What do you fall in love with?

[Anonimi]

I myself just see him/her one day and suddenly think, what a great person with a great body and a great... and i feel the butterflies.

How do you see the person you fall in love with, and what stuff makes you fall in love with that person?

[dontfiguremeout]

Puberty Both :arrow: Relationships and Dating. This is where it should be.

[ImCoolBeans]

While looks are nice and all, the most important thing for me is that the person has a personality that I can get along with and feel comfortable with. I like people who can hold intelligent conversation, who can be sweet, caring and understanding; but not afraid to tell me the truth. Honesty is the most important part in a relationship, or at least I think so, and if he cannot be honest then the relationship will fail. I don't want somebody who is afraid to tell me when I'm wrong or at fault for something.

[Anonimi]

Puberty Both :arrow: Relationships and Dating. This is where it should be.

Thanks, wasn't completely sure

[Synyster Shadows]

This girl that I have feelings for, she's the sweetest girl i know. Sure, she's pretty, but her personality really draws me in. Usually if I only feel lust, it dies off almost immediately after I don't see the girl.

[xmojox]

I fall in love with a person, not just one aspect of a person, so, it's all of those things and more.

[The Mechanan]

For me it's a cross of all of these things. I love it when I can have an intellectual conversation with a girl, so mind is important. Then there are all the little odds and ends that just make me putty in her hand. The perfect cross and knowledge of when to be serious and when to be silly, some nerdiness, those moments of complete innocence. Her body is more or less just the cherry on top. It's not necessary, but is not ignored.

[Synyster Shadows]

For me it's a cross of all of these things. I love it when I can have an intellectual conversation with a girl, so mind is important. Then there are all the little odds and ends that just make me putty in her hand. The perfect cross and knowledge of when to be serious and when to be silly, some nerdiness, those moments of complete innocence. Her body is more or less just the cherry on top. It's not necessary, but is not ignored.

I can say the same. I don't like girls if they act bitchy.

[Erasmus]

While looks are nice and all, the most important thing for me is that the person has a personality that I can get along with and feel comfortable with. I like people who can hold intelligent conversation, who can be sweet, caring and understanding; but not afraid to tell me the truth. Honesty is the most important part in a relationship, or at least I think so, and if he cannot be honest then the relationship will fail. I don't want somebody who is afraid to tell me when I'm wrong or at fault for something.

Pretty much this. The girl I like, yeah, she looks good, but what I really like her for is her personality.

[Jess]

The mind, as looks aren't the most important factor.

[crazy_teen]

Mind. Other. Random.

I can be comfortable and be myself.
I can talk to about anything.
I can be silly or do stupid things around him.
Sweet and funny.
Remembers occasions.
Pays attention to you, like he should know when you're feeling bad, etc. etc....

[LiamC]

Well of course looks are very important, but then there's the random little things that pull me, minute aspects of his personality that just make me fall fully <3

[Grand Admiral Thrawn]

I fall in love with a person's personality, a person's mind. While looks are nice and all, it's not what draws me in the most. I want the person I'm with to be smart, kind, a good conversationalist...not just a pretty airhead.

[TapDancer]

I don't even know. My boyfriend, he's sweet, sensitive, but hes a gamer, I'm a dancer, I love the performing arts, he would rather have his toenails removed than sit through a ballet. But, we have similar tastes in music. He's no Calvin Klein model, but, his looks never bothered me. To this day, I have no idea why I felt the butterflies that I did when I first met him, and, he says that he can't even imagine why he asked me out (almost straight away, on impulse I might add). Nothing has changed since, that was six months ago. Teenage love is so strange and impulsive. I have had a train-wreck when it comes to this stuff, but, you get back up again. He makes me warm. That's all I have to say, I have no idea, it just is. :D

[Ryhanna]

I definitely am attracted to the personality.

Looks are great, and if the person is good looking then I'm not gonna be complaining, but I need someone who can make me laugh, and make me feel good about myself. I need someone who I can have fun with, and who treats me like someone worth loving.