Straight only when playing sports?

[Ravensfan]

Hey guys so I noticed that when I play sports I'm typically not really attracted to whoever I'm playing with/against at the time. Like if I'm playing football or something my attraction for anybody, even someone I have a crush on, just completely disappears. Has this happened to anyone else/is this normal? Thanks!

[Fanta_Lover44]

Yeah this is normal :) I get it all the time!

[justin 13]

yeah, happens to me. Just into the game.

[Anonimi]

jup, i wrestled with someone i am quite attracted to today, and i just didn't feel anything till we stopped

[AJJ1]

it happens to me, but i think its normal

[brandon1995]

I haven't had this experience but I would bet what happens is the competitive instinct is stronger during a game or match than the sexual attraction. Then once the game's over it comes back.

[rodriguez_miker]

That has never happened to me. I have had to hide the boner I get. It was awkward

[mynameisJ]

I know a guy who has the same issue. He says it's probably because of you are concentrated on the game rather than the guy you're attracted to.

[Straya]

Yea it's normal. It's cause your concentrating on the game

[Celtic.]

normal

[SirMazing]

That happens to me at p.e, I am attracted to a lot of the guys, and get hard, especially when ai think of their dick just flopping aroind. But at gym i just dont get a boner probably because i dont want anyone to see through my shorts

[blingibong]

its the urge to win! it becomes primal! so you forget anything even relationships, when i do sport against my brothers i forget im related to them cos i want to win haha!

[irishguy123]

probably due to complete focus of the game

[PinkFloyd]

Well actually the opposite happened to me because my girlfriend was playing football with me and some friends. Well since it was really last minute there was no time for her to change out of her mini skirt. All I can say is awesome.

[DeepFriedFat]

the competitive spirit of sport probably gets to you and automatically makes you despise the opposing team!

[ItsJustJack]

Completely normal happens to me all the time

[Unchained_Shadow]

Yeah this happens to me, my bi curious side just leaves & my head & mind get in the zone & in the game. I can be a competitive person sometimes especially in gym at school. I just don't like losing, I like to play to win and maybe have fun!:yes:

[Left Now]

yes...it causes because football is really attractive...

[mikeroc]

Happens during wrestling all the time!

[The_Hunger_Games]

Happens to me too

[Thekiid031]

happens to me when im doing really anything important or something that required alot of focus lol

[countryboi9]

yeap that happens to me all the time

[Alexpiloto]

Yeah, happens all the time

[Nomad_X]

It doesn't mean you are "straight" for the game, it means you are simply focused on the game.

[countryboi9]

yes, it has happened to me, I play hockey and lacrosse

[PinkFloyd]

I was playing contact football with my girlfriend just a few weeks ago. I know that it isn't a crush, but trust me... feelings did not go away.

[Morgoth42]

Totally normal, don't worry about it.

[Lost in the Echo]

This was bumped from April. :locked: