Family Taunting my Singleness? :(

[CharlieHorse]

It seems like every day, someone mentions or jokes about me being single.Every little comment they'll say to me feels like I'm getting beaten by a hammer.
I always try to smile and stuff, but I don't think I can keep doing this.
I'm worried I'll break down soon in front of them. I don't want to cry in front of everyone.
I'm terribly lonely. I want someone that i can love; someone that i can give everything for. I hate seeing couples so happy all around me.
I've been depressed for years.
I'm so tired.
I feel so pathetic, stupid, and ugly.
I can't even think straight.

I've realized that I love feeling really sad, and so I'll try to isolate myself so that I don't get any friends. I think I deserve it.


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I realize that this thread is really stupid... sorry for wasting your time.

[Horatio Nelson]

What's your sexuality? I do know your pain, I'm sorry that you feel so depressed.....I kinda suck at giving advice sometimes. PM me if you wanna talk more.

[CharlieHorse]

What's your sexuality? I do know your pain, I'm sorry that you feel so depressed.....I kinda suck at giving advice sometimes. PM me if you wanna talk more.

I think I'm straight...

[Horatio Nelson]

Had to ask, because there is a (surprisingly) large LGBT community here.

[CharlieHorse]

Had to ask, because there is a (surprisingly) large LGBT community here.

Yeah I know.

[JoeHillsTSD]

Don't worry, I've had one relationship and the only thing we did was text. I've been single for 4 years and just about everyday, I get ridiculed by my friend and family.

You know what I do, I act like it doesn't bother me. I roll with the pinches and laugh with them. I went with my two friends who were going out with each other to a deli and spent the afternoon with them. One of them (the guy) kept saying stuff about me being single and how I wasnt a third wheel because I had brought 'righty' with me on the date. I laughed with him, and agreed. I haven't heard him talk about me being since.

Show them that you enjoy their jokes. I promise you, they will stop. If you are having fun, it's no fun for them.

Also, put yourself out there. If you want a relationship, find dimwit you like, pursue them, and if it doesn't wok, try - try again. Wish you the best of luck :)

[CharlieHorse]

Don't worry, I've had one relationship and the only thing we did was text. I've been single for 4 years and just about everyday, I get ridiculed by my friend and family.

You know what I do, I act like it doesn't bother me. I roll with the pinches and laugh with them. I went with my two friends who were going out with each other to a deli and spent the afternoon with them. One of them (the guy) kept saying stuff about me being single and how I wasnt a third wheel because I had brought 'righty' with me on the date. I laughed with him, and agreed. I haven't heard him talk about me being since.

Show them that you enjoy their jokes. I promise you, they will stop. If you are having fun, it's no fun for them.

Also, put yourself out there. If you want a relationship, find dimwit you like, pursue them, and if it doesn't wok, try - try again. Wish you the best of luck :)

They aren't exactly trying to be mean, they're just joking with me.
I've been going along with it, but I cant take it anymore.
It hurts.

I guess I really don't know what I want...

[xxPerryPlatypusxx]

aw charkteeth keep your head up high
so what if you don't have a boyfriend/girlfriend whatever
the world wasn't made that way. everyone goes through being single and having to wait to find their one true love. you didn't waste your time by writing this thread you were just merely expressing deep pain that you are feeling. I read what you wrote
people making comments at you-sure they're gonna bug you and they don't have a right but you just gotta learn to let it go in one ear and out the other
thats what I do. if someone has something nasty to say about me I just ignore them. in one ear and out the other. I know it can be difficult to forget about hurtful things people say to you granted nothing is easy.
but then again they shouldn't be constantly pressuring you to find someone
just take your time. don't ever feel rushed to jump into a relationship

best of luck and although I am new I am here if you wish to talk :)

[JoeHillsTSD]

Ask them to quit it. My older cousin picks on me when he comes over and one day I separated myself from everyone and let him know what he was doing wasn't cool with me.

Get them in a serious environment and talk to them.
If you don't know what you want, take some time to figure it out. Take 10-15 mins right now to figure out how you feel about the situation

[CharlieHorse]

Part of me wants to be out there and looking, but a bigger part of me wants to isolate myself. I'm not good enough for anyone. Really, I'm selfish, and lazy, and mean to everyone... I'm just not a good person. I won't get far in life. I won't make anyone happy.

I feel like I deserve loneliness forever.
Nobody should have to put up with me.
I'm just so conflicted. It's not just this, I'm too tired to type about the other stuff.

[Horatio Nelson]

Well that's not a good attitude to have.

[JoeHillsTSD]

I'm selfish, I'm lazy, sarcastic, clingy, loud, annoying, rude, obnoxious i have a speech impediment, a scared body, and I have really bad days often.

But I'm also funny, and smart, dedicated, talented, caring and loving. Stop looking at your negative qualities. It will get you no where. I could sit here and list 100 reasons why I should be alone. But instead, I dwell on the good.

Even if you think there is only one good thing about yourself, emphasize it. Find a cute girl, ask her to see the Oz and start something! You will only hear negative and if allow it to enter your life.

[CharlieHorse]

Sorry guys, I've been without sleep for days. I'm really tired, and conflicted, and I'm not making any sense. I have no Idea how I feel.