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chillaxman
March 24th, 2013, 07:19 AM
Hey, Virtual Teen, I could use some guidance with a situation.

There will be seven people, including myself, mentioned here:
Person 0 - Me
Person A - Girl I like
Person B - My best friend
Person C - A guy that Person A is rumored to like but doesn't
Person D - One of my friends
Person E - Girl I used to like for a little bit. We talk really often, though right now I'm seeing how long I can give her the silent treatment for.
Person F - Girl I used to like. After fall, I stopped liking her. We're pretty good friends now.

That being said, I consider myself good friends with Person A, but not good enough to get friend-zoned thankfully. I liked her last year, and Person B was trying to get us together. Because I was so nervous, the majority of what I did was give her my phone number and text her over the summer. We went from being classmates to friends. During the winter, I saw a lot more of her due to a mutual interest and we became closer friends. I didn't like her during the fall or winter, though. I was more convinced with liking Person E and Person F. I mess around with Person E a lot, asking things I'm not sure I can say on this board. It was nothing hinting at a relationship, more like me just playing around. I said things very out of character so she knew I wouldn't like her. I started asking her these things around February, after I started liking Person A in January. One night, messing around with Person E, there was a misunderstanding and she thought I liked her, even though she knew I liked Person A. That lead to me getting friend-zoned by Person E, which is cool.

I text Person A often. One day, I was texting her and told her I had to tell her something, but I couldn't because I didn't want people getting my phone. My phone is weird sometimes and I don't feel or hear the supposed vibration. I ended up stopping in the middle of the conversation. Then I left my phone on the table at a friend's house when I went to take a shower. Person D did something I'd never have the guts to, which was tell her I like her. Person D was disguising as me until Person A questioned it. Person D then identified himself as Person D, who person A doesn't know. So Person A doesn't know I like her. Person A likes Person B, though. Person B found this out a while ago, and he has made it clear to me he doesn't like Person A after something she did. He has also said he won't like Person A. Person A doesn't know Person B won't like her, though. Person C doesn't know Person B doesn't like Person A either, but he also doesn't know Person A likes Person B. Person C does like Person A, though. Person A doesn't share the same feelings, and Person B knows that. Person C doesn't know it.

This week I'm going to ask Person A out to some place (I am definitely going to do it.). I don't know if it'll be official asking her out or not. It depends on how she takes it. I'm pretty sure Person A will say yes, only because that's how she is. I fear Person C will ask Person A out soon and because of how she is, I think she'll say yes. So I'm pretty much racing against Person C. Any tips for how to ask her out? I'll probably go see a movie with her. Any tips for how I should go about that? Any advice regarding that and how I should go about this would greatly be appreciated. Thank you.

ImCoolBeans
March 24th, 2013, 09:49 AM
I think the best thing you can do is throw all of that away and just ask her/tell her. Being straight forward is usually the best course of action and shows confidence. If you're afraid that "Person C" is going to ask her out, then ask her out before he gets a chance to. You'll never get what you want in life if you don't go out on a limb and get it. The only way to make her your girl is to take the chance -- the worst thing she can do is say no -- so don't let yourself lose the chance.

chillaxman
March 24th, 2013, 11:09 AM
Thanks. I do have a problem with confidence, though. How can I improve that?

Also, I like your signature. Dragonite's pretty cool. :)