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JonnyH
March 18th, 2013, 03:21 AM
I am straight guy like 60% but the other 40% is gay. I want to be a 100% straight guy what must I do in order for me to be a full straight guy?
Gandalf
March 18th, 2013, 05:24 AM
I am straight guy like 60% but the other 40% is gay. I want to be a 100% straight guy what must I do in order for me to be a full straight guy?

You can't change who you are, while you might not particularly feel comfortable with homosexual tendencies (best way I cut put it) these might just be out of curiosity and hormones and could pass.

I really would advise you to try and become comfortable with who you are whether that seems right to those around you or not is irrelelvant. There is nothing wrong with being bisexual or gay, and whether you act on those feelings or not is your choice but tolerance and self acceptance is far more important.

I'd think carefully about why you feel the need to he fully straight. Is it out of fear of homophobia, Religious views? Or even social viewpoint in your day to day life. Whatever the reason (and you dont even have to answer) can eventually be overcome. Society is becoming more accepting, even if the people around you aren't.
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March 19th, 2013, 12:25 AM
... Your joking?


This is highly offensive to LGBTQ people. If we could be "100% straight", we would. But life doesn't work that way.
Atonement
March 19th, 2013, 03:11 AM
... Your joking?


This is highly offensive to LGBTQ people. If we could be "100% straight", we would. But life doesn't work that way.

I suggest you don't speak for other people. I would never want to be 100% straight.

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You're young. Hormones shift and stuff is confusing. This is true. However, if you're not straight, what's the problem? If you like the same gender, why is that bad? It can be a difficult life, but if that's who you are, you'll need to accept it some day, better sooner than later. Plus, if you feel that you have a large part of you that is attracted to the opposite sex, act on that for now until you reconcile and become comfortable with the not-so-straight part. However, some day, you'll have to accept it or you'll just be unhappy.
Hermes96
June 1st, 2013, 01:05 PM
you can't change who you are you'll work that out one day