Me and my cousin getting horny ever Christmas and having sex

[Jango45]

Hey guys and girls go easy on me please
Well here goes ever Christmas time me and my cousin always
Meet up and every Christmas Time our family are to leave
While we wait we go into the guest room and mbate together
But then it starts to get out of hand and we start taking off our cloths

She wants to Have sex and I know it's wrong but I want to so badly

What do u think? Should we have it or not:confused:

[lancezer]

don't

[Harley Quinn]

Don't have sex with her, incest is so wrong on so many levels, for me personally. Obviously, some people think it's alright, but it's really not. I don't care if you want to experiment, you don't do it with someone you're related to. It's like if you said you're in love with your gran and you plan on starting a family together, I don't see how incest is "love" no matter what you're feelings are towards each other. Blood relatives shouldn't be having that type of contact, sure they have the feelings but to act on it would be wrong. Plus, it's illegal to have sexual contact with a family member.

[Wanderer_]

Why is that so wrong? It used to be commonplace for first cousins to marry - it still is in many cultures.
I believe there were even US presidents who did
They clearly are into each other and want to - why is it gross? You probably wouldn't even know they were related by looking at them - its just your societal programming tell you that's gross.

And you are in Australia so it's 100% legal to have sex together, fall in love, get married etc even though you are first cousins.

Please do not double post. -Grumpy

[Harley Quinn]

Why is that so wrong? It used to be commonplace for first cousins to marry - it still is in many cultures.
I believe there were even US presidents who did
They clearly are into each other and want to - why is it gross? You probably wouldn't even know they were related by looking at them - its just your societal programming tell you that's gross.

It's not society at all, my personal opinions are not based on those basis. They are based on an educated opinion, and if you don't like it that's your problem. If you read, I did say others would think it was okay. How about you read before trying to disagree agree with me. They would know themselves they're related and its a proven fact that incest births have a lot more problems than "normal" everyday ones do. Just because it was common does not make it right, not even in the slightest but I cannot influence peoples opinions, if they want to fuck why ask for other peoples opinions. Just go and do it.

[Wanderer_]

Grouchy bugger aren't you

I think they should, I bet it would be beautiful and memorable

[Sam-Joker]

i do not and CAN not prohibit you,but bit it's completely wrong in my idea

[Hunter_Steel]

Go ahead man, there's nothing wrong with it. And if you two really want to, you should. There are countries in the world where its totally legal, and love is love. Nothing you can do about that. If you two really want to, there should be nothing stopping you.

To me, Incest is nothing to be ashamed of. And its really like any normal relationship, and you can skip the part of moving in together because you already live together (unless your cousins) and you already know just about everything there is to know about each other. If people try to tell you its wrong, don't listen to them. Its totally not wrong.

*brings up point I made about blank DNA a while back* that can help sort out any deformities of any children made. If you two are planning to go that far.

~Hunter

[Wanderer_]

Genetic issues are soooo unlikely though - you have to be really closely bred and repeated generations for that to be a possibility

Anyway we are probably scaring him off sex with all this long term marriage, kids etc talk lol

Please do not double post. -Grumpy

[CaliforniaMatt]

Genetic issues are soooo unlikely though - you have to be really closely bred and repeated generations for that to be a possibility

I have a family friend who's daughter has some physical issues, severe autism and thyroid issues. The Dr.'s testing found out the problems stemmed from the parent's close family marriage, they are cousins.

Also, if you get her pregnant: have fun with your nephewbaby or w.e

[Wanderer_]

Wow ok, still really rare - poor kid :(
Was that the first closes marriage?

Three cheers for being on the pill is all I have to say lol

Please do not double post. -Grumpy

[sprouse530]

i say que sera sera lol ik im from USA but it is what it is, if u do it good for you if not then have fun just mas it sounds like u guys are into it and what ever floats ur boat personally, i wish i had a cousin that was that open about it lol just dont get caught guys that could be a lil awk to explain

[CaliforniaMatt]

Wow ok, still really rare - poor kid :(
Was that the first closes marriage?

