in advance for your reply:)

[thisisben]

I definately would , its only skin colour , doesnt really change the mind does it ! , i know im unhelpful but just a little opinion!

[peaceNlove]

Thanks :) you were helpful. I just feel that my skin color is a turn off in a way( that probably doesn't make sense) but i think it's just the stereotype of black girls, I'm guessing.

[thisisben]

You do make sense , I have a friend and she's from african descent and feels the same as you do! , its not a turn off at all, if guys like tanned girls then they might aswell go that little bit further !!! :D

[Jose]

Yes skin colos means nothing its all about a persons personality inteligence and to meif she funny also looking hot in tite jeans help LOL

[CharlieHorse]

I am NOT racist, as I have many black friends, but I just don't find dark skin that physically attractive... I don't know what it is.
I also find that some over tanned skin is unattractive as well. :/

Pale skin in my favorite I guess... :/

[peaceNlove]

You do make sense , I have a friend and she's from african descent and feels the same as you do! , its not a turn off at all, if guys like tanned girls then they might aswell go that little bit further !!! :D

Haha yea. Thanks for replying, you made me feel better:)

[thisisben]

Haha yea. Thanks for replying, you made me feel better:)

Its no problem , if i made you feel then that makes me happy ! :)

[peaceNlove]

I am NOT racist, as I have many black friends, but I just don't find dark skin that physically attractive... I don't know what it is.
I also find that some over tanned skin is unattractive as well. :/

Pale skin in my favorite I guess... :/

Oh yea, well thats okay if that's what you prefer. I guess it's just that I've only seen a couple that is white guy with a black girl only twice my whole life so far. So i kind of just was takin aback from it and wondering why that is.

[LouBerry]

Well, I'm a girl, so I guess this doesn't apply to me, but I had no problem with dating other races when I was still single. I've had a boyfriend who was black, and I had a best friend/kind of boyfriend that was a Mexican. I love them both a whole bunch.

[NudistKid]

why wouldnt i its only the color of the skin it wouldnt bother me at all i wouldnt see her as any different and id treat her how id want to be treated

[peaceNlove]

Its no problem , if i made you feel then that makes me happy ! :)

Haha, awesome!

[peaceNlove]

why wouldnt i its only the color of the skin it wouldnt bother me at all i wouldnt see her as any different and id treat her how id want to be treated

Yea thats how I would feel. It might just be my town because i live in a small city where there is not a lot of diversity and the people try to be like each other which I guess also means dating people only of the same race.

[ajp1993]

I would. But its always seemed to me like black girls only seem to date black guys and black guys date both black and white girls. As others have said though, its only skin color :)

[Castle of Glass]

I would. but too bad no girls look at me :/

[peaceNlove]

I would. but too bad no girls look at me :/

:( I feel the same way about guys, but I'm sure you're a great guy though:)

[peaceNlove]

I would. But its always seemed to me like black girls only seem to date black guys and black guys date both black and white girls. As others have said though, its only skin color :)

Yea:/ i feel that black girls have a bad stereotype that they are all ghetto and loud and are rude and stuff like that( people for some reason think of ghetto girls as bitches for some reason) but i think most black girls are not like that and people just don't want to find out, I guess. But I'm glad that you don't see it like that:) and also i think black girls date black guys because it's their comfort zone. And maybe feel that white guys won't accept them for their skin color and the stereotype (as i feel). But it's awesome that you don't see it like that:)

[Cygnus]

Some white guys are just more used to dating white girls, I personally do not like black girls as much since I am used to white girls and have lived in countries with not as much black people, however there are guys who would not mind that.

[peaceNlove]

Some white guys are just more used to dating white girls, I personally do not like black girls as much since I am used to white girls and have lived in countries with not as much black people, however there are guys who would not mind that.

Oh yea, thats true. Would you be open to it though? I can see how thats what you're used to so you stick with that. Or do you just want to stick with white girls? Just curious.

[Cygnus]

Oh yea, thats true. Would you be open to it though? I can see how thats what you're used to so you stick with that. Or do you just want to stick with white girls? Just curious.

I would be open, it does depend on the looks (and I prefer black dominican girls if I would have to choose) but if the girl has an awesome personality I would be totally open.

[PinkFloyd]

Of course I would. It's only the color of their skin. No difference what so ever except apperance which means nothing in racial ways to me.

