Bullying Survey

[JoeHillsTSD]

I'm writing an essay about how gender roles affect bullying and it's consequences. I need to "interview" people about their experience with bullying. What better way to do so through a survey.

Gender:

What age/grade were you bullied?:

Was your bully female or male?:

How did they bully you? (i.e. spread rumors, physically beat, etc)?:

If you had bullies of both gender, how were the tactics of both genders different? (how would you describe the differences between the way they bullied you):

If you had bullies of both gender, which gender was harder to overcome?

Why did they bully you?

Did you tell anyone who could help (I.e a teacher, parent):

If so, how did they react? Did they help, ignore, or hinder you?

Did the bully/ies get in trouble for what they did?

If so (and you had two different gendered bullies) did you notice a difference in punishment for the two?:

Ive had past experiences with bullies, but apparently it's not sufficient enough to make a credible argument. This will help out a bunch.

I think I posted this in the wrong place so I reposted it here

[tundravortex]

Gender:male

What age/grade were you bullied?:ever since first

Was your bully female or male?:both

How did they bully you? (i.e. spread rumors, physically beat, etc)?:everything

If you had bullies of both gender, how were the tactics of both genders different? (how would you describe the differences between the way they bullied you):i just waited for the right moment to strike back

If you had bullies of both gender, which gender was harder to overcome?female because you cant hit back

Why did they bully you?i was still speaking mohawk and still learning english back then

Did you tell anyone who could help (I.e a teacher, parent):every one

If so, how did they react? Did they help, ignore, or hinder you?same as always,they gave me the look"fight the motherfuckers"

Did the bully/ies get in trouble for what they did?o yea

If so (and you had two different gendered bullies) did you notice a difference in punishment for the two?:expeled

[ReginaGeorge]

Gender: Girl.

What age/grade were you bullied?: Grade 3 and 5 mostly, but all throughout grade 3 - 9.

Was your bully female or male?: I've experience both, but not at the same time.

How did they bully you? (i.e. spread rumors, physically beat, etc)?: Poking, hair pulling, verbally with name calling and things.

If you had bullies of both gender, how were the tactics of both genders different? (how would you describe the differences between the way they bullied you): The girls were repetitive and persistent, while the guys were one time things.

If you had bullies of both gender, which gender was harder to overcome? Girls because of repetitiveness, guys I didn't have to "overcome" because they move on pretty quickly and then it would be over.

Why did they bully you? I don't know, I guess I was an easy target. Shy, quiet, overweight, not particularly attractive, didn't have very good sense of style.

Did you tell anyone who could help (I.e a teacher, parent): Only once I think, in year 3 and then in year 7, they found out from me running out of class.

If so, how did they react? Did they help, ignore, or hinder you? They actually put the blame on me the first time, the second time they barely did anything for me.

Did the bully/ies get in trouble for what they did? First time, nope, I did, second time, also no, I think they just got a warning for reducing me to tears. Yay, education system.

If so (and you had two different gendered bullies) did you notice a difference in punishment for the two?: Neither got punishment.

[justin 13]

I have never been bullied because I fight back. If U fight back first time then they leave u alone.

[JoeHillsTSD]

Keith I appreciate your posting and advice, but can if you weren't going to do the survey why post?

[Abyssal Echo]

Gender: Male

What age/grade were you bullied?: 3rd - 5th grades

Was your bully female or male?: male

How did they bully you? (i.e. spread rumors, physically beat, etc)?: physically beat me

If you had bullies of both gender, how were the tactics of both genders different? (how would you describe the differences between the way they bullied you):

If you had bullies of both gender, which gender was harder to overcome?

Why did they bully you? because he could. he wanted my lunch money

Did you tell anyone who could help (I.e a teacher, parent): teacher

If so, how did they react? Did they help, ignore, or hinder you? he did nothing.

Did the bully/ies get in trouble for what they did? no

[JoeHillsTSD]

Thanks Midnight

[StoppingTime]

P101 :arrow: Abuse

[Desuetude]

Gender: Female

What age/grade were you bullied?: Year 3 (age 7) and Year 9-10 (13-present)
They were my worst years.

Was your bully female or male?: Year 3, 2 females. Year 9-10 groups of different boys

How did they bully you? (i.e. spread rumors, physically beat, etc)?: Emotional like name calling, racist insults, appearance insults. Talking my belongings. Occasionally hitting, pushing, tripping, kicking.

