blowjob question

[VanessaT]

Most of my friends say that they only give a guy a blowjob because they feel they have to and don't get much pleasure from it. I am the opposite I enjoy giving head and get really wet when i do. Am I alone in this or are there more like me than my friends. I am curious to know who is the majority.

[anyone50]

This isn't a topic that i ussually discuss with my friends but i would say that any girl that says the only reason she does this is because they have to dosen't have much respect for herself. If i was going to bet on which is the majority i'm going with the opinion that most girls do this because they want to and not becuse they feel they have to.

[ReginaGeorge]

Your friends probably think they have to because of porn, and 99% of the time, before penetration, there will be a blowjob, and/or the guy asks for it, or even expects it. I'd recommend telling them they don't have to.

As for your questions, it's totally fine to like giving blowjobs. It's sexual, it's giving the other person pleasure and that can be satisfying on it's own, the same way some boys like to give girl oral sex as well. Some don't for various (usually selfish) reasons I won't go into, but it's okay to like that. Different things floats different peoples boats. Some people like to be tied up, others don't, some like to receive oral sex, others don't, some people like to have sex in crazy positions, some can like it in one specific one every time. Giving blowjobs is no different, it's just what floats your boat, and I'm sure the receiver appreciates it (but don't feel like you ever have to do it, because you don't).

[prettypantyprincess]

my bf and me are moving alone to imtimate things now and but i want to stay a virgin so i suck on his penis everyday after school and we both enjoy it, me cos i go wet pants from the naughtyness and him cos he has a sensitive reaction and shots go in my cheeks.

[Taryn98]

I enjoy giving head and it really turns me on when I do. I would never do something because I "had" to. That's stupid.

[VanessaT]

Thanks, it seems most of us do it because we enjoy it.

[stepht]

I've never done it but I'm pretty sure I would enjoy it. It's about making your partner happy right? So if you're OK with it (and I'm sure he won't ever complain!) who cares what anyone else thinks.

[NatalieKallen]

I do it cause I like it :)

[Cassygurl13]

Its a total turn on for me - i get pleasure from giving him so much pleasure!

[EricaTaylor]

Your not alone, I get extremely horny and turned on from it.

[TinyDancer]

I never felt I "had" to. I enjoy giving pleasure and sometimes I'm totally turn on by doing it.

[justagurl]

I suck my bf every couple days or so, i do it because i know that 75% of the time he will return the favor :yeah:

[bridey]

I really enjoy giving head

[Lilly F 97]

my bf and me are moving alone to imtimate things now and but i want to stay a virgin so i suck on his penis everyday after school and we both enjoy it, me cos i go wet pants from the naughtyness and him cos he has a sensitive reaction and shots go in my cheeks.

That's why I like too suck!

[LilKelli69]

Yep, I suck! Love it! nuff said!

[SammyG17]

I do it because it makes me feel good knowing I'm making someone else feel good. But I also prefer to have the favor returned too.

[Amber Bi]

I do it because I like it...actually love it. I would never do anything i didn't like or didn't wanna do. or god forbid, felt like I "HAD" to do it

[peytongrrl]

I'm with most all the other girls who have posted above. I luv to give head, it totally gets me wet ... and I wouldnt be doing it if I didn't like it!!

[Cassidy]

Personally, I love it. I usually get pretty wet from it.

[Amy15kitty]

I like doing it too. Such a turn on.

[RachelW]

I enjoy giving head but I think I most enjoy the pleasure he gets from it.

[Rainbowfairy]

I'm kinda both I like it when I start it off and get wet but there are times when I have been forced to but I got wet then aswell cos I was being forced meh

[WalkingOnDisaster]

Excuse my naiive, immature mind... But what do these terms 'blow job' and 'give head' mean?

[SammyG17]

Excuse my naiive, immature mind... But what do these terms 'blow job' and 'give head' mean?

Mouth relations. I'm not sure how else to put it without being graphic.

[WalkingOnDisaster]

Mouth relations. I'm not sure how else to put it without being graphic.

Ah okay. No worries I understand.

[ButterflyBaby]

i get excited because im making him turned on, so i like doing it. not the biggest fan of sperm in my mouth tho but oh well haha

[Ihaveagun]

Like others have already said, I enjoy giving my bf a blowjob now and again, and it turns me on because it turns HIM on. ;)

[Jen Jones]

I mostly do it to get oral back

[Juana]

My older sister said it's a huge turn on to give BJ's and I think you always must do something you want to do, especially with sex.

[Wanderer_]

I enjoy giving head but I think I most enjoy the pleasure he gets from it.

I love that about giving head too

[Fitzy]

I love it and I get so wet.
yumm.

[amandamanda]

Most of my friends say that they only give a guy a blowjob because they feel they have to and don't get much pleasure from it. I am the opposite I enjoy giving head and get really wet when i do. Am I alone in this or are there more like me than my friends. I am curious to know who is the majority.

Seeing him in so much pleasure makes it fun for me.

[Evaboo]

I like it! It's warm and fun! And my bf loves it!