[peaceNlove]

I would be open, it does depend on the looks (and I prefer black dominican girls if I would have to choose) but if the girl has an awesome personality I would be totally open.

That's cool that you'd be open to it:) I just wish more would realize that black girls aren't like the stereotype, you know? It's refreshing to know that not all guys feel that way.

Of course I would. It's only the color of their skin. No difference what so ever except apperance which means nothing in racial ways to me.

That's awesome:) I wish the guys in my town were more like you, lol.

Please don't double post.-Grumpy

[PinkFloyd]

That's awesome:) I wish the guys in my town were more like you, lol.

Your town is racist? That's horrible. So sorry...

[Jess]

I'm a girl, but I'll give my input.

Skin color shouldn't even matter.

[peaceNlove]

Your town is racist? That's horrible. So sorry...

It's not necessarily racist. I mean black and white people do get along its just in regards to relationships where the guys (white, but also other races) don't really want to be with the black girls. It's just that at my school the amount of white girls in relation ships with any race is way higher than the amount of black girls even when it comes to black guys. Don't get me wrong though there are white guys with black girls at my school, but thats just about 2 couples. There's probably more but those are the only ones I've seen since school started. And I go to a big high school.

[peaceNlove]

I'm a girl, but I'll give my input.

Skin color shouldn't even matter.

It really shouldn't, but sadly it seems to be that way in some places.

[PinkFloyd]

It's not necessarily racist. I mean black and white people do get along its just in regards to relationships where the guys (white, but also other races) don't really want to be with the black girls. It's just that at my school the amount of white girls in relation ships with any race is way higher than the amount of black girls even when it comes to black guys. Don't get me wrong though there are white guys with black girls at my school, but thats just about 2 couples. There's probably more but those are the only ones I've seen since school started. And I go to a big high school.

Ohhh, that's good. My school has about 10 mixed relationships that I can think of right now.

[peaceNlove]

Ohhh, that's good. My school has about 10 mixed relationships that I can think of right now.

That's awesome:) I just wish my town was more open minded. My town is pretty closed minded( especially when it comes to races it seems like) fortunately though i will be moving to Los Angeles next year where people are definitely more open minded. My town is very cookie cutter, so a lot of the people are the same.

[PinkFloyd]

That's awesome:) I just wish my town was more open minded. My town is pretty closed minded( especially when it comes to races it seems like) fortunately though i will be moving to Los Angeles next year where people are definitely more open minded. My town is very cookie cutter, so a lot of the people are the same.

My town is super homophobic. I have 2 openly gay friends -- things aren't going wel for them...

[peaceNlove]

My town is super homophobic. I have 2 openly gay friends -- things aren't going wel for them...

That must be really tough. You probably care for them a lot, huh? My town isn't super homophobic, but it is. I have some openly gay friends and some openly bisexual friends as well. My mom is a lesbian and her girlfriend lives with me and my sisters, but they've had problems. Some people tell them that they should go to hell, even if me or my two younger sisters are around. It's sad. My friends haven't had a lot of trouble(one them does with her grandma though)

[unnamed94]

i have (kind of) dated a black girl but generally i find white girls more attractive. i wouldnt have a problem dating a black girl just because of her skin.

My town is super homophobic. I have 2 openly gay friends -- things aren't going wel for them...

its the same where i live in. people are so close minded about that topics here that it seems we were living in the 1920s or something. gay people are really cautious about coming out of the closet because they are bullied, discriminated or just looked bad at by a lot of people. its sad

[CaliforniaMatt]

I don't find dark skin to be sexually attractive. It all has to do with the individual, but I've never been really "into" black girls. I don't like over tanned people, either. It's just my preference. Not a fan of tattoos or piercings, either.

[Celtic.]

well im black and one of my ex girlfriends was White so pfft i dont care

[peaceNlove]

i have (kind of) dated a black girl but generally i find white girls more attractive. i wouldnt have a problem dating a black girl just because of her skin.



its the same where i live in. people are so close minded about that topics here that it seems we were living in the 1920s or something. gay people are really cautious about coming out of the closet because they are bullied, discriminated or just looked bad at by a lot of people. its sad

That's good that you don't care about skin color. But yea, that is sad the gay people are being treated like that in your town. People need to start caring for the feelings of people of different sexualities and races.

