Accept Yourself? Bisexuality or Curiousity? Coming out?

[Lovelife090994]

Hi! Last time I was here I was crying my eyes out over my sexuality...
I cried again last night I admit :| but I do feel better now and since I've had the feelings since I was like what, 7, I am near comfy that I'm bi. However I did not have the urge and sexual attractions to make me bi until puberty.
And I am curious. Is it curiosity or bisexuality?
I sadly have never dated...
I live with a Christian background...
My mom would hate to find out the truth...
No doubt if my family knew, IF, I'd be disowned...
I am still unsure and nervous...
Guess I just came out?


Not sure, I used to be so scared of what people would think and even God. Now I know God will still love me even if people won't but I know I gotta learn to accept myself and be me, no one else will.
Any thoughts or comments to share?

P.S. I will add this: It was hard to accpet my feelings since it goes against what I was taught and goes against how I feel towards homosexuality in every form even in bisexuality. I have no grudges nor do I judge but I am still full of thoughts... Aren't we all full of thoughts at least once in our lives? Guess it's true. My Philosophy
They may not accept me, him, her or you, but you must accept yourself, because if you don't you'll try and change ignoring who you are.

[Cognizant]

I've settled and came out as bisexual, but now I'm having second thoughts. I'm definitely not straight, but I'm not sure what I am...

[kye.]

I don't like being bi, it's complicated :'( I wish I was just a normal guy with a normal life.

[Lovelife090994]

I don't like being bi, it's complicated :'( I wish I was just a normal guy with a normal life.

I've settled and came out as bisexual, but now I'm having second thoughts. I'm definitely not straight, but I'm not sure what I am...

I am so unsure and I wish I was sure and normal! I wish I was 100% straight but I know I'm not.

[BandedKlepto]

I am so unsure and I wish I was sure and normal! I wish I was 100% straight but I know I'm not.


I don't believe in 100% straight. I think that was just some unspoken law passed down from generations plus the bible to add on, that makes people think they have to be straight- and anything otherwise is wrong and they are abnormal which makes them uncomfortable with anything otherwise.
I was raised without religion, and without sexuality "guidelines" I know homosexual behavior does occur in nature- which leads me to believe it's normal in life- We as humans have it put in our head by society and what-not that being straight is the way to go. I don't think so, I am label-less, I guess I could be considered bisexual. I came out as Bi, but I didn't really have another word for it. I can date a girl just as easily as I can date a guy(I am with a guy now actually) or even a transsexual, I don't care about gender, gender is meaningless if you think about it long enough as I have. Maybe it's the fact that I was raised without a specified religion and sexual preference that I see things different than others, I am not sure.
But I know straight is normal, gay is normal, bi is normal, sexuality is just an unnecessary label, what ever you are is completely normal.
That's just my belief, so. Yuh. xD

[LuciferSam]

I have entertained the possibility that I may be bisexual. I am attracted to girls, and some guys, but feelings of attraction towards other guys only occur if they are notably effeminate in appearence, so I don't know if this is really bisexuality or just my brain getting confused...

[Lovelife090994]

I don't believe in 100% straight. I think that was just some unspoken law passed down from generations plus the bible to add on, that makes people think they have to be straight- and anything otherwise is wrong and they are abnormal which makes them uncomfortable with anything otherwise.
I was raised without religion, and without sexuality "guidelines" I know homosexual behavior does occur in nature- which leads me to believe it's normal in life- We as humans have it put in our head by society and what-not that being straight is the way to go. I don't think so, I am label-less, I guess I could be considered bisexual. I came out as Bi, but I didn't really have another word for it. I can date a girl just as easily as I can date a guy(I am with a guy now actually) or even a transsexual, I don't care about gender, gender is meaningless if you think about it long enough as I have. Maybe it's the fact that I was raised without a specified religion and sexual preference that I see things different than others, I am not sure.
But I know straight is normal, gay is normal, bi is normal, sexuality is just an unnecessary label, what ever you are is completely normal.
That's just my belief, so. Yuh. xD


Thanks for the reply, care to talk?

[BandedKlepto]

Thanks for the reply, care to talk?


If you mean in messages- My account doesn't have 100 posts yet, or however that works, it told me that when I tried to message you back earlier :u

[Lovelife090994]

I have entertained the possibility that I may be bisexual. I am attracted to girls, and some guys, but feelings of attraction towards other guys only occur if they are notably effeminate in appearence, so I don't know if this is really bisexuality or just my brain getting confused...

Perhaps? But it could be curiosity

[Bethany]

It's complicated. I don't mind being bi, but I'm not really happy about it.

[that94guy]

Recently made up my mind that I'm gay. I've chosen to accept myself after a long time try to fight my feelings. I must say It was truely a battle. Even though now I feel comfortable and happy in my own skin, I know society won't be comfortable with me, and I'm not ready to tell anyone. Sometimes I'm just thinking and have no ideas what my future will turn into… maybe choose to be alone to the rest of my life?

[Celtic.]

i clicked straight but sometimes i think im bisexual. ive never seen a guy that i wanted to make out with or found them hot but i have had fantasies of banging a guy.

[teen.jpg]

I've been coming out as bi, but I feel gay. I dunno.

[ChrisA1998]

Hi! Last time I was here I was crying my eyes out over my sexuality...
I cried again last night I admit :| but I do feel better now and since I've had the feelings since I was like what, 7, I am near comfy that I'm bi. However I did not have the urge and sexual attractions to make me bi until puberty.
And I am curious. Is it curiosity or bisexuality?
>> if you only want to try out with another boy to see how it is, I guess you're curious. If you have love feelings for a boy, then you're gay. or bi if you also have those feelings for girls.
I sadly have never dated...
>> That means : either you are too shy to ask some one out. You can ask for advice on this forum. I can help you out if you will, though I wont pretend I'm specialist and it doesnt work out all the time ^^. either it means you haven't found the right girl (or boy). Dont force yourself to date someone just to say you've done it, it takes time to really apprecialte someone ;)
I live with a Christian background...
>> so what ?
My mom would hate to find out the truth...
>> you live your life for you, not for your parents. The only thing that parents should want for their children, its for them to be happy. If you dont love girls, and you are happy being with another boy, they should be happy that you feel good with him. Parents are not supposed to hate you, they are supposed to support you, especially dont feel well, confused, or sad.
No doubt if my family knew, IF, I'd be disowned...
>> same as above
I am still unsure and nervous...
>> Wait and see what happens next, you will see when you start to be in love with someone.
Guess I just came out?
>> maybe you did ^^


Not sure, I used to be so scared of what people would think and even God. Now I know God will still love me even if people won't but I know I gotta learn to accept myself and be me, no one else will.
Any thoughts or comments to share?
>> if people dont accept you, you dont give a crap about them. If your friends reject you and hate you because they found out you're gay, then that means they were not really your friends, and you dont lose anything if they're no longer your "friends". Friends are here to have fun with, but much like parents, they are also here to support you when you dont feel good

[xmojox]

Why be in such a hurry to hang a label on yourself, Christopher? See all the anxiety that comes from worrying about labels? Just relax and enjoy learning who you are and remember not matter who you end up liking, it's normal. There's nothin wrong with you because of it. Figure out who you are then be the best you that you can be.