If you had bullies of both gender, how were the tactics of both genders different? (how would you describe the differences between the way they bullied you): Girls are a lot bitchier and use words a lot however my experiences aren't reliable because I had female bullies when I was a lot younger. The males just don't care about what they're saying, completely oblivious. I feel they just do it out of boredom just to find some entertainment. They're more physical and racist.

If you had bullies of both gender, which gender was harder to overcome? With the females when I was younger I moved schools so that was over until secondary when we went back to the same school. Boys bullying has been going on for about a year now and I'm finding it really draining. This will probably be the hardest.

Why did they bully you? Who knows? Cause I'm smart? Ugly? Weird? Different? I know for one it's because I'm Asian but there could be any other reasons.

Did you tell anyone who could help (I.e a teacher, parent): In year 3 I told my mum, she told my headteacher who did fuck all and then I moved schools. This time my friends know and teachers know obviously cause there have been commotions in class but what the fuck do they care? They ignore it.

If so, how did they react? Did they help, ignore, or hinder you? Says above

Did the bully/ies get in trouble for what they did? Younger years, not really, they just got talked to. This year nope because no one gives a shit.

If so (and you had two different gendered bullies) did you notice a difference in punishment for the two?: I think if more people knew it would be a bigger punishment for the boys than the girls had.

[crepesuzette]

Gender:

What age/grade were you bullied?: when i was 11.

Was your bully female or male?: males and females.

How did they bully you? (i.e. spread rumors, physically beat, etc)?:
they bullied me by calling me names and insulting my parents. they also said i had two dad but of course that was not true. it was one of my bullies rumor that spread and everybody else believed him.
If you had bullies of both gender, how were the tactics of both genders different? (how would you describe the differences between the way they bullied you):
there was a slight difference. men tend to kick you and harass you. women try to shove their fist in my face.

If you had bullies of both gender, which gender was harder to overcome? female. i still hate those girls. i wish they would get what they deserve but of course it's not always fair.

Why did they bully you? they bullied me because i did not wear fancy clothes and as a result they thought i was poor. they called my mother fat, they said i had two dads, and one guy in particular said that i had a small penis. yeah, that's what he did. i know it may sound hilarious, but it was terrible. he was checking me out when we were showering at the beach. yeah there were places where we could rinse off the dirt.

Did you tell anyone who could help (I.e a teacher, parent): oh yeah my parents did nto know how to help me. i got referred to a therapist but she did no good. she tried to help but i felt like she was trying to detain me. she was quite upset when i did not show up regularly at her office. i told my teacher but of course he did not care. he was always on the bullies's side. i felt like it was unfair.

If so, how did they react? Did they help, ignore, or hinder you? they could care less. whenever i did something bad, they just scold me and ask me if i want to leave? when they hurt me, nobody in the damn world cares. they ignored me, including the dean, the counselor, and the teacher.

Did the bully/ies get in trouble for what they did? nope. well one of them did and he wrote an apology note to me but once we got off the bus, he and some other bullies start to jump me.

If so (and you had two different gendered bullies) did you notice a difference in punishment for the two?: the female was completely exonerated while the male was told to apologize. that was it. tehy never got suspended or got summoned to the counseling office. i was always called in and they wasted my darn time.

until those girls and guys hit rock bottom, i will not be satisfied. it seems like they're having a much better time than me. it seems like they have a lot more friends than i do. they're lucky that they don't have to receive their share.

somebody has to pay a huge price for what they did.



Please stop double posting. -StoppingTime

[SamanthaMaciel]

seems like everyone who gets bullied on here doesnt fight back... thats the problem with u guys... u need to fight back and show that ur not a punk ass bitch.... even if u get ur ass kicked! FIGHT BACK!!!

[JoeHillsTSD]

Listen, this thread is for the simple use of completing survey. I dont mind giving advice, but saying "fuck that person up" or "fight back" isn't helping. Unless you have real advice or you are completing the survey, please don't post here.