2nd cousins I think

[xmojox]

The two of you should do what you both wanna do. But...wasn't Christmas like 3 months ago? Y'all been in that guest room awhile now :)

[Wanderer_]

Can't you see her before then?

[CaliforniaMatt]

Can't you see her before then?

I dislike this whole thread, too sketchy

[Harley Quinn]

Oh sweet baby Jesus. How are you all saying that incest is perfectly okay, and that love is love? There is a boundary when it comes to love and being in love with a family member, crosses it. Why would you even want to be in love with a family member, think about it, can you not find someone else so you have to settle for family? or are you just sick? Let's be serious now.

I really am about to go factual on you guys fucked up view point.

Sexual relations that results in offspring from incestuous relationships is a form of close inbreeding. Inbreeding leads to a higher probability of congenital birth defects because it increases that proportion of zygotes that are homozygous, in particular for deleterious recessive alleles that produce such disorders. Because most such alleles are rare in populations, it is unlikely that two unrelated marriage partners will both be heterozygous carriers. However, because close relatives share a large fraction of their alleles, the probability that any such rare deleterious allele present in the common ancestor will be inherited from both related parents is increased dramatically with respect to non-inbred couples. Studies suggest that 20-36% of these children will die or have major disability due to the inbreeding.

But sure, let's all go have sex with family member because it's totally sexy and probably better, who knows you better than family hey!

[CaliforniaMatt]

Oh sweet baby Jesus. How are you all saying that incest is perfectly okay, and that love is love? There is a boundary when it comes to love and being in love with a family member, crosses it. Why would you even want to be in love with a family member, think about it, can you not find someone else so you have to settle for family? or are you just sick? Let's be serious now.

I really am about to go factual on you guys fucked up view point.

Sexual relations that results in offspring from incestuous relationships is a form of close inbreeding. Inbreeding leads to a higher probability of congenital birth defects because it increases that proportion of zygotes that are homozygous, in particular for deleterious recessive alleles that produce such disorders. Because most such alleles are rare in populations, it is unlikely that two unrelated marriage partners will both be heterozygous carriers. However, because close relatives share a large fraction of their alleles, the probability that any such rare deleterious allele present in the common ancestor will be inherited from both related parents is increased dramatically with respect to non-inbred couples. Studies suggest that 20-36% of these children will die or have major disability due to the inbreeding.

But sure, let's all go have sex with family member because it's totally sexy and probably better, who knows you better than family hey!

These are some damn good words of wisdom

[Hunter_Steel]

Keeping an open mind, thats why its okay. Incest happens, whether you like it or not. The world is full of it:

Brother/sister
Father/daughter
Mother/son
Cousin/Cousin

Cousin and brother/sister incest relationships are okay. I DO however, draw the line at father/daughter and mother/son relationships. Those are just: ugh...

But yeah, brother/sister and cousin relationships are fine. Both people are basically the same age, know a lot about eachother, and if they really want to, and if they also really feel up to the responsibility, they could go on into a relationship, and perhaps eventually develop a sexual relationship.

Nothing wrong with it. I may be Christian, but I atleast hold an open mind about this stuff.

~Hunter

[CaliforniaMatt]

Have fun with defective babies.

[mynameisJ]

Incest. No. Just no.

[fast8]

that is totaly up to you

[SammyG17]

I'm a bit interested in why people are jumping straight to marriage/babies from this.

The guy said he just wanted to have sex. His cousin seems she wants to also. How many times have you fooled around with a brother, cousin, or even close friend? I really don't see the difference. Fooling around is fooling around. Or the proper word for it is experimenting. That said, there are many forms of birth control to prevent the whole "knocked up my cousin" scenario. So having fits about them having babies is moot, because neither of them have said they weren't going to use bc.

