For everyone before they make a post about being gay or bi..

[ReginaGeorge]

I see post after post after post of people, especially boys, asking if they are gay or bi because of certain things. I just want to try and help clear things up (as well as the 'New Post' feed) by making a post. ALRIGHT SO HERE WE GO.

Note some of these will apply for girls only, other boys only, some for anyone but hopefully we're all smart enough to know which is which. :P

Also, scroll down for things that DO make you gay or bisexual. :)

Things that DON'T make you gay or bisexual:
- Making out with the same gender.
- Messing around with the same gender.
- Giving your friend a blowjob.
- Eating out/fingering your friend.
- Receiving a blowjob from a friend.
- And liking it.
- Experimenting.
- Having anal sex.
- Having any kind of sex with the same gender.
- Anal masturbation.
- Watching gay porn.
- Watching lesbian porn.
- Watching "shemale" porn.
- Watching "bisexual" porn.
- Watching any kind of porn at all.
- Liking attention from gay men (male)/lesbians (female).
- Circle jerks.
- Getting slizzarded and fucking your gay friend.
- Being curious about the same gender.
- Being feminine (if male).
- Being masculine (if female).
- Wearing pink.
- Exaggerating your 'S's while speaking.
- Caring about gay rights.
- Being a feminist.
- Being friends with only people from the opposite gender.
- Having a gay friend.
- Having gay parents.
- Having a gay relative.
- Caring about your appearance.
- Wearing skinny jeans with V-necks (male).
- Wearing plaid (female).
- Having ear piercings.
- Thinking one person from the same gender is hot.
- Liking/wearing make-up (if male).
- ^ Same goes for nail polish.
- Liking drama or musical theater.
- Liking fashion (male).
- Liking sport or cars or mud or dirt (female).
- Cross dressing.
- Having long hair (male).
- Having short hair (female).
- Shaving your armpits or legs (male).
- Not shaving your armpits or legs (female).


Things that DO make you gay:
- Being attracted to the same gender physically and emotionally.
- Generally not being attracted the opposite gender in the same respects.

Things that DO make you bisexual:
- Being attracted to the same gender physically /and emotionally.
- Also being attracted to the opposite gender physically /and emotionally.
- Not nessisarily emotionally, and attraction doesn't need to be equal.

Thank you, that is all.

[anyone50]

I see post after post after post of people, especially boys, asking if they are gay or bi because of certain things. I just want to try and help clear things up (as well as the 'New Post' feed) by making a post. ALRIGHT SO HERE WE GO.

Note some of these will apply for girls only, other boys only, some for anyone but hopefully we're all smart enough to know which is which. :P

Also, scroll down for things that DO make you gay or bisexual. :)

Things that DON'T make you gay or bisexual:
- Making out with the same gender.
- Messing around with the same gender.
- Giving your friend a blowjob.
- Eating out/fingering your friend.
- Receiving a blowjob from a friend.
- And liking it.
- Experimenting.
- Having anal sex.
- Having any kind of sex with the same gender.
- Anal masturbation.
- Watching gay porn.
- Watching lesbian porn.
- Watching "shemale" porn.
- Watching "bisexual" porn.
- Watching any kind of porn at all.
- Liking attention from gay men (male)/lesbians (female).
- Circle jerks.
- Getting slizzarded and fucking your gay friend.
- Being curious about the same gender.
- Being feminine (if male).
- Being masculine (if female).
- Wearing pink.
- Exaggerating your 'S's while speaking.
- Caring about gay rights.
- Being a feminist.
- Being friends with only people from the opposite gender.
- Having a gay friend.
- Having gay parents.
- Having a gay relative.
- Caring about your appearance.
- Wearing skinny jeans with V-necks (male).
- Wearing plaid (female).
- Having ear piercings.
- Thinking one person from the same gender is hot.
- Liking/wearing make-up (if male).
- ^ Same goes for nail polish.
- Liking drama or musical theater.
- Liking fashion (male).
- Liking sport or cars or mud or dirt (female).
- Cross dressing.
- Having long hair (male).
- Having short hair (female).
- Shaving your armpits or legs (male).
- Not shaving your armpits or legs (female).


Things that DO make you gay:
- Being attracted to the same gender physically and emotionally.
- Generally not being attracted the opposite gender in the same respects.

