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RunnerRunner
March 16th, 2013, 11:34 PM
Ok so for the past week(in spring break btw) ive been having continous dreams of my best friend for the past 4 days. i go to sleep and in all my dreams he is in them, in the dreams we are hanging out doing cool stuff but in one of them i was holding hands with him. i dont what really is going on :/
Pierce
March 18th, 2013, 10:18 PM
I'm not an expert on dreams so I can't tell you much but it may be nothing, don't sweat it.
Second Chance
March 18th, 2013, 10:28 PM
I am guessing you might like your friend more than a friend, and maybe your dream is a reflection of your desire to be with your friend? If you are freaked out because you are straight and you are having "gay" dreams, then remember that dreams aren't reality. Your dream doesn't mean that you have to do sexual stuff with your friend. If you are bi or gay, then I wouldn't worry about your dream because it just shows a normal part of your sexuality.
I am not sure the direction of your question, but if you're looking to be more than friends with your friend and want to use this dream as a way to see if he is interested, then I would be careful. Don't make any moves with the guy unless you know for sure if he is at least understanding towards gays. If you have the other problem where you are freaked out about thinking about other guys, then know that hormones are weird and can cause folks to think about weird stuff. After all, in puberty both testosterone and estrogen are released in large amounts (with boys obviously getting mostly testosterone) meaning you might get some feminine feelings along with the masculine ones. You're not alone with your dream, and others have had the same thing happen.
Fanta_Lover44
March 19th, 2013, 03:02 AM
This is normal, i've been having dreams about my friend recently as he's been of school and i see him in my dreams, this is becuase im worrying about him. Don't be worried your situation is sort of the same, we can't control our dreams. (Some can but it's extremely hard lucious dreaming or something like that)
xmojox
March 19th, 2013, 03:24 PM
Honestly, it most likely means that you're dreaming about your friend. I wouldn't worry about it.
AJJ1
March 19th, 2013, 04:17 PM
its is probably jus a normal dream, maybe a one time thing
RunnerRunner
March 22nd, 2013, 10:10 PM
well its going on for a week but i do agree with kyle70001, i also worry about him. it feels like i also have to protect him. and he knows that im not gay, but knows that im sexually active and stuff related to that.
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