[PinkFloyd]

That must be really tough. You probably care for them a lot, huh? My town isn't super homophobic, but it is. I have some openly gay friends and some openly bisexual friends as well. My mom is a lesbian and her girlfriend lives with me and my sisters, but they've had problems. Some people tell them that they should go to hell, even if me or my two younger sisters are around. It's sad. My friends haven't had a lot of trouble(one them does with her grandma though)

That sounds awful! People should be who they want to be without fear of being discriminated against. I'm sorry people say that stuff.

[peaceNlove]

I don't find dark skin to be sexually attractive. It all has to do with the individual, but I've never been really "into" black girls. I don't like over tanned people, either. It's just my preference. Not a fan of tattoos or piercings, either.

Oh yea. Well at least you don't like them other than thats just what you're not into. Guys sometimes don't like black girls because of stereotypes. It's cool that you know what you're into:)

[CaliforniaMatt]

If she has an good personality, why not? I'm just not naturally attracted by looks, there has to be something else there.

[peaceNlove]

That sounds awful! People should be who they want to be without fear of being discriminated against. I'm sorry people say that stuff.

It's okay. My mom's pretty confident in who she is( I love that about her). So it doesn't really bother her, but it bothers me and my sister but she tells us that they're just mean people and that we need to learn how to not care what other people say. But yea it's horrible that people discriminate against gay people when they're just human beings like everyone else.

[PinkFloyd]

It's okay. My mom's pretty confident in who she is( I love that about her). So it doesn't really bother her, but it bothers me and my sister but she tells us that they're just mean people and that we need to learn how to not care what other people say. But yea it's horrible that people discriminate against gay people when they're just human beings like everyone else.

That's good to hear. The two friends I mentioned are some of the best friends that I have. I mean they don't deserve all the crap they get. No one does in my opinion.

[peaceNlove]

If she has an good personality, why not? I'm just not naturally attracted by looks, there has to be something else there.

It's great that you think that way. Most of the guys at my school care too much about looks. I see all the funny, pretty, nice, intelligent girls at my school go without boyfriends because the guys want girls that will have sex with them (unfortunately there's a lot, look up the number one city for teen pregnancy min the US and you'll know where i am).

[CaliforniaMatt]

It's great that you think that way. Most of the guys at my school care too much about looks. I see all the funny, pretty, nice, intelligent girls at my school go without boyfriends because the guys want girls that will have sex with them (unfortunately there's a lot, look up the number one city for teen pregnancy min the US and you'll know where i am).

A lot of those sweet girls will have sex, if they're with someone in a truly loving relationship. Too many guys want to hit n run, though. It's disgusting.

[peaceNlove]

That's good to hear. The two friends I mentioned are some of the best friends that I have. I mean they don't deserve all the crap they get. No one does in my opinion.

Yea thats true, no one deserves it. What do your friends go through? (Only if you're okay with telling)

[Obi-Fran]

Sure! think about Rihanna :yes:

[PinkFloyd]

Yea thats true, no one deserves it. What do your friends go through? (Only if you're okay with telling)

Physical threats. the ONE person I've pulled the gun that I carry with me was this kid that I think was about to stab one of them who is Joe. I didn't want to do it -- but I mean..... his life was sort of at stake.

[peaceNlove]

A lot of those sweet girls will have sex, if they're with someone in a truly loving relationship. Too many guys want to hit n run, though. It's disgusting.

Yea thats true, there are sweet girls who will have sex with guys they love. Some of the girls at my school though, go by the "yolo" philosophy in a bad way. But I'm sure most schools do. So some girls are just as disgusting as guys when it comes to hit and runs.

Physical threats. the ONE person I've pulled the gun that I carry with me was this kid that I think was about to stab one of them who is Joe. I didn't want to do it -- but I mean..... his life was sort of at stake.

Wow thats horrible! It's great that you stood up for your friend, not the way I would have done it but he could of killed your friend so i understand completely why you did that. Did you actually shoot the kid?

Please don't double post! I've merged your posts ~DerBear

[PinkFloyd]

Wow thats horrible! It's great that you stood up for your friend, not the way I would have done it but he could of killed your friend so i understand completely why you did that. Did you actually shoot the kid?

noooooo, When he saw the muzzle of that thing his face went pale and then he dropped the knife. Afterwards he proceeded to running away.

[peaceNlove]

noooooo, When he saw the muzzle of that thing his face went pale and then he dropped the knife. Afterwards he proceeded to running away.

Oh okay. That's good. I can't believe people can be so evil like that. It's horrible. Trying to hurt someone because they aren't the same as them.

[PinkFloyd]

Oh okay. That's good. I can't believe people can be so evil like that. It's horrible. Trying to hurt someone because they aren't the same as them.

Well the kid is in Juvie right now. And guess what for? Assault...

[peaceNlove]

Well the kid is in Juvie right now. And guess what for? Assault...

Oh wow...what's up with this kid? Why's he like that?

[PinkFloyd]

Oh wow...what's up with this kid? Why's he like that?

He's just bad news.

[peaceNlove]

He's just bad news.

I feel sorry for him. He obviously has little morals (if not any at all) he has to live like that and that sucks.

[xmojox]

I dated a black girl. She was pretty amazing. The only reason we broke up is because she had to move.

[peaceNlove]

I dated a black girl. She was pretty amazing. The only reason we broke up is because she had to move.


That's awesome. Sorry she had to move though:( how long did you guys go out for?

[xmojox]

Thanks. Yeah it sucked. We were together for like 4 months. Not super long but kinda

[CoolKid97]

I would :) as Michael Jackson said "If you wanna be my baby it don't matter if your black or white" or that's how it went.

[peaceNlove]

Thanks. Yeah it sucked. We were together for like 4 months. Not super long but kinda

That's pretty long to me. Lol. Do you still talk to her?

[joeyy]

I've never dated a black girl, but I find them just as attractive as white women. Personality plays a big role for me. I've seen many attractive whites, blacks, Hispanics etc, but if they act ignorant or trashy I won't go near them.

[peaceNlove]

I've never dated a black girl, but I find them just as attractive as white women. Personality plays a big role for me. I've seen many attractive whites, blacks, Hispanics etc, but if they act ignorant or trashy I won't go near them.

Oh yea, those kind of girls are the worst. Lol

[Erasmus]

If I liked her and she liked me, I would go out with her, absolutely. Race doesn't factor into the equation at all.

[peaceNlove]

If I liked her and she liked me, I would go out with her, absolutely. Race doesn't factor into the equation at all.

That's awesome:)

[UnknownError]

Duh I'd rather go out with a black girl than a white girl they're far more fun from what I know. Also my school is weird there's only 1 black person in like the entire school (asians dont count) and he gets offended by the word black?

[peaceNlove]

Duh I'd rather go out with a black girl than a white girl they're far more fun from what I know. Also my school is weird there's only 1 black person in like the entire school (asians dont count) and he gets offended by the word black?

Really? One black person? That's crazy. Wait, what do you mean by Asians don't count? Lol. I don't understand why some black people get offended by people calling them black. I mean, most people call white people white and not Caucasian. Im guessing that because no one else is black that he gets offended because sometimes it has negative connotations because of stereotypes.

[crepesuzette]

i could care less about a person's ethnicity.

[peaceNlove]

i could care less about a person's ethnicity.

That's good:)

[brisk]

This is a difficult question to answer. I have feelings for someone of the same ethnicity as me. If I didn't, I'd definitely consider dating someone of a different race or ethnic background.

[peaceNlove]

This is a difficult question to answer. I have feelings for someone of the same ethnicity as me. If I didn't, I'd definitely consider dating someone of a different race or ethnic background.

That's cool:) not everybody thinks that way. Even people of ethnic backgrounds only date people of their race. I have a friend (white) who's parents only want her to date white guys. She's dated a mixed black and white guy and she's dating a Mexican guy right now, but they are not into her relationships when shes dating someone of a different race. It's sad.

[UnknownError]

Really? One black person? That's crazy. Wait, what do you mean by Asians don't count? Lol. I don't understand why some black people get offended by people calling them black. I mean, most people call white people white and not Caucasian. Im guessing that because no one else is black that he gets offended because sometimes it has negative connotations because of stereotypes.

Well there's like Filipinos and Pakistani's and an Indian girl but they aren't actually black. :P And yeah I don't understand it either.

[johnpatric]

Honestly I like to date black girls, so definitely I would date black girls....

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