Bi, but two different feelings

[ProsperousPancake]

I am Bi but I think of girls as sex objects and men as people I would want to have a relationship. For example, I will masturbate to guy on girl porn, but not guy on guy. I am more interested in having sex with a girl than a guy, but more interesting in having a boyfriend than a girlfriend. If I was in a relationship with a man and I really loved him, I would have sex with him though, so it's not like I don't like mens bodies. Anybody else Bi, but like each sex for different reasons?

[ReginaGeorge]

(Sorry for posting in Boys Puberty, this post would be better in the Sexuality forum anyway, but I really believe I can help on this one!)

No one on here can tell you your sexuality, we can suggest what we think are, but don't read something and just believe what they say. Also, whatever feeling or attractions you experience are totally valid. One more tip, you also don't have to label yourself. Labels are made to help us describe ourselves, not fit us into tiny little boxes, so don't stress if you can't figure out from mainstream sexual orientations, but I do understand the importance of understanding yourself, so I'm here to help.

My opinion of your sexuality from the information in this post is that you are something called a homoromantic heterosexual/bisexual. Let me break it down for you.

Homoromanitc: In this post you say you want to have relationships with men, but not women (and since your feelings and attractions don't match up) this could mean you are a homoromantic. In the same way that homo-SEXUAL means physical attraction to the same-sex, homo-ROMANTIC means emotion attraction to people of the same sex. Does that make sense?

Heterosexual/bisexual: Here I used two different ones because I'm not 100% sure I'm interpreting the information you gave me correctly. So, if you are attracted to female physically and not men, you are heterosexual, if you are, even slightly attracted to male bodies, then you're more likely to be bisexual. Let's break this down a little more.

Heterosexual: Straight. We all know what that is. It's is physical attraction to the opposite sex (and not the same-sex).

Bisexual: Physical attraction to both male and female bodies. This attraction doesn't have to be equal, like for example you want to have sex with a girl just as much you do a guy. You can be bisexual and be attracted to girls 85% of the time, and guys the other 15%, or even less, like 5%. The whole gist is that you like both female and male bodies.

I hope this helps you figure out your sexuality. Remember, you're young, you really are, you have heaps of time, there is no rush to figure it out, and don't worry if it changes, because it will, it's a part of life. Give yourself time to get to know yourself, you won't figure this out overnight. :)

[ChrisA1998]

I am Bi but I think of girls as sex objects and men as people I would want to have a relationship. For example, I will masturbate to guy on girl porn, but not guy on guy. I am more interested in having sex with a girl than a guy, but more interesting in having a boyfriend than a girlfriend. If I was in a relationship with a man and I really loved him, I would have sex with him though, so it's not like I don't like mens bodies. Anybody else Bi, but like each sex for different reasons?

hi, I'm the same as you but in the opposite way. I mean I am attracted to girls for long-term relationship, dating them, spending time together just the two of us, go to the cinema, and stuff.
I'm not love-attracted to boys, its just for sex and for fun, like one free afternoon or during holidays, I dont have feeling for boys.

we can chat about htis if you want ;)

[Anonimi]

hi, I'm the same as you but in the opposite way. I mean I am attracted to girls for long-term relationship, dating them, spending time together just the two of us, go to the cinema, and stuff.
I'm not love-attracted to boys, its just for sex and for fun, like one free afternoon or during holidays, I dont have feeling for boys.

we can chat about this if you want ;)

^^^
im also sexually attracted to boys, but i wouldn't have a long term relationship with one, though i would with a girl, but i have less desire to actually fuck a girl, but thinking of sexual stuff with a boy gets it right up, if you get what i mean.

[DerBear]

Puberty for Boys :Arrow: Teen Sexuality

This is a more relevant section.

[lyriclover]

Honestly I think a lot of people fel this way. Don't feel the need to label yourself. Society has raised us on labels but are they really necessary? You don't have to say "Oh i'm bi" or "oh Im gay". You're you and nothing more and nothing less.

[Thekiid031]

woahh lmao thats like exactly how i feel... but the other way around. i could never see myself in a relationship with guy and i really dont want to but they turn me on and like i can be emotionally attracted to girls, cause i kindaa already am and have been many times before