Am I gay/bi?

[chrisf55]

[DELETED} (Because of my embarassment)

[IAMMCLOVIN]

Honestly, it depends on what your definition of gay is. Being gay is 99% mental. YOU decide if you're gay. Just because you get a boner doesn't make you gay. I've gave my friends handjobs and I don't consider myself "gay". Same goes for bi. I honestly don't know what I am lol.

[Reagan Smash Bros]

Its perfectly normal for that to have happened at this age with your horomones going crazy. It does not make you gay or bisexual at all. You're only gay if you have emotional and physical attraction to the same gender only. You're only bisexual if have emotional and physical attraction to both genders. Picture yourself in a relationship with a boy, if you can't imagine that then I don't believe you're either. Hope I helped!

[Dan01]

i would say its more weird that your dad got an erection over his son.

[gui0506]

Some guys here are pretty flexible in their definitions of gay/bi. Giving a friend a handjob is enough to consider someone gay IMO (nobody asked for it, i kno). I like girls but I'd totally do that. I consider myself bisexual for this reason, even though there's a long way between attraction to guys and truly loving a man. That's why I consider myself much less gay than some guy who might have true feelings for another man.

[sdude]

Just try and be yourself and stop worrying about the labels..life will tell you yourself if you are gay, bi or someplace inbetween...people are sexual beings, even your Dad..I'm sure he was surprised that he got an erection after seeing your reaction...we are just humans and subject to whatever the brain is excited by seeing or feeling.

[Jakey116]

perfectly normal buddy, don't honestly think your gay just tryna figure yourself out

[rodriguez_miker]

It's just your hormones.

[justin 13]

No dude, u r not gay.

[xXl0sth0peXx]

This is more relevant here.

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[teen.jpg]

You probably aren't.

[Kjcj]

I've considered myself straight my whole life, but the other day I had to shower with my dad. We do have two bathrooms but we had been painting one of them. Well we were in a rush the other day because we were going to be late to church, so my dad woke me up and said I was going to have to shower with him in order to make it on time. When we were getting undressed I got a huge erection looking at him, his penis was like 8 inches long! I felt so embarrassed,, especially after he got one too. Is this normal? I think I might be gay or bi or something now.

I dont think your gay or bisexual, an erection is normal!

[ChrisFromKY]

Kentucky here too bro. I wouldn't worry about it man. It's normal. We've all got erections and felt embarrassed at times. Don't sweat it.