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AJJ1
March 21st, 2013, 03:11 PM
He has been harassing me FOR A LONG TIME, BUT I TOOK IT ON. Yesterday he pushed me and i got really angry and physically attacked him> (BTW this being my first time in school life fighting or being so angry) i feel bad now.
IS it normal?
What should i do cuz hes a little brat?
Hes friendless and i really try to be his friend but boy is he difficult and kinda weird

Stryker125
March 21st, 2013, 03:14 PM
People that are difficult to love are usually the ones that need it the most.

Anonimi
March 21st, 2013, 03:24 PM
define harassing you.
what has he done to you?
also if he repels you and isn't nice to you, why are you still trying to be his friend?

Jinxxy
March 21st, 2013, 03:37 PM
Often, those who don't have friends, have trust issues and all sorts of other problems with people.

Don't retaliate to his "harassment"/bullying.

Next time, just take him aside, and ask him calmly why it's you that makes him so angry and act the way he does.
Ask if things are okay at home and whether he's had trouble making friends before.


Normally, boys who are beaten by their dad's turn into bullies or hostile people and they'll pick on the classmates that remind them of themselves - (no offence) the "weaker" looking classmates or those who try to help them.

GoneForGood
March 21st, 2013, 04:04 PM
Often, those who don't have friends, have trust issues and all sorts of other problems with people.

Don't retaliate to his "harassment"/bullying.

Next time, just take him aside, and ask him calmly why it's you that makes him so angry and act the way he does.
Ask if things are okay at home and whether he's had trouble making friends before.


Normally, boys who are beaten by their dad's turn into bullies or hostile people and they'll pick on the classmates that remind them of themselves - (no offence) the "weaker" looking classmates or those who try to help them.

I agree with Natty, I think this is what you should do. He might not know how to react, he might get aggressive or he might want to talk. I think you should be prepared for either.

PinkFloyd
March 21st, 2013, 04:13 PM
In my opinion, if someone pushes and shoves you to the ground, you have the RIGHT to punch them in the face. That's just me though...

Jinxxy
March 21st, 2013, 04:20 PM
I agree with Natty, I think this is what you should do. He might not know how to react, he might get aggressive or he might want to talk. I think you should be prepared for either.

Thank's Maggie!

Hope I helped, AJ :)