boobs and boys

[AnaAnime]

im only 14 and i think my boob size is to big im a 38DDD and they keep growing, i am a lil chunky tho. my mum says it runs in the family and i should be proud. She also says that sum guys love big boobs, but Ive only had one Bf. guys hardly talk to me. im kind of nerdy and LOVE anime and japan culture.
the last time i rely had i good friend ship with a boy with in 6th grade but it seems they change. im also very shy but friendly but very strong attitude, im also not girly but not tomboy more like a punk/ scene..why don't boys talk to me :P should i change ?

[SamanthaMaciel]

just be u... where I live ppl only care about the booty :) hah ive never shown cleavege... but if ur fine with it show it off!

[Amber Bi]

Don't change yourself for other people. Be your own person! you sound super cute to me. you are only 14, you have plenty of time to find someone that likes you for YOU and not just for ur big boobs or because you "fit in" to some crowd.

[LilKelli69]

Yeah, just be yourself and the boys will be good 2 u. I do not have a boob problem, but I wish you the best.

[AnaAnime]

thanks

[TinyDancer]

A relationship is so much better when you don't feel need to change anything about yourself. When you meet that someone special who shares your likes and dislikes it's much more comfortable and fun without constantly worrying if you're acting the way they expect you to act.

Some changes are good. You just have to agree that they are good for you. And some guys (most I think) are attracted to big boobs.

Don't be afraid to strike up a conversation with a guy either. See what you have in common.

[VictoriaGotaSecret]

If you have to change for boys to notice you then don't. All that matters is who you are and how you view yourself. Fuck what the boys think.

[Wanderer_]

Are you kidding boys probably have happy dreams at night about your boobs (and u)
It's all good :)

[Juana]

Boys like mostly big breasts and stay yourself because when you find someone, the best relationship is when you both can be yourself and are not to be forced to change for the other.

[Taryn98]

you shouldn't change who you are, but why don't you go up and talk to them first. Don't wait around for someone else, lead the way yourself!

[Wanderer_]

I'm near flat and they still stare the crap out of them - I don't think they care about size just that your body has a front side below the neck lol

[txtwister13]

from the way you describe yourself(nerdy, shy, strong attitude) i'd say the boys are probably a little afraid of you.....make an effort to be friendly - but also just be yourself...don't worry, you'll have plenty of bf's

[jhardy]

I had a similar problem when I was starting puberty. I'm a bit chubby, and my boobs started growing early and quickly. They do bring some unwanted attention. But to get boys to talk to you, just be yourself. Being fake will only get you fake boys and fake friends. Just be you.

[Tina36DD]

Been a while since ive been here, but i know how you feel. mine started to grow about 9 years. I was at 36DD by 12 and now (14) they are 38DD.....I have a few 40DD bras when i get my period cos they fit better. Like jhardy, i get stared at and oogled, but i have gotten so used to it, i kinda dont notice much anymore. I have a lot of friends, but guys think just because you have huge boobs and wear tight shirts or tanks, they think you're easy. I am open about myself, but far from easy.

If they think you're a nerd or are afraid of you, they might just be shy.

[Evaboo]

I agree with evalynn!!

[Cassidy]

Don't change yourself to attract other people. Just be you. Besides, don't you want somebody to love you for who you actually are?

[Cali Girl]

Don't change yourself for other people. Be your own person! you sound super cute to me. you are only 14, you have plenty of time to find someone that likes you for YOU and not just for ur big boobs or because you "fit in" to some crowd.

Agreed.

[PandaLeah]

Nothing wrong with being nerdy, and remember if boys (or girls) are only interested in you for your looks maybe they are not good for you...



im only 14 and i think my boob size is to big im a 38DDD and they keep growing, i am a lil chunky tho. my mum says it runs in the family and i should be proud. She also says that sum guys love big boobs, but Ive only had one Bf. guys hardly talk to me. im kind of nerdy and LOVE anime and japan culture.
the last time i rely had i good friend ship with a boy with in 6th grade but it seems they change. im also very shy but friendly but very strong attitude, im also not girly but not tomboy more like a punk/ scene..why don't boys talk to me :P should i change ?

[Lemieux]

im only 14 and i think my boob size is to big im a 38DDD and they keep growing, i am a lil chunky tho. my mum says it runs in the family and i should be proud. She also says that sum guys love big boobs, but Ive only had one Bf. guys hardly talk to me. im kind of nerdy and LOVE anime and japan culture.
the last time i rely had i good friend ship with a boy with in 6th grade but it seems they change. im also very shy but friendly but very strong attitude, im also not girly but not tomboy more like a punk/ scene..why don't boys talk to me :P should i change ?

Don't worry about your boobs they might stop growing soon. My blobs are too small for my age!
Regarding your friends, it's their problem and they need to grow up! I'm the same no guys talk to me because I'm a Tomboy. Do NOT change yourself to fit in. There are plenty of people who will like you. I think your really cute!

[sophiaLockhart]

All you ever need to be is yourself, there is always someone out there for everyone and you'll find your person soon, you seem like a really lovely girl and if a guy gets to know you i know he'll love having had that chance :)

[JPandoWicks]

34E and 14 years old...

[DEADUSER]

I am a 30 D and i like to show cleavage, and yes guys do like it. Also if you change and then a guy likes you its not real, they need to like you for who you are:irule: so be proud and strut what you got.

[Juana]

Been a while since ive been here, but i know how you feel. mine started to grow about 9 years. I was at 36DD by 12 and now (14) they are 38DD.....I have a few 40DD bras when i get my period cos they fit better. Like jhardy, i get stared at and oogled, but i have gotten so used to it, i kinda dont notice much anymore. I have a lot of friends, but guys think just because you have huge boobs and wear tight shirts or tanks, they think you're easy. I am open about myself, but far from easy.

If they think you're a nerd or are afraid of you, they might just be shy.

Whaw, Tina that's here in the Netherlands size 85F (38DD)!!!!

:)

[San1998]

Yeah just be you.. boys can be stupid... on one hand they want girls with big boobs and on the other hand they not able to talk to girls with such boobs. sometimes I think say don't no what to say... So just be u. There will be a time boys get to start talking and staring at you :)