And from a science standpoint...
"Father/daughter, mother/son or brother/sister → 25% (1⁄4)
Grandfather/granddaughter or grandmother/grandson → 12.5% (1⁄8)
Half-brother/half-sister → 12.5% (1⁄8)
Uncle/niece or aunt/nephew → 12.5% (1⁄8)
Half-uncle/niece or half-aunt/nephew → 6.25% (1⁄16)
First cousins → 6.25% (1⁄16)
First cousins once removed or half-first cousins → 3.125% (1⁄32)"

***_ How to compute and inbreeding coefficient (the path method), Braque du Bourbonnais.

_ Knud Christensen, 4.5 Calculation of inbreeding and relationship, the tabular method, in 14. Genetic calculation applets and other programs.***

Those are the %'s that there will be genetic abnormalities based on first generation births.
My advice to the OP. Be safe, be smart, and if it is something you both want to do, share the moment. But be absolutely certain it won't make family gatherings in the future awkward, or change your relationship with her for the negative.

[itsLOGAN]

you can have babies with down sindrome (i cant spell) and you dont want a kid with one arm bigger than the other or have an extra ear growing where its "parts" should be now do you?

[Harley Quinn]

Experimenting with any family member is wrong. Experimenting with a friend is 100% different and if you can't realise that, your argument is completely flawed. 1) you aren't related to your friend. 2) there isn't anything wrong with experimental actions with friends, if you experiment with your siblings that's just strange. Stop being desperate, find someone else to shag. 3) relations is completely ethically, morally and generally wrong and if you don't think so, that's your issue.

Religion has nothing to do with this, I personally believe it's wrong. Love is not love. Like I have previously stated love has boundaries.

[Fanta_Lover44]

No don't, stand up to it, if you feel also it is wrong then try and have a word with her. :)


Hope this helped

[Rayquaza]

Experimenting with any family member is wrong. Experimenting with a friend is 100% different and if you can't realise that, your argument is completely flawed. 1) you aren't related to your friend. 2) there isn't anything wrong with experimental actions with friends, if you experiment with your siblings that's just strange. Stop being desperate, find someone else to shag. 3) relations is completely ethically, morally and generally wrong and if you don't think so, that's your issue.

Religion has nothing to do with this, I personally believe it's wrong. Love is not love. Like I have previously stated love has boundaries.

I totally agree with this. I think that incest is totally wrong morally and scientifically. As said before, many genetic disorders can occur through blood relationship births. But that's my two cents, if you really want to then do it but it's incredibly shallow and desperate.

[Wanderer_]

Lol scientifically wrong?
Charles Darwin (he knew a thing or two about heredity) and Albert Einstein (he was this science guy, came up with a few things u may have heard of) both were married to their cousins... It's only recently been viewed negatively to westerners

[Hunter_Steel]

Nothin wrong with it.

~Hunter

[Rayquaza]

Lol scientifically wrong?
Charles Darwin (he knew a thing or two about heredity) and Albert Einstein (he was this science guy, came up with a few things u may have heard of) both were married to their cousins... It's only recently been viewed negatively to westerners

Yes but so what if they were married to their cousins? It's still doesn't explain anything. There are reasons to show why incest is wrong, and the only thing you have said that makes incest seem correct is "it's beautiful."

[alexrox813]

Alright, well you do whatever you feel is right, but I'm saying DO NOT.

[Synyster Shadows]

I don't recommend you try this, but I can't stop you. Though I strongly urge you not to. Feels good but I have the feeling you'll end up regretting it later in life.

[appel1234]

Do what ever will make u happy if 'hat will make u happy then do it

[Wanderer_]

Yes but so what if they were married to their cousins? It's still doesn't explain anything. There are reasons to show why incest is wrong, and the only thing you have said that makes incest seem correct is "it's beautiful."

Because it does sound beautiful - two people attracted to each other, with special feelings for each other who can only see each other one day/night a year and can't wait for that time?

