Strawberry_Essence
March 25th, 2013, 09:32 PM
I'm supposed to be a softball team right now. I left early because there is rumors about me going around. My mom was pissed and wasn't going to put up with it so she took me home.
We have an hour long warm-up before our game. IT's the same routine everyday and nobody has any problems with anybody else with and exception of 3 maybe 4 people on the team. I had a problem with a girl that goes by Maddie. She would always make me feel bad about how I played and would tell me I( sucked and so on. I started getting tired of her comments about me so whenever she said something rude to me I'd just return it right back to her. She finally got the message and stopped/ Today during the practice I began to realize that her and I never really talked previously before the friction began so I assumed that the problem between us may lie in the fact that we had no connection. So I decided to be nice to her and helped her when she needed it and accepted it and we ended up feeling fine and great around each other. I spent a large amount of time helping her out.
I had to go warm-up pitching because I'd be pitching the first inning. I'm not a great pitcher but I'm a utility player so when I'm needed that's just where I go.
(My dad happens to be the coach, but it's not like he sucks up to me and puts me in the best positions because I'm his daughter, It's the COMPLETE opposite)
While I was pitching I noticed a girl I really liked was crying and speaking to my dad. She then ran off to go to the bathroom I guess. I wasn't really concerned so I didn't pay much attention to it. Finally when we were don't warming up we moved into the dugout and got ready to start the game. I went up to go pitch but half way through the inning my father walks out calls for a time-out and puts the girl who was crying into pitch. I switched places with her and went to go sit in the dugout. My dad walked over to me (OH and he's notorious for being a complete ASSHOLE to me and my family but sucks up to everybody else and make their kids the star) and he says, "You know what you're out for the rest of the game. No you're kicked off the team." I stood up and I was confused and asked why. He said that I had called the girl that was crying Ugly and that if we lost the game it'd be because of her. BUT I NEVER SAID THAT. I DIDN'T EVEN SPEAK TO HER THE ENTIRE GAME. I was so angry, and all the parents were staring at me angrily as well. I ran up to where my mother was sitting and started crying because I have no idea where the hell they got this from. My mom was angry too because she believed I would never say that. And we were BOTH angry that MY OWN FATHER was believing them too. He said "I have 3 furious parents who are angry that the coaches daughter is running her mouth like this." The mother of the girl who was crying told EVERYBODY in the stands what I "said" and they all made their own jurisdiction on what I said with out even hearing my side of the story. One of parents told me to hang myself. They were all screaming at me and I NEVER SAID THAT. I hadn't said a single word to this girl, during the entire game, I was with Maddie making peace! I left the field with my mother and my mom went up to the president of the league and t old him flat out in front of his own softball team. That she was enraged that her own husband is believing them. The girls on his team were angry too because they all said that I would never say something like that. They are people that have known me all my live and even they didn't believe it. We just left and here I am typing this while the game is still going. I'm just really upset and I can't stop crying. I don't know what to do. I quit the team and I'm going to find a different sport to play because this mother has gone to everyone spreading rumors.
To hell with everyone else. I'm done.
We have an hour long warm-up before our game. IT's the same routine everyday and nobody has any problems with anybody else with and exception of 3 maybe 4 people on the team. I had a problem with a girl that goes by Maddie. She would always make me feel bad about how I played and would tell me I( sucked and so on. I started getting tired of her comments about me so whenever she said something rude to me I'd just return it right back to her. She finally got the message and stopped/ Today during the practice I began to realize that her and I never really talked previously before the friction began so I assumed that the problem between us may lie in the fact that we had no connection. So I decided to be nice to her and helped her when she needed it and accepted it and we ended up feeling fine and great around each other. I spent a large amount of time helping her out.
I had to go warm-up pitching because I'd be pitching the first inning. I'm not a great pitcher but I'm a utility player so when I'm needed that's just where I go.
(My dad happens to be the coach, but it's not like he sucks up to me and puts me in the best positions because I'm his daughter, It's the COMPLETE opposite)
While I was pitching I noticed a girl I really liked was crying and speaking to my dad. She then ran off to go to the bathroom I guess. I wasn't really concerned so I didn't pay much attention to it. Finally when we were don't warming up we moved into the dugout and got ready to start the game. I went up to go pitch but half way through the inning my father walks out calls for a time-out and puts the girl who was crying into pitch. I switched places with her and went to go sit in the dugout. My dad walked over to me (OH and he's notorious for being a complete ASSHOLE to me and my family but sucks up to everybody else and make their kids the star) and he says, "You know what you're out for the rest of the game. No you're kicked off the team." I stood up and I was confused and asked why. He said that I had called the girl that was crying Ugly and that if we lost the game it'd be because of her. BUT I NEVER SAID THAT. I DIDN'T EVEN SPEAK TO HER THE ENTIRE GAME. I was so angry, and all the parents were staring at me angrily as well. I ran up to where my mother was sitting and started crying because I have no idea where the hell they got this from. My mom was angry too because she believed I would never say that. And we were BOTH angry that MY OWN FATHER was believing them too. He said "I have 3 furious parents who are angry that the coaches daughter is running her mouth like this." The mother of the girl who was crying told EVERYBODY in the stands what I "said" and they all made their own jurisdiction on what I said with out even hearing my side of the story. One of parents told me to hang myself. They were all screaming at me and I NEVER SAID THAT. I hadn't said a single word to this girl, during the entire game, I was with Maddie making peace! I left the field with my mother and my mom went up to the president of the league and t old him flat out in front of his own softball team. That she was enraged that her own husband is believing them. The girls on his team were angry too because they all said that I would never say something like that. They are people that have known me all my live and even they didn't believe it. We just left and here I am typing this while the game is still going. I'm just really upset and I can't stop crying. I don't know what to do. I quit the team and I'm going to find a different sport to play because this mother has gone to everyone spreading rumors.
To hell with everyone else. I'm done.