Girlfriend problem

[hung drummer guy]

Okay, so my girlfriend and I have been dating on and off for almost three years. everytime we've broken up before it's because she's talked to other people behind my back (we're both bisexual). But being the (overly) kind person I am I always forgive her for hurting me in the end, and we start dating again. Well this time she told me she has a girlfriend as well as me, we'd been back together for like 4 days, and I'm not digging the Idea. Should I tell her I'll stay with her as long as she dumps the girl? how would I know they weren't screwing around behind my back.

Usually I'm the one giving out relationship advice to my friends, but obviously how I've been handling it hasn't been working. Thoughts?

[Clawhammer]

It's just not going to work, lad. She's not interested enough in your relationship to be trustworthy, and it looks like she's done an excellent job of showing what she thinks of the whole matter. She doesn't want you enough to not screw around behind your back, and living with that kind of relationship is not the life you want. The girl you want is gone, lad. Look elsewhere for someone you can trust.

[xDarkAngelx]

I agree with Pat. If she loved you she wouldn't be going behind your back in the first place and talking with other people and ending in a relationship and sorry to say but it's a joke, her being in another relationship with you and someone else. I'd say if your breaking up and getting back together again there's no point in being in a relationship with her as there's no trust there.

[xmojox]

Wish her and girlfriend the best and move on. Find yourself a girl who respects herself enough to not cheat.

[Synyster Shadows]

She's not the one for you. Find someone who won't do stuff behind your back.

[ajp1993]

When you say she talked to other people behind your back, do you actually just mean talked or was there more to it? And as you seem to have made the effort to point out you're BOTH bi-sexual have not then been talking to other people too?
Ultimately it does come to a matter of trust and understanding, and the big question is what do you want?
Do you trust her enough for a open relationship with you and her, and her and her gf? Do you really see a future in this relationship, or is it actually time to cut your loses and move on?

[Grand Admiral Thrawn]

If she's dating someone other than you, she's not worth it. You just have to move on. I know it might be hard, you might not want to think about it, but having your heart broken over and over again is worse.

Just wish her the best and leave it there.