Sexaulity

[Calz2000]

Atm i'm really confused about my sexuality..I mean i get turned on by girls, but i have always found penises more attractive than vaginas..I like tits though..
Can anyone help me? I've masturbated to guys and girls so i'm not sure.
Im 13, male.

[justin 13]

Dude, I cant help you, I just turn on by boys. I love boys.

[Calz2000]

Maybe i'm gay then, im not sure:/

[ImCoolBeans]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality

During puberty, which you're most likely starting, it's very common to become sexually curious. Both boys and girls both experience a spike in hormones and have huge sex drives, sometimes even for the same sex. This doesn't necessarily mean you're gay, especially since you have said you have an interest in girls. A lot of guys go through this, but most choose not to talk about it since it can be embarrassing and they may not have an appropriate place like this to ask their questions. It's possible that you could be bi-sexual, meaning that you're interested in both sexes, but I wouldn't feel the need to label myself if I were you. You're still very young and have only just begun puberty. Your hormones are raging and are all over the place, so things can change in the blink of an eye. Don't worry, you're not alone on this one.

[johnsmith1]

It's OK. I was like that at your age. You're still young, and you're hormones are still going mad. Most boys going through puberty will get all sorts of feelings and thoughts. You will find your way eventually over the next couple of years. Just enjoy the ride

[DoodleSnap]

In would say wait and see how things unfold. You have many years to decide. Don't worry about it.

[spotlessmind]

At your age, try to not follow your feelings even if you find males attracting. Try to think about girls more often. Life of gay is hard (my thinking: the more you look at guys when you're young, the more likely you will turn gay) so it is worth it to control your feelings by looking at girls more often at your age. I hope you will be alright.

[rodriguez_miker]

It's just hormones bud. You are just curious

[Faolan]

At your age, try to not follow your feelings even if you find males attracting. Try to think about girls more often. Life of gay is hard (my thinking: the more you look at guys when you're young, the more likely you will turn gay) so it is worth it to control your feelings by looking at girls more often at your age. I hope you will be alright.

Don't listen to this guy. Whatever happens happens. There's not really a way to control your sexuality, unless you want to stay closeted your whole life. If you end up being gay, so what? There's nothing wrong with that. It sounds like you're probably bi, though.

[Bethany]

Think about it - which gender, boys or girls, can you actually imagine yourself in a relationship with? But don't worry too much about labeling yourself - as you get older, your sexuality will likely seem clearer to you.

QUOTE=gorillanator;2202358]Don't listen to this guy. Whatever happens happens. There's not really a way to control your sexuality, unless you want to stay closeted your whole life. If you end up being gay, so what? There's nothing wrong with that. It sounds like you're probably bi, though.[/QUOTE]

Agreed. Suppressing your sexuality will just make you miserable in the long run.

[steellord321]

At your age, try to not follow your feelings even if you find males attracting. Try to think about girls more often. Life of gay is hard (my thinking: the more you look at guys when you're young, the more likely you will turn gay) so it is worth it to control your feelings by looking at girls more often at your age. I hope you will be alright.

This is not going to work. Sexuality isnt conditioning. Enjoy whatever gay or str8 feelings u have and you'll enjoy life more. Then when the label comes to u down the road it won't be so hard to accept if u are gay/bi.

[Twilly F. Sniper]

Don't listen to this guy. Whatever happens happens. There's not really a way to control your sexuality, unless you want to stay closeted your whole life. If you end up being gay, so what? There's nothing wrong with that. It sounds like you're probably bi, though.

Agreed. You can't control sexuality. I agree that you sound like me when I figured it out, at 11.

[crepesuzette]

Dude, I cant help you, I just turn on by boys. I love boys.

me too, guys are kind of hot. whenever i see a cute guy, i just want to stare at him all day long without his noticing me. once, i saw this really cute guy in my class, i started to introduce myself to him and then we talked and then after a while i rubbed his hair just to indicate that i have some feelings for him and now i feel like i should tell him that the reason i did was that i had feelings for him.

[crepesuzette]

i think your hormones are causing you to feel this way. when i was 12, i began to have feelings for guys. i did not know why i had them because before i loved girls to pieces and then all of a sudden i started to become more attracted to guys and less to females. to make matters worse, girls treated me like shit. but now i'm 17, and I'm starting to like women again because a few days ago I noticed a girl with shorts on. I found her attractive and i thought am i starting to like girls again?

[kye.]

Atm i'm really confused about my sexuality..I mean i get turned on by girls, but i have always found penises more attractive than vaginas..I like tits though..
Can anyone help me? I've masturbated to guys and girls so i'm not sure.
Im 13, male.

You might be bi, but you're attracted to guys sexually and girls emotionally :) or maybe you're just curious. Only time will tell.

[Magnus Bane]

just so you know you could be bi or bi-courious and some guys masterbate to gay porn and they're totally str8... you shouldn't worry about labels either you love who you love and it shouldn't matter to anyone.

[boringkid]

Atm i'm really confused about my sexuality..I mean i get turned on by girls, but i have always found penises more attractive than vaginas..I like tits though..
Can anyone help me? I've masturbated to guys and girls so i'm not sure.
Im 13, male.

I am the exact same way

[ChrisA1998]

Atm i'm really confused about my sexuality..I mean i get turned on by girls, but i have always found penises more attractive than vaginas..I like tits though..
Can anyone help me? I've masturbated to guys and girls so i'm not sure.
Im 13, male.

Dont worry I'm the same as you, you shouldn't be confused, just follow your heart ;)

[JonasBe]

Seems that you might be bi.
But don't worry about it too much. Doesn't matter if you end up gay, bi or straight. Just do what feels good. If you like to masturbate and fantasize about boys/guys there's nothing wrong with it. We live in 2013, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with being gay or bi, don't let anyone else convince you otherwise.

[xmojox]

At your age, try to not follow your feelings even if you find males attracting. Try to think about girls more often. Life of gay is hard (my thinking: the more you look at guys when you're young, the more likely you will turn gay) so it is worth it to control your feelings by looking at girls more often at your age. I hope you will be alright.

This is the most bogus thing I've ever read. Maybe you're straight, maybe you're bi, maybe you're gay. Whatever you wind up being, it's outta your control. Just accept yourself no matter what your sexuality winds up being, because it's all "normal" and it's all ok.