Things that DO make you bisexual:
- Being attracted to the same gender physically /and emotionally.
- Also being attracted to the opposite gender physically /and emotionally.
- Not nessisarily emotionally, and attraction doesn't need to be equal.

Thank you, that is all.

great post now if someone would settle the issue that most of the guys here have with the size of thier penis. Hundreds of post on this subject but no one gets it.

[mynameisJ]

This is a pretty helpful guide. haha

[xmojox]

Great post!!

[NikosamA98]

I see post after post after post of people, especially boys, asking if they are gay or bi because of certain things. I just want to try and help clear things up (as well as the 'New Post' feed) by making a post. ALRIGHT SO HERE WE GO.

Note some of these will apply for girls only, other boys only, some for anyone but hopefully we're all smart enough to know which is which. :P

Also, scroll down for things that DO make you gay or bisexual. :)

Things that DON'T make you gay or bisexual:
- Making out with the same gender.
- Messing around with the same gender.
- Giving your friend a blowjob.
- Eating out/fingering your friend.
- Receiving a blowjob from a friend.
- And liking it.
- Experimenting.
- Having anal sex.
- Having any kind of sex with the same gender.
- Anal masturbation.
- Watching gay porn.
- Watching lesbian porn.
- Watching "shemale" porn.
- Watching "bisexual" porn.
- Watching any kind of porn at all.
- Liking attention from gay men (male)/lesbians (female).
- Circle jerks.
- Getting slizzarded and fucking your gay friend.
- Being curious about the same gender.
- Being feminine (if male).
- Being masculine (if female).
- Wearing pink.
- Exaggerating your 'S's while speaking.
- Caring about gay rights.
- Being a feminist.
- Being friends with only people from the opposite gender.
- Having a gay friend.
- Having gay parents.
- Having a gay relative.
- Caring about your appearance.
- Wearing skinny jeans with V-necks (male).
- Wearing plaid (female).
- Having ear piercings.
- Thinking one person from the same gender is hot.
- Liking/wearing make-up (if male).
- ^ Same goes for nail polish.
- Liking drama or musical theater.
- Liking fashion (male).
- Liking sport or cars or mud or dirt (female).
- Cross dressing.
- Having long hair (male).
- Having short hair (female).
- Shaving your armpits or legs (male).
- Not shaving your armpits or legs (female).


Things that DO make you gay:
- Being attracted to the same gender physically and emotionally.
- Generally not being attracted the opposite gender in the same respects.

Things that DO make you bisexual:
- Being attracted to the same gender physically /and emotionally.
- Also being attracted to the opposite gender physically /and emotionally.
- Not nessisarily emotionally, and attraction doesn't need to be equal.

Thank you, that is all.

Ok, i think this is actually wrong. how can you explain a guy with nail polish and pink make up having sex with a guy without being gay? Having sex woth the same gender is a gay act. If you are experimenting you are no gay but you are doing a gay act and if you liked it, youll probably end up being gay. If this guide is right, then nothing can make you gay and it would be contradicting. I have experimentd with a friend before and i know i would never kiss him or have actual sex but i liked receiving a blowjob. And that is gay

[Stryker125]

hahah, great post.

Ok, i think this is actually wrong. how can you explain a guy with nail polish and pink make up having sex with a guy without being gay? Having sex woth the same gender is a gay act. If you are experimenting you are no gay but you are doing a gay act and if you liked it, youll probably end up being gay. If this guide is right, then nothing can make you gay and it would be contradicting. I have experimentd with a friend before and i know i would never kiss him or have actual sex but i liked receiving a blowjob. And that is gay

I think you missed the point here. Sure it might be a gay act, but it doesn't make you gay. Just because you kissed a guy or gave a dude a blowjob or had anal with someone or anally masturbate or any of that stuff doesn't mean you're gay. Having a physical and emotional attraction to the same gender does. All that other stuff is a just variable, and isn't a definitive indicator of someone's sexuality. Especially during puberty, when hormones are raging and the most fitting sexual orientation seems to be "EVERYONE IS HOT AND I AM ANGRY."


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[xmojox]

Ok, i think this is actually wrong. how can you explain a guy with nail polish and pink make up having sex with a guy without being gay? Having sex woth the same gender is a gay act. If you are experimenting you are no gay but you are doing a gay act and if you liked it, youll probably end up being gay. If this guide is right, then nothing can make you gay and it would be contradicting. I have experimentd with a friend before and i know i would never kiss him or have actual sex but i liked receiving a blowjob. And that is gay

There's a difference between being gay and doing something sexual with a person of your own gender, and doing something sexual with a person of your own gender does not mean you're gay. As far as wearing pink or nail polish or makeup, sorry, but that doesn't mean a guy is gay, either, and to say so is to think in stereotypes.

If you read the last two sections of her post, you will find the things that do mean a person is gay or bisexual.

[Anonimi]

Ok, i think this is actually wrong. how can you explain a guy with nail polish and pink make up having sex with a guy without being gay? Having sex woth the same gender is a gay act. If you are experimenting you are no gay but you are doing a gay act and if you liked it, youll probably end up being gay. If this guide is right, then nothing can make you gay and it would be contradicting. I have experimentd with a friend before and i know i would never kiss him or have actual sex but i liked receiving a blowjob. And that is gay

it isn't gay if you like to get a blowjob, even if it is your friend, only if you enjoyed that it was your male friend and you feel LOVE, love is the stuff that defines sexuality, not sex itself.

[AJJ1]

this is so true, thanks for lettin this be know to eveyone

[Milo141]

Ok, i think this is actually wrong. how can you explain a guy with nail polish and pink make up having sex with a guy without being gay? Having sex woth the same gender is a gay act. If you are experimenting you are no gay but you are doing a gay act and if you liked it, youll probably end up being gay. If this guide is right, then nothing can make you gay and it would be contradicting. I have experimentd with a friend before and i know i would never kiss him or have actual sex but i liked receiving a blowjob. And that is gay

Being metrosexual?

[Abyssal Echo]

I see post after post after post of people, especially boys, asking if they are gay or bi because of certain things. I just want to try and help clear things up (as well as the 'New Post' feed) by making a post. ALRIGHT SO HERE WE GO.

Note some of these will apply for girls only, other boys only, some for anyone but hopefully we're all smart enough to know which is which. :P

Also, scroll down for things that DO make you gay or bisexual. :)

Things that DON'T make you gay or bisexual:
- Making out with the same gender.
- Messing around with the same gender.
- Giving your friend a blowjob.
- Eating out/fingering your friend.
- Receiving a blowjob from a friend.
- And liking it.
- Experimenting.
- Having anal sex.
- Having any kind of sex with the same gender.
- Anal masturbation.
- Watching gay porn.
- Watching lesbian porn.
- Watching "shemale" porn.
- Watching "bisexual" porn.
- Watching any kind of porn at all.
- Liking attention from gay men (male)/lesbians (female).
- Circle jerks.
- Getting slizzarded and fucking your gay friend.
- Being curious about the same gender.
- Being feminine (if male).
- Being masculine (if female).
- Wearing pink.
- Exaggerating your 'S's while speaking.
- Caring about gay rights.
- Being a feminist.
- Being friends with only people from the opposite gender.
- Having a gay friend.
- Having gay parents.
- Having a gay relative.
- Caring about your appearance.
- Wearing skinny jeans with V-necks (male).
- Wearing plaid (female).
- Having ear piercings.
- Thinking one person from the same gender is hot.
- Liking/wearing make-up (if male).
- ^ Same goes for nail polish.
- Liking drama or musical theater.
- Liking fashion (male).
- Liking sport or cars or mud or dirt (female).
- Cross dressing.
- Having long hair (male).
- Having short hair (female).
- Shaving your armpits or legs (male).
- Not shaving your armpits or legs (female).


Things that DO make you gay:
- Being attracted to the same gender physically and emotionally.
- Generally not being attracted the opposite gender in the same respects.

Things that DO make you bisexual:
- Being attracted to the same gender physically /and emotionally.
- Also being attracted to the opposite gender physically /and emotionally.
- Not nessisarily emotionally, and attraction doesn't need to be equal.

Thank you, that is all.

Great post Jess.
I'm sure alot of members will find it helpful

[Thanatos]

Great post, it's a shame that those 9,000 posts on these topics will still happen.

[teen.jpg]

Sticky this to Puberty for Boys xD

[NikosamA98]

hahah, great post.



