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[Fanta_Lover44]

Since the weekend i have got a bit depressed, for me i see no point in my life at this moment... My future is a massive brickwall that can't been beaten. My friends ignore me and i want new friends however im shy/nervous. My thinking of cutting contact with my dad recently as he makes little effort to see me. What should i do?

[brandon1995]

Hey, pubetry is a roller coaster ride of emotions for everyone and everyone feel like you do. Just keep moving forward with something...
As far as your dad, do you really want to break contact with him or is that a tactic to make him notice you and treat you more like you'd like?

[Fanta_Lover44]

Hey, pubetry is a roller coaster ride of emotions for everyone and everyone feel like you do. Just keep moving forward with something...
As far as your dad, do you really want to break contact with him or is that a tactic to make him notice you and treat you more like you'd like?

It's got nothing to do with puberty, i need a fresh start and yes i want to cut contact with my dad as he does not care about me and never makes much effort to see us.

[brandon1995]

Why do you need to cut what isn't there already?

[Breakeven]

things will get better , u will make friends in the right time , ur young and u still have alot of a head of u and about ur future , i dont think you should so when ur older u dont blame urself , try not to think about it
and everyone is here if u want to talk :hug:

[Stryker125]

I'm sorry you feel so bad, but you'll be okay. Things might suck now, but things don't ever stay the same. If you want to make new friends, you're gonna have to just take the chance and just put yourself out there. I know it's hard being shy and all, but in the end people are just people, they shouldn't make you nervous.

As far as your dad, I dunno. If you think the best thing to do is cut all contact with him, then do that.

I hope I helped a little, and that things work out for you.

[xmojox]

Kyle, no matter how bad things seem right now at this moment in time, you're gonna be ok. Your future seems to be a brick wall that you can't break through. Don't try to break through. Go around it. Go over it. Tunnel under it. It's all a matter of perspective. If from where you're standing all you see is brick wall, move and look at things from a different place. Try making a list of your 5 or 10 best qualities and think about how those are gonna help you in the future. It may sound lame, but acknowledge your good qualities and strong points to yourself and when you start feeling down make a mantra of them.

As far as friends go, I agree with Justin. You've just gotta take the chance and put yourself out there. It won't be easy, but if you make even one real friend, it'll be worth it.

I'm really sorry that your father has chosen to be the way that he is. You've gotta believe that his behavior isn't your fault. Your stepdad sounds like a great guy, though.

If you ever need to talk or just vent you can message me.

Be strong.

[JoaoBraz]

Been there bro, I still were 3 weeks ago,i really got into a deep depression but thank god everything ended up ok!
In my opinion what made me depressed with my life was because ppl and adults sometimes don't see what you are suffering..
Even tough I still ain't happy with my live, with my friends and with the people I love but im looking forward to achieve happiness.


Grammar mistakes? Sorry.. My native language isn't english