is it important to like your boyfriend's friends?

[prettypantyprincess]

i was playing netball and my bf and his friends were watching and my bf walked away for minute and i was close to where his friends were and one of them stared at my legs and made a pretend move with his hand like to play with his penis and it shocked me and i don't like being around him but hes with my bf most days :whoops:

[Jinxxy]

I never really got on with my ex's friends, but I do think it's important to get on with them because it makes the relationship stronger between your boyfriend and yourself.
I'm friends with my fiancé's friends and it's made for some good memories :)

You should tell your boyfriend what his friend is doing when he's not around, so he's aware of the situation - just in case it goes any further...

[prettypantyprincess]

I never really got on with my ex's friends, but I do think it's important to get on with them because it makes the relationship stronger between your boyfriend and yourself.
I'm friends with my fiancé's friends and it's made for some good memories :)

You should tell your boyfriend what his friend is doing when he's not around, so he's aware of the situation - just in case it goes any further...

i luv to talk with his friends except for that one. i want to tell my bf but what if he tells his friend? this is scary :( :(

[Jinxxy]

i luv to talk with his friends except for that one. i want to tell my bf but what if he tells his friend? this is scary :( :(

Well, to be honest, if you trust in your boyfriend, and he respects how you feel, he should understand the situation and how his friend's advances are inappropriate.

Tell your boyfriend to take him aside some time and tell him that pretending to touch himself when he's looking at you is making you uncomfortable, he should understand and want to protect you :)

[xDarkAngelx]

i luv to talk with his friends except for that one. i want to tell my bf but what if he tells his friend? this is scary :( :(

I would say tell him if it really is bothering you that much and if you don't want him to tell his friends then say, but i'm sure he'd rather know.

In answer to your question, it would be nice if you got on with your partners friends but at the end of the day your not dating them, your not in love with them so it doesn't matter.

[prettypantyprincess]

Well, to be honest, if you trust in your boyfriend, and he respects how you feel, he should understand the situation and how his friend's advances are inappropriate.

Tell your boyfriend to take him aside some time and tell him that pretending to touch himself when he's looking at you is making you uncomfortable, he should understand and want to protect you :)

oh okay :):)

I would say tell him if it really is bothering you that much and if you don't want him to tell his friends then say, but i'm sure he'd rather know.

In answer to your question, it would be nice if you got on with your partners friends but at the end of the day your not dating them, your not in love with them so it doesn't matter.

i thought about it more and maybe i wore too short skirt cos i grew out of my netball skirt and never brought a new one. i play sports a lot so his friends end up seeing me. i agree main thing is my bf not them :yes: