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EricaTaylor
March 17th, 2013, 11:49 AM
My parents have been divorced ever since I was 1 and I had never met my dad any other time in my life, But recently my mom has been keeping away from me more and more and even called me a slut even though she was fine with me in my relationship. Now she's actually sending me to live with my dad on the other side of the east coast. Have any of you ever had this happen to you or know how deal with it.

crepesuzette
March 17th, 2013, 12:30 PM
nope, but i certainly have to deal with strict parents. they have become somewhat lenient as i got older but i hate when they push me to do things that i don't want to do, especially when tehy want me to go to a college that they think is good for me even though i don't want to go because i don't think i can afford it.
I've been called worse things by people, not just my family.

EricaTaylor
March 17th, 2013, 12:33 PM
nope, but i certainly have to deal with strict parents. they have become somewhat lenient as i got older but i hate when they push me to do things that i don't want to do, especially when tehy want me to go to a college that they think is good for me even though i don't want to go because i don't think i can afford it.
I've been called worse things by people, not just my family.

Thanks, Hopefully I can at least not feel like a stranger to everyone when I move.

crepesuzette
March 17th, 2013, 12:35 PM
move? how old are you right now?

EricaTaylor
March 17th, 2013, 03:36 PM
move? how old are you right now?

Says on the right :P
I'm 15

Gwen
March 17th, 2013, 06:57 PM
I don't know your relationship with your mother but it seems like a nice change. Who knows, maybe you'll like your dad and can have a great time meeting and bonding with him. I hope all goes well and if you need any more help or advice we are always here.

NatalieKallen
March 18th, 2013, 01:26 PM
I moved back and forth between my mom and dad but my situation is different bc I have always known my dad. I dont really have any advice. maybe having a relationship with your dad will be a really good thing. I have read that fathers and daughters have a closer bond than mothers and daughters. I don't know if its true for everyone but it is at least in my case. I wish you the best. keep us posted:)

Youmadbro
March 21st, 2013, 09:51 AM
It doesn't seem like she is rejecting you. Perhaps she wants you to know your father before it's too late and you've moved on completely. At the age you are, you can still have a good, although somewhat difficult, relationship with your father.

Jamesison
March 21st, 2013, 12:09 PM
I am so sorry my parants are the same way its tuff. I no we have not really spoke but u seem like a sweet girl. It can be really hard at times to deal with parants. They can drive you nuts. MY step mom is a jerk to me she is never nice it seems like what every she tells my fater goes. I am so sorry if you ever want to talk message me...