[Rayquaza]

Because it does sound beautiful - two people attracted to each other, with special feelings for each other who can only see each other one day/night a year and can't wait for that time?

You say it sounds beautiful, but even the OP knows it's wrong;
She wants to Have sex and I know it's wrong but I want to so badly

If the OP knows it's wrong, he shouldn't go through with it. Besides, they don't have feelings for each other, the thread is called "Me and my cousin getting horny ever Christmas and having sex", it's all about their libido, there is no love whatsoever it's just plain, simple, desperate sex with someone that's easy. That's all it is. No love whatsoever, but you're sugar coating it making it seem like it was fate and destiny, when it's not.

[Harley Quinn]

Because it does sound beautiful - two people attracted to each other, with special feelings for each other who can only see each other one day/night a year and can't wait for that time?

Oh my sweet fucking baby Jesus. They are not in love, they are not anything. The way you make 'special' sound is disgusting, if that's your idea of special I'd hate to see what horrible is to you.

[Wanderer_]

He knows society says its wrong - it wouldn't have been as big a deal for his parents or grandparents generations
If it's safe sex what's the harm?

[sprouse530]

Oh sweet baby Jesus. How are you all saying that incest is perfectly okay, and that love is love? There is a boundary when it comes to love and being in love with a family member, crosses it. Why would you even want to be in love with a family member, think about it, can you not find someone else so you have to settle for family? or are you just sick? Let's be serious now.

I really am about to go factual on you guys fucked up view point.



But sure, let's all go have sex with family member because it's totally sexy and probably better, who knows you better than family hey!


i was rapped by my older brother, so this fucked up point of view came from some where, thanks for taking the time to see where...

[Wanderer_]

You make it sound like they'd hatch a demon ffs

i was rapped by my older brother, so this fucked up point of view came from some where, thanks for taking the time to see where...

I'm terribly sorry for what happened to you but it has nothing to do with this topic, there are no consent issues or assault taking place

I hope you haven't kept quiet about what happened to you

[Harley Quinn]

You make it sound like they'd hatch a demon ffs

No, I make it sound realistic.

[sprouse530]

I'm terribly sorry for what happened to you but it has nothing to do with this topic, there are no consent issues or assault taking place

I hope you haven't kept quiet about what happened to you

i havnt i do moto speeches on the topic with my story but my reasoning behind saying that was that by saying "fuck your mind set your wrong and you are descusting" your closing your thoughts to our side and like in my case it was pushed upon me so yea i get that its diffrerent but its still the same background

[Harley Quinn]

i havnt i do moto speeches on the topic with my story but my reasoning behind saying that was that by saying "fuck your mind set your wrong and you are descusting" your closing your thoughts to our side and like in my case it was pushed upon me so yea i get that its diffrerent but its still the same background

I'm open minded, and yes I do see the other point of view however, I am entitled to my opinion just as you are yours. Life isn't a bowl of rainbows and you can't think everything in this world is okay, because frankly it's not.

[CaliforniaMatt]

Someone got butthurt and negged me lol.

We can't stop you, but if the condom breaks or someone walks in on you, I hope you have a damn good excuse

[dufus]

I'm all for havin fun, and don't know it would be bad. Could get complicated tho...

[Southside]

A little taboo if you ask me...

[gamerdudeW]

i think maybe experimenting might be ok.. cause kids do that at that age, but all the way sex? as in possible babymaking? no way lol

[Wanderer_]

Still very sad for them but soooo unlikely

[Sasha M]

Use a condom or BC pill and then have fun!
(Use pill, then you can cum in and all over her!)

[Wanderer_]

Well I think they will want the mess at a minimum if being secretive

[CaliforniaMatt]

Well I think they will want the mess at a minimum if being secretive

Yeah, facials aren't discreet

[StoppingTime]

This has gone on far too long and really has no point. :locked: