I dunno if im bi or straight!

[bored4evah]

Its really bugging me, sometimes I can be atractted to the same sex, other times im not. Im a girl, im 13 so obviously there isnt a solid answer but still -.- any advice on how I can find out if im bi or not?

[Stryker125]

At 13 your hormones are raging, and it's not uncommon to be uncommon to be turned on by the same sex. I'd say unless you're also emotionally attracted to the same sex, and could see yourself in a relationship with another girl, then you're probably not gay or bi.

Just give yourself time and try not to worry about it too much. Puberty isn't over until the early 20s, so you've got plenty of time to figure yourself out.

[Desuetude]

If you're having emotional feelings for girls as well as the physical attraction then it's likely you're Bi. Ask yourself if you could see yourself in a long term relationship with a female or even getting married. If the answer is no and you're just attracted to the physical side of girls then I'd say you're Bi-Curious. If you were straight then you'd have no attraction to the same sex.

Like Justin said don't make any solid decisions, I know it's always nicer to put a label on yourself (not that it's needed) but you have a lot of time to find out yet and your hormones are probably playing a big part in it as well.

[Jinxxy]

I started having feelings for girls when I was around 10, but never knew what Bisexuality was until I was 12, when I met a girl who told me what it was.

The best way, in my experience, to find out how you feel is to do something with a girl.
Are there any girls in your year that you know are Bi or Lesbian or Curious like yourself?

It doesn't have to something crazy serious like touching them or having sex with them, God no! I mean, you're only 13! What about kissing?

[xmojox]

Feeling stuff for the same sex at our age is totally normal, so don't rush and hang a label on yourself. This is when we are learning who and what we are, so just accept what you're feeling and don't worry about it. What's important is that you remember that no matter what your sexuality turns out to be, you're normal and it's ok to like whoever you like.

[Berad]

Wait till you're older to make any firm decisions. Many girls going through life will grow feelings for another female, doesn't mean you're bi.

[AJJ1]

this happens to me also