[crepesuzette]

seems like everyone who gets bullied on here doesnt fight back... thats the problem with u guys... u need to fight back and show that ur not a punk ass bitch.... even if u get ur ass kicked! FIGHT BACK!!!

o trust me i have tried to fight back more than once but still they have a bunch of people coming right at you and 10 against one... most likely those bullies are going to win, not me.
those a-holes are going to have to pay for what they did.
those idiots out there are still not getting what they deserve. i was like life isn't fair.why do the evil, malicious ones get away with things when the innocent, peacekeeping people always gets their asses kicked? it's so not just. if there was justice, all of those assholes would have gotten what they did.

[Incompris]

Gender: Male

What age/grade were you bullied?: 3rd grade

Was your bully female or male?: male

How did they bully you? (i.e. spread rumors, physically beat, etc)?: Called me names and pushed me around

If you had bullies of both gender, how were the tactics of both genders different? (how would you describe the differences between the way they bullied you):

If you had bullies of both gender, which gender was harder to overcome?

Why did they bully you? I think it was because I was the new kid and I was very quiet.

Did you tell anyone who could help (I.e a teacher, parent): Nope

If so, how did they react? Did they help, ignore, or hinder you?

Did the bully/ies get in trouble for what they did? Nope

If so (and you had two different gendered bullies) did you notice a difference in punishment for the two?:

[crepesuzette]

if i had not been bullied by those girls i would never have been attracted to just males. i would have liked girls a lot more. i still do, but now i feel attracted much more to males than i do because those bitches were so freakin' catty. honestly, usually it's the guys that punk on the girls, but the other way around?
it basically just changed my outlook on life. if it had not been for these girls, i would not have resorted to a lot of crazy stuff.

[jayyy-lmao]

Gender: Female

What age/grade were you bullied?: From age seven til age thirteen.

Was your bully female or male?: I had some of both.

How did they bully you? (i.e. spread rumors, physically beat, etc)?: They would spread rumours, beat me up, and insult me constantly.

If you had bullies of both gender, how were the tactics of both genders different? (how would you describe the differences between the way they bullied you): Guys go more physical. Throw punches and kicks. Girls go more mental. Tear your life down. Rumours and insults.

If you had bullies of both gender, which gender was harder to overcome? Girls. Not being accepted by guys is normal. But girls are harder to ignore.

Why did they bully you? No idea.

Did you tell anyone who could help (I.e a teacher, parent): I would tell my parents, but they were no help.

If so, how did they react? Did they help, ignore, or hinder you? Parents were no help.

Did the bully/ies get in trouble for what they did? Yeah. Eventually.

If so (and you had two different gendered bullies) did you notice a difference in punishment for the two?: Yes. Guys got in trouble, but the girls didn't. I couldn't prove what they did.

[crepesuzette]

Gender: Female

What age/grade were you bullied?: From age seven til age thirteen.

Was your bully female or male?: I had some of both.

How did they bully you? (i.e. spread rumors, physically beat, etc)?: They would spread rumours, beat me up, and insult me constantly.

If you had bullies of both gender, how were the tactics of both genders different? (how would you describe the differences between the way they bullied you): Guys go more physical. Throw punches and kicks. Girls go more mental. Tear your life down. Rumours and insults.

If you had bullies of both gender, which gender was harder to overcome? Girls. Not being accepted by guys is normal. But girls are harder to ignore.

Why did they bully you? No idea.

Did you tell anyone who could help (I.e a teacher, parent): I would tell my parents, but they were no help.

If so, how did they react? Did they help, ignore, or hinder you? Parents were no help.

Did the bully/ies get in trouble for what they did? Yeah. Eventually.

If so (and you had two different gendered bullies) did you notice a difference in punishment for the two?: Yes. Guys got in trouble, but the girls didn't. I couldn't prove what they did.

i am very sorry to hear what happened to you for all those years. I have been bullied a lot by my own race and one of them even told me that i am a disgrace to their people. From that day on, I just wanted to isolate myself from them and their cultural influences and embrace another.

[Whiskey-Lullaby]

Gender: Female

What age/grade were you bullied?: 6 when it started

Was your bully female or male?: both

How did they bully you? (i.e. spread rumors, physically beat, etc)?: spread rumor, insulting me, beating me, stealing things from me, destroying my stuff...

If you had bullies of both gender, how were the tactics of both genders different? (how would you describe the differences between the way they bullied you): Pretty much the same, even though boys were a bit more physical

If you had bullies of both gender, which gender was harder to overcome? Girls.

Why did they bully you? It started because I was younger but still had better grades than tem. Then I guess it was just "for fun"

Did you tell anyone who could help (I.e a teacher, parent): Yes, parents and teacher.

If so, how did they react? Did they help, ignore, or hinder you? teacher said it was my fault. Parents transfered me to another school after 3 years of intense bullying

Did the bully/ies get in trouble for what they did? Nope

If so (and you had two different gendered bullies) did you notice a difference in punishment for the two?:

[WalkingOnDisaster]

Gender: Im a girl

What age/grade were you bullied?: It started in kindergarten.

Was your bully female or male?: Both. And in between.

How did they bully you? (i.e. spread rumors, physically beat, etc)?: Rumors, physical, verbal, they stalked me.

If you had bullies of both gender, how were the tactics of both genders different? (how would you describe the differences between the way they bullied you): Guys would sexually assault me and physically beat me up, girls would spread rumors and say nasty stuff to me.

If you had bullies of both gender, which gender was harder to overcome?: Uh... I am not sure. Both where hard to overcome in different ways.

Why did they bully you?: My religion, the way I look, because I am different.

Did you tell anyone who could help (I.e a teacher, parent): I did but they never believed me.

If so, how did they react? Did they help, ignore, or hinder you?: Ignored me.

Did the bully/ies get in trouble for what they did? Nope.

If so (and you had two different gendered bullies) did you notice a difference in punishment for the two?: Hah I wish.

[Strawberry_Essence]

Gender: Female

What age/grade were you bullied?:4th-8th(current grade)

Was your bully female or male?:both

How did they bully you? (i.e. spread rumors, physically beat, etc)?:Rumors, Beaten, sexually abused

If you had bullies of both gender, how were the tactics of both genders different? (how would you describe the differences between the way they bullied you): Girls tend to spread rumors then beat you generally in a group of friends. Girls are vicious when it comes to torture. Boys more sexually abusive, usually alone or with one friend. Beat you as well.
If you had bullies of both gender, which gender was harder to overcome? Girls

Why did they bully you? I was an easy target/they saw others doing it/i had baggage

Did you tell anyone who could help (I.e a teacher, parent): Told my parents. They did nothing. They expected me to be able to beat them up.

If so, how did they react? Did they help, ignore, or hinder you? I dont know what hinder means, ^^ So Id say ignore.

Did the bully/ies get in trouble for what they did? NEVER XD

If so (and you had two different gendered bullies) did you notice a difference in punishment for the two?: X

[BebeFleur.]

What age/grade were you bullied?: Since 2nd grade

Was your bully female or male?: Female...always

How did they bully you? (i.e. spread rumors, physically beat, etc)?: Rumors, verbal, etc.

If you had bullies of both gender, how were the tactics of both genders different? (how would you describe the differences between the way they bullied you): N/A

If you had bullies of both gender, which gender was harder to overcome? N/A

Why did they bully you? 2nd grade: guess because they wanted a girl ony to be friends with them and not me? And she fed lies to my best friend...whoop dee do...

3rd grade onwards: idk...they hate me? My mom says jealousy

All: pLus I was a major pushover

Did you tell anyone who could help (I.e a teacher, parent): Mom...she told my dad. She talked to the guidance counser and dean..who did nothing

If so, how did they react? Did they help, ignore, or hinder you? ^^Mom tried to help...school facuty did nothing

Did the bully/ies get in trouble for what they did? No

If so (and you had two different gendered bullies) did you notice a difference in punishment for the two?: N/A

[Cicero]

Gender: M

What age/grade were you bullied?: All

Was your bully female or male?: Male

How did they bully you? (i.e. spread rumors, physically beat, etc)?: rumors, gossip, emotional bullying

If you had bullies of both gender, how were the tactics of both genders different? (how would you describe the differences between the way they bullied you):

If you had bullies of both gender, which gender was harder to overcome? Female

Why did they bully you? Thought I was gay/weird

Did you tell anyone who could help (I.e a teacher, parent): no

If so, how did they react? Did they help, ignore, or hinder you?

Did the bully/ies get in trouble for what they did?

If so (and you had two different gendered bullies) did you notice a difference in punishment for the two?: