Got caught...

[Disasterology]

Today went from being ok, to a disaster. I was having fun making a little cat hair clip, that was until my mom came and asked what I was doing. I showed her, she thought it was cute. Then she noticed I wrote ok my hand. It was only homework then she decided to lift my sleeve up, I tried to stop her, but she wouldn't have that. She saw, got mad. I wouldn't tell her why I do it. She called my sister, made me tell her. Apparently my sister knew exactly what im going through, and that she'll talk to my mom about it. Im scared that this will be the reason why we do end up moving. I don't want to move, that won't make things better. I just feel... I dont know how I'm feeling. I dont know whats to come next. Any advice really would be helpful, and dont know what kind just any really.

[ReginaGeorge]

Once your sister has explained, or you think she has, you should give your Mum your side of the story and tell her how you're feeling. You sister will not be accurate, she might even be waaaay off, so it's kind of essential that you talk and represent yourself so you Mum doesn't have the wrong information. Tell her how you feel, tell her you don't want to move, tell her you're a bit confused. Alternatively, you can write it in a letter, but you need to let her know your side. The letter isn't a get out of jail free card though, you will have to talk sooner or later.

Lovely, her knowing will be most likely for the good. You won't have to hide it anymore, you have people who can help, and they can get your professional help so you can break out of the cycle. Self harm is hurting you (to state the obvious) and that's not good. You can use this opportunity to be heard and get some help, for you, not them.

Good luck, sweetie.

[Disasterology]

Your sister will not be accurate, she might even be waaaay off, so it's kind of essential that you talk and represent yourself so you Mum doesn't have the wrong information.

I've already told my mom how I feel. The only thing my sister is doing is clarifying. Everytime my sister explains something to my mom she seems to understand it better. I can tell my sister how I feel and she always gets it through clearly with my mom, but whenever I do it my mom doesn't believe me.

Thanks a lot for the advice