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Dirtychevrolet
March 17th, 2013, 06:46 PM
Would it be weird rude or wrong of me to ask a friend if they have any single friends that would like to go on a date with me if that makes sense?

Gwen
March 17th, 2013, 06:47 PM
Maybe if it is a close friend. But it varies as we are not all alike it depends on your relationship to that person and whether they're willing to give you that kind of information.

Atonement
March 17th, 2013, 06:49 PM
I don't think it's rude, depending on the relationship you have with them and the way you ask them. Asking them literally, "Do you know anyone that is single and would maybe be interested in meeting me? Can you somehow connect us?" Something like that? If you make it seem like you're demanding that your friend hook you up, it can be rude, of course. Also, to me, the best relationships aren't arranged, but just happen. Perhaps you can try to include yourself in more social gatherings, parties, hang outs, etc. where there will be new people so you can meet new people with whom you could potentially go on a date.

Jinxxy
March 17th, 2013, 06:55 PM
If the friend you ask isn't single themselves, then it should be fine as they already have their time occupied by somebody else.

If they are single themselves, it'll give them the impression you don't like them enough to take them on a date, which may be seen as a bit rude, in their eyes...

Dirtychevrolet
March 17th, 2013, 07:05 PM
Ok that makes sense, I don't think I'm exactly looking for a relationship relationship more like a fun friends date if that makes sense? I mean if a relationship happened great.

anyone50
March 19th, 2013, 02:39 AM
I think this would depend on the type of friendship you have with the person your asking and his or her views on this. Most people wouldn't think it would be rude but some may look on this as an imposition on the friendship.