Virginity

[Peter11]

Me and my girlfriend are gonna have sex for the first time on Tuesday and I'm nervous cause its both of our first times. What should I be worried about? Does it hurt? Does it hurt the girl? My penis is average size 5.8 inches so will I just put It in her idk

[IAMWILL]

1) Make sure you're protected.
2) Make sure you have plenty of time, and don't rush into it. Watch a movie/cuddle before to get comfortable.
3) Make sure both of you are absolutely certain you want to do it. Sex is very special, and you do not want to regret your first time.
4) If it is her first time, and especially if she hasn't broken her hymen yet, it will be a little painful for her. Just go really slow, and easy. Lubrication will help. Make sure you communicate so you know what feels good for her and what doesn't. She has to be relaxed, or else she may get really tight and you won't be able to fit.
5) Understand that sex isn't as glamorous as porn makes it out to be, so try not to be disappointed if everything doesn't go to plan.

To be honest, by the way you asked that question, I don't think you're ready. You should really have some knowledge about this before you jump right in. There's no rush to lose your virginity.

[xMr.CoolGuyx]

Exactly what will said. If you're ready and really want to do it. Just go for it and whatever happens, happens.

[Second Chance]

I agree with the post above, and what I will add includes:

1. Sex can hurt for the first time for girls, and many times the first time is not all that great for girls in particular.
2. Most guys don't last too long their first time, and don't be surprised if sex lasts only a matter of minutes.
3. Because you both are already nervous you need to be totally honest with one another when doing it. If you both go into this trying to impress each other and be something that you're not instead of being honest about not knowing what you are doing, then your first time will suck. If you both reassure each other and let each other know that if one or both of you mess up that you'll both be okay with each other, then that can go a long way to making you both less nervous.
4. Don't go advertising to everyone that you're going to get laid on Tuesday. That only builds up unecessary pressure.
5. Make sure you practice using a condom because you can't trust that your girlfriend is 100% with her birth control especially if she has never taken it before.
6. Know where to go for Plan B (emergency contraceptives) if something goes wrong like a broken condom.

I know this post is long already, but as a rule of thumb if your girlfriend can't be on birth control because her parents will get pissed off, or if you can't buy your own condoms, then you both are so not ready for sex. You got to be able to pay for the stuff needed for sex on your own (i.e. birth control, emergency contraceptives, lube, etc.). If you're still relying on an allowance from your parents, then don't have sex. Also, just in case something goes wrong you and your girlfriend need to be able to go to a doctor on your own. If you both cannot go to a doctor on your own without your parents finding out about your having sex, then I would wait until you're in college or 18+ when your an adult.

I hope things work out, and let us know how things go.

[VirtualGuy012]

I agree with everything Second Chance has says.. Be careful. Make sure you are going to spend you're life with this person, because you're wife will be thrilled to know you had sex with someone someday.