Help? Don't know what to do?

[PerpetualMotionSquad]

I will try and keep this as short as I can.
This girl (since last year) has liked me. I was really flattered when she told me however I politely said no thanks. Since I said that I get grief from her friends (abuse etc) and also she won't get with anyone else just to make me feel guilty. Is there anything I can do to keep that space? Because all I am thinking now is to just get with her so I don't get any more annoyances from her and her friends. At advice would be appreciated :)

[unnamed94]

why would you get with her to stop that if you dont like her? doesnt make sense at all. what her friends and her are doing is really immature. i dont really know what you could do or say to stop that but i wouldnt just fall in their game by dating her.

[PerpetualMotionSquad]

It'd only be a last resort kind of thing. It'd just give me a bit of peace :P

[ImCoolBeans]

Hooking up with her under those circumstances would be pretty shitty on your part and if she ever found out about that I'm sure she wouldn't appreciate it. I know I wouldn't if I did.

My advice is to tell them, along with her, that it just isn't going to happen. I don't know what you said to her when you turned her down the first time, but it doesn't seem like anybody took the hint. Try to make it clear that you are not interested, just take her feelings into consideration. Don't be mean, just be clear.

[ajp1993]

Dont go out with her because her friends bully you into it. But playing devils advocate, maybe suggest you go on a date together... Unless she really hideous/demented/whatever. Obviously explain its like a one off see how things are. If at the end of it you still want to say 'no thanks' at least you can say it with a clean concious. Just dont like start making out with her or something unless you do want it to happen again, because if she and her mates think you've used her, then you're really never gonna hear the end of it

[crazy_teen]

If you already rejected her then just leave her alone. It's not fair to give her false hopes by going out with her if you don't really like her. She will get over you when she's ready. If she doesn't want to go out with anyone, then it's her choice. Her friends maybe immature but they'll tire of you soon and they will give you more grief if they find out that you'd only go out with their friend for your peace of mind.

[CaliforniaMatt]

HELL NO! Don't go out with her if you don't have feelings for her. She's too immature to cope with rejection, and her friends are even worse. Just stay away, they'll go back to playing with Barbies sooner or later.

[iwannago]

if i were you i would just tell her friends to leave tou alone just be straight up with them and be like" you guys need to leave me alone, i cant force myself to have feeling for her, and im not gonna fake it either, thanks. " LOL