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sapa
March 21st, 2013, 01:24 AM
im 16 and have been confused about my sexual orientation since i started puberty at 13. right now i have sexual feelings for girls and boys but my feelings for girls are also emotional. However, i feel like my physical feelings to boys are stronger. i also have anxiety about whether ill be gay.
if anyone has been through this pleaz write.
thanx
steellord321
March 21st, 2013, 07:01 AM
maybe bi? Some will say they're like 60% gay 40% str8 etc. I can see why its confusing. yeah it's tough to accept but worrying isn't going to help. You either are or arent and it will just hit u one day. Wish i could help more
norcaldude18
March 21st, 2013, 02:44 PM
When I was about your age, I was sexually attracted to guys but emotionally attracted to girls. I figured out I was gay and now I feel nothing towards girls. I think I told myself I was emotionally attracted to girls because I wanted to be attracted to them in some way. Since I wasn't sexually attracted to them, I told myself i was emotionally attracted to them so I could convince myself I was still straight. When I watched porn, I usually started out with straight porn, then I finished with gay. After I finished, I felt sick to my stomach and I told myself I would never watch gay porn again. There were several times in high school that I remember crying and freaking out because I didn't want to be gay. Maybe you're bi or gay, but only you can figure it out.
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March 21st, 2013, 09:02 PM
Just live your life, and eventually the confusion will subside. Trust me.
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