I think you missed the point here. Sure it might be a gay act, but it doesn't make you gay. Just because you kissed a guy or gave a dude a blowjob or had anal with someone or anally masturbate or any of that stuff doesn't mean you're gay. Having a physical and emotional attraction to the same gender does. All that other stuff is a just variable, and isn't a definitive indicator of someone's sexuality. Especially during puberty, when hormones are raging and the most fitting sexual orientation seems to be "EVERYONE IS HOT AND I AM ANGRY."


Posts Merged. ~StoppngTime

Thats right but having sex with a guy (because you want to) means that you actually feel physical attraction for guys. If you feel confident enough to do it means that you have an affective attraction for guys. Now, experimenting does not makes yoy gay but if you liked it, then you have a physical attraction and if you like him emotionally, you will begin to develop a gay personality.

[Youmadbro]

I see post after post after post of people, especially boys, asking if they are gay or bi because of certain things. I just want to try and help clear things up (as well as the 'New Post' feed) by making a post. ALRIGHT SO HERE WE GO.

Note some of these will apply for girls only, other boys only, some for anyone but hopefully we're all smart enough to know which is which. :P

Also, scroll down for things that DO make you gay or bisexual. :)

Things that DON'T make you gay or bisexual:
- Making out with the same gender.
- Messing around with the same gender.
- Giving your friend a blowjob.
- Eating out/fingering your friend.
- Receiving a blowjob from a friend.
- And liking it.
- Experimenting.
- Having anal sex.
- Having any kind of sex with the same gender.
- Anal masturbation.
- Watching gay porn.
- Watching lesbian porn.
- Watching "shemale" porn.
- Watching "bisexual" porn.
- Watching any kind of porn at all.
- Liking attention from gay men (male)/lesbians (female).
- Circle jerks.
- Getting slizzarded and fucking your gay friend.
- Being curious about the same gender.
- Being feminine (if male).
- Being masculine (if female).
- Wearing pink.
- Exaggerating your 'S's while speaking.
- Caring about gay rights.
- Being a feminist.
- Being friends with only people from the opposite gender.
- Having a gay friend.
- Having gay parents.
- Having a gay relative.
- Caring about your appearance.
- Wearing skinny jeans with V-necks (male).
- Wearing plaid (female).
- Having ear piercings.
- Thinking one person from the same gender is hot.
- Liking/wearing make-up (if male).
- ^ Same goes for nail polish.
- Liking drama or musical theater.
- Liking fashion (male).
- Liking sport or cars or mud or dirt (female).
- Cross dressing.
- Having long hair (male).
- Having short hair (female).
- Shaving your armpits or legs (male).
- Not shaving your armpits or legs (female).


Things that DO make you gay:
- Being attracted to the same gender physically and emotionally.
- Generally not being attracted the opposite gender in the same respects.

Things that DO make you bisexual:
- Being attracted to the same gender physically /and emotionally.
- Also being attracted to the opposite gender physically /and emotionally.
- Not nessisarily emotionally, and attraction doesn't need to be equal.

Thank you, that is all.

You are now my favorite person in the universe for the next five minutes :P
But seriously... That's awesome. I hate having to explain to people that I am not lesbian, even though I wear plaid, I love getting dirty, I keep my hair short, ect.
Now I can just copy this, and be all "READ DA FACKIN' LIST"

[xmojox]

Thats right but having sex with a guy (because you want to) means that you actually feel physical attraction for guys. If you feel confident enough to do it means that you have an affective attraction for guys. Now, experimenting does not makes yoy gay but if you liked it, then you have a physical attraction and if you like him emotionally, you will begin to develop a gay personality.

Or it could just mean that sex and orgasms feel really really good.

What is a gay personality ?

[NikosamA98]

Or it could just mean that sex and orgasms feel really really good.

What is a gay personality ?

with gay personality i meant sexuality, sorry for that.

In that case, it means that you dont mind having sex with a guy because you just like having an orgasm and that feels good. Then why dont masturbate? You still have an orgasm, right? But you prefer having sex with a guy and, if you like him enotionally, thats what being gay is about. If you like girls too then you are bisexual.

[PinkFloyd]

Rated this excellent! I mean wow! Everyone should see this.