Advice on sex with friend?

[Smithy01]

So I'm 16 and so is my friend, we are both guys and have been friends for years! We both have girlfriends and are really best friends, I was staying at his last night for like the 100th time and we were just talking like usual when he came down beside me, pulled off my shorts and stared touching my d**k, I felt really confused but kind of liked it! I got hard pretty quick and he stared sucking me off. I came into his mouth and he swallowed it, then we just started talking and never mentioned it since. I don't know what to do and have I cheated on my girlfriend ? Thanks :)

[Fanta_Lover44]

Erm.... Not sure if you did i think you should not mention it to her and move on....

[Naue]

It's important that if you feel you need to, you talk to your friend.

I wouldn't imagine that he'll be telling anyone soon so you should be okay there.

If you wanted to take it further then you should talk to him and see what the craic is.

[Second Chance]

It seems like you guys had gotten really horny and did something without thinking which does happen. I hate to sound rude, but you basically cheated on your girlfriend even though you did something with another guy. Unless you have an open relationship with your girlfriend (meaning that you both see other people while being together), then you more or less cheated because relationships mean you only do stuff with your girlfriend/boyfriend. I guess it would be no different than if your girlfriend did something with another guy or girl which is why what you did with your friend was cheating.

With all of that being said, as long as you don't do stuff with your friend again while you're in a relationship, then you're fine. If you prefer to do stuff with your friend than with your girlfriend, then you have to ask yourself why you have a girlfriend.

We all make mistakes, and I would not feel too bad as long as you don't do stuff with other people if you're in a relationship.

[sartbimpson55]

Yea you cheated but I think that neither of you will mention it because you'll be attacked for doing something "gay". You'll be okay.

[Meh Guy]

I wouldn't say that's cheating...and if you liked it tell him! He did it so he clearly wants more. He might be worried that it was too abrupt, but if you did like it...tell him

[teen.jpg]

Yeah, that's cheating dude. But look on the bright side, that's the only bad part of the situation. Experimenting like that will probably bring you guys closer.

Talk about it. Don't force any ideas, but if you want to do it again, ask him. He probably would, seeing as though he initiated the first time.

[thatblondeboy69]

I don't know :/

[darthreilly]

the same way you would never let a girl give you head, the same thing is for a guy. i would have pushed him off to be honest

[tommy100]

I don't know if that is cheating, i don't classify it as

[alenro]

i think you have to ask yourself the question, that is "who the hail to you love?"
i dont think the thing you did with the guy friend means love..
it can at last be sex
or you have another thought
think about it and do the right thing you think and be responsible for what you decide to do

[chezhans]

You've cheated on her...not going to be blunt...you've cheated. She actually deserves to know.

[SniperKing]

I probably wouldn't mention it to anyone. ever. For the sake of you and your friends social lives. Lots of guys "experiment" with eachother. In some ways I suppose you cheated on her but in all honesty I dont see it as a huge deal seeing as it was just a temporary potentially (who knows) one time thing.

[dontfiguremeout]

Well you got some answers. This is borderline storytelling so I'm going to lock it. :locked: