need help. gonna end badly

[Elementalpow]

Okay. I had some how ended up in a relationship with a girl. It was very staight forward
do yu have a girl friend?
No
Do yu want one?
i would like one.
im your girlfriend.
and thats it
................so weird and blunt.
after about...6 weeks
its gonna end......
i barly see her
like 4 times the day at most
and now its gonna end badly..

[xmojox]

Okay. I had some how ended up in a relationship with a girl. It was very staight forward
do yu have a girl friend?
No
Do yu want one?
i would like one.
im your girlfriend.
and thats it
................so weird and blunt.
after about...6 weeks
its gonna end......
i barly see her
like 4 times the day at most
and now its gonna end badly..

May I ask why it's ending? Is there another guy involved?

[Dirtychevrolet]

Same question and just because you don't see her doesnt specifically mean its going to end. She just may need space,or maybe she got busy.

Don't just assume it is going to end because you know what they say about assuming it makes an a$$ out of you and me

[unnamed94]

i don't think i get it correctly. you think your relationship is ending because you don't see her that much? what does this mean 'i barly see her like 4 times the day at most'? if you don't want it to end then you should start talking to her about it and making plans or whatever to see her more often.

PS: i cant be the only one who remembered this after reading how she became your girlfriend http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vBtyybAMtRA

[anyone50]

It's not so much the quanity of time you spend with her but the quality of your time with her when you are together. You don't mention how you spend those moments you are together and 4 times a day dosen't exactly seem like she's ditching you. It's curious you don't mention how you feel about this girl and i'm wondering are you in this relationship becuse you just want to fit in and have a gf or do you really like her and the same can be asked of her motives? Anyway no matter but I do get this feeling that there is limited communication going on here and if this improved you may feel more secure in your relationship with this girl

[Elementalpow]

i don't think i get it correctly. you think your relationship is ending because you don't see her that much? what does this mean 'i barly see her like 4 times the day at most'? if you don't want it to end then you should start talking to her about it and making plans or whatever to see her more often.

PS: i cant be the only one who remembered this after reading how she became your girlfriend http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vBtyybAMtRA

okay im in high school. i see 4 times a day at most. i can barly get a few sentences out before we have to head to difrent classes.

Same question and just because you don't see her doesnt specifically mean its going to end. She just may need space,or maybe she got busy.

Don't just assume it is going to end because you know what they say about assuming it makes an a$$ out of you and me

true, true.

May I ask why it's ending? Is there another guy involved?
no. i have asked her friends, and teammates. there isnt.

It's not so much the quanity of time you spend with her but the quality of your time with her when you are together. You don't mention how you spend those moments you are together and 4 times a day dosen't exactly seem like she's ditching you. It's curious you don't mention how you feel about this girl and i'm wondering are you in this relationship becuse you just want to fit in and have a gf or do you really like her and the same can be asked of her motives? Anyway no matter but I do get this feeling that there is limited communication going on here and if this improved you may feel more secure in your relationship with this girl

this is true.. there is limited communication. everytime i see her one of her friends is around. or someone is around, i cant get her alone....i do actully like her...not sure how she felt about me. i tried together wit hher this weekend but...she broke up with me right before i could ask..

[Taryn98]

so what's your question?

[ajp1993]

If you like her Im sure you could spend more time with her.
If not explain you'd rather be just friends.
Theres no reason it should have to 'end badly'

[chillaxman]

You don't see each other often, okay. Do you have any other way of contacting her? Also, even if she's with friends, she's still your girlfriend. You can talk to her with her friends. It's still time with the two of you together, even if it isn't just you two.