[JessDaly]

I like the enjoyment he gets, but honestly the main thing is so I will get oral back

[sophiaLockhart]

there are times when it's a chore for me, but when i'm in the mood I love it, especially when I take full control

[Wanderer_]

I love it, I've been giving head since I was 12

[Swimmie]

I like it mostly because of the pleasure I give him... and warm cum in my mouth is hot...

[Cali Girl]

I enjoy giving head. I do it because I want to, not because I have to.

[Wanderer_]

I like it mostly because of the pleasure I give him... and warm cum in my mouth is hot...

Mmm u r so right - I'm gonna go get some

[rakster]

My bf never asked me to, but I've given him head a few times althoug it's not always what we do together. I really like making him feel good but my mouth gets sore and tired after a while. He's kinda big. He's cum in my mouth a couple times. He loves to go down on me, though which is really nice.

[Tessa-stra]

Personally, I love it. I usually get pretty wet from it.

Like this! I also like it! If i wouldn't like it, he had a bad time, cause I wouldn't suck him!

[nicole97]

It's been a little while for me, but I liked it, and not just because he got pleasure.

[PandaLeah]

no you're not alone in this... people are different.. I always enjoy giving oral..

[Lucyluulee.x]

It turns me on giving head because i know its turning them on! I love it

[NotShortButFunsized]

I personally love doing it, but I do think if I felt forced to do something then it wouldn't be so much fun so I can understand your friend's point. I'd tell them that they shouldn't do anything they don't feel they have a choice in, not just because they wouldn't enjoy it, but because the situation might go too far if their boyfriends aren't used to listening to what she has to say and instead just expect getting what is asked for. of course I don't know all boys, but its good to be safer.

[Eliza93]

Your friends probably think they have to because of porn, and 99% of the time, before penetration, there will be a blowjob, and/or the guy asks for it, or even expects it. I'd recommend telling them they don't have to.

As for your questions, it's totally fine to like giving blowjobs. It's sexual, it's giving the other person pleasure and that can be satisfying on it's own, the same way some boys like to give girl oral sex as well. Some don't for various (usually selfish) reasons I won't go into, but it's okay to like that. Different things floats different peoples boats. Some people like to be tied up, others don't, some like to receive oral sex, others don't, some people like to have sex in crazy positions, some can like it in one specific one every time. Giving blowjobs is no different, it's just what floats your boat, and I'm sure the receiver appreciates it (but don't feel like you ever have to do it, because you don't).

Agreed!

[Reanne]

I love giving head because there is nothing like seeing a guy turned on by it. I have a few techniques that really drive them wild. One is when I use the taste buds on my tongue and rub it against the head over the hole, it drives them wild :P

[sambeans]

I enjoy it. Its a closeness thing. I Never feel I have to do it.

[Wanderer_]

It's a fun way to wake a boy up too

Not as fun if you wake up and he's put it in your mouth already
Or somewhere

[jess9051000]

if u love your boyfriend have to do it , so he return the favor......:yeah::yeah:

[HaleyB]

Giving Blowjobs is my ultimate turn on! I fantasized about it long before sex and love it now that im doing it. They might not like it because of personal preference or experiences.

[kentucky girl]

I do it because I love the feel of him in my mouth. I would never do it because I felt I had to

[taylorbaby]

When ever I give my first one it had better be because I want to.

[Sharona]

Wow I think your friends must just be saying that because they don't want to admit it! Sucking is hot! So natural and sexy

[Carlarama]

I love giving head because there is nothing like seeing a guy turned on by it. I have a few techniques that really drive them wild. One is when I use the taste buds on my tongue and rub it against the head over the hole, it drives them wild :P

This for me too.

[Tina36DD]

I enjoy it..a lot..I like to feel it get hard in my mouth and of course..the swallowing part..i don't like makin a mess;) Always enjoyed it...i get sooo wet from it, I rub while do it;)

[Louise]

Done it a few times but the 1st was the worst, wasn't sure what to do and he didn't say either. He didn't say when he was like coming, hmm.

[kayleigh]

i do it because i enjoy it, but don't do it if you feel uncomfortable doing it, if he dose not like it he can go away!

[kyav]

i like it alot even if i cant swallow it all

[katiebearr]

At first I was really nervous about giving my boyfriend head. I didn't know how to do it and/or make it pleasurable for him.
I did it for the first time about three months ago and now sometimes I just give him head for fun. I like it and so does he so I don't see a problem with it. I really enjoy it.

[kyav]

i love it but only for a few min

[CutieHoney]

How could one not like that? :O

[pamela1]

Giving blowjobs is my favorite. I know he enjoys it, but I think I enjoy it more, I love it. It is such a turn on for me to know that he gets really excited when I do it.

[olive99]

Most of my friends say that they only give a guy a blowjob because they feel they have to and don't get much pleasure from it. I am the opposite I enjoy giving head and get really wet when i do. Am I alone in this or are there more like me than my friends. I am curious to know who is the majority.

i tried it for the first time like 3 hours ago and been wet ever since. its really really good and my bf said we can do it everyday!

[Mollypop]

i tried it for the first time like 3 hours ago and been wet ever since. its really really good and my bf said we can do it everyday!
Congrats! Since you both like it I'm sure you'll have plenty of fun together. :)

[Pensive]

i tried it for the first time like 3 hours ago and been wet ever since. its really really good and my bf said we can do it everyday!

What a coincidence!

[olive99]

Congrats! Since you both like it I'm sure you'll have plenty of fun together. :)

thanks i'm so much happier now cos he was going to take my virginity but now i can suck on him.

What a coincidence!

he also puts boob/nipple in his mouth and we both breath really deeply from that :yes:

[Amy_I_am]

I've never felt like I had to give a guy a blow job, and most of the time I do enjoy it almost as much as the guy, but there have been a few times with boyfriends when it hasn't given me any pleasure, but I've done it cos I know he'll return the favour with something which does give me pleasure.

[SkootuGurl]

Never been a problem for me cos i love giving head. its wonderful feeling a guy get hard in mouth and i like the way their dicks shake just as theyre about to cum.

[GigglyAbby]

I do it because I want to -- not because I'm obligated or pressured to.

[Sharona]

At first I was really nervous about giving my boyfriend head. I didn't know how to do it and/or make it pleasurable for him.
I did it for the first time about three months ago and now sometimes I just give him head for fun. I like it and so does he so I don't see a problem with it. I really enjoy it.

Exactly it's tons of fun!
Next time he is playing a video game start sucking and see how long until he crashes/dies etc lol

[Mollypop]

Haha yeah they can't think straight when you're sucking them.

[SkootuGurl]

Next time he is playing a video game start sucking and see how long until he crashes/dies etc lol

Just odn't do it if he's driving, or the crashing/dying could be for real.

[honeybear]

if guys weren't supposed to get a bj mouths wouldn't be made in the shape they are ;) lol

[CassieWTF]

As someone who's never going to give a bj to anyone, I'm curious; do you do all get reciprocal treatment or will you go down on a guy who won't go down on you?

[ItsChelsea]

If he won't I won't, it's only fair. If he's only wanting to get off and not get me off, he can go somewhere else. Or she ;)

[Sharona]

Just odn't do it if he's driving, or the crashing/dying could be for real.

I have before, fortunately he just drove calmly and slowly lol - I think he wanted it to last forever

[Sharona]

As someone who's never going to give a bj to anyone, I'm curious; do you do all get reciprocal treatment or will you go down on a guy who won't go down on you?

I'd be sad if he didn't and he might end up alone lol
But I don't do it expecting him to return the favour right away - it's my gift to him
U r not into cock?

[CassieWTF]

I'd be sad if he didn't and he might end up alone lol
But I don't do it expecting him to return the favour right away - it's my gift to him
U r not into cock?

Not at all, but it's not just because of the cock, it's more about what it's attched to.

[ElliEvens]

At first I was really nervous about giving my boyfriend head. I didn't know how to do it and/or make it pleasurable for him.
I did it for the first time about three months ago and now sometimes I just give him head for fun. I like it and so does he so I don't see a problem with it. I really enjoy it.

Ha this sounds just like me. I have only done this a few times also. The first time I was so nervous and I didn't know what to expect when he cum. It actually scared me a bit. I thought I might choke or something. But now I enjoy it I suppose. My last BF seemed to really like it anyway.

[Sharona]

Lol gotcha - just noticed you 'fish without a bicycle' thing there

[katiebearr]

Exactly it's tons of fun!
Next time he is playing a video game start sucking and see how long until he crashes/dies etc lol

I do this sometimes haha.
He tries his hardest to keep playing.

[lyrical]

Never Tried It But Really Wnt To;)

[Sharona]

Go for it when you find someone worthy ;)

[Thatonegirl15]

I enjoy that he gets pleasure from it. I know that some of my friends like giving head and others don't it is really just what you are comfortable with.

[Nikkineedsmore]

Giving BJ's can be sooo much fun! Esp after he cums and I keep going - drives him crazy!

[qurious17]

giving bj's can be sooo much fun! Esp after he cums and i keep going - drives him crazy!

omg !!

[loliqueen123]

I'm thinking the majority is most likely people that do not enjoy it.

As for me, it is kinda a turn on, but it is greatly enhanced if you can make him return the favor.

[taurus97]

I really enjoy sucking a dick . It's a real turn on for me . I do it cause i like it not because i'm forced to or feel like i have to. Yep i suck and i love it.

[jayjay's toocool]

You are amazing and I wish more girls were like you and also no I don't give head lol

[Sarah_11]

I love giving bjs...I get soo wet from them cumming on me.

[Nikkineedsmore]

I love giving bjs...I get soo wet from them cumming on me.

same here! :P

[AnnaLei]

I love giving bjs...I get soo wet from them cumming on me.

Indeed! :D Best part is when they spray all over.

[AnnaLei]

Giving BJ's can be sooo much fun! Esp after he cums and I keep going - drives him crazy!

Have you ever had him cum again after you keep going?

[Nikkineedsmore]

Have you ever had him cum again after you keep going?

No, but I could try next time :P

[pamela1]

Indeed! :D Best part is when they spray all over.

+1

I look forward to that every time :D

[sambeans]

I like giving them but have never gotten used to my BF finishing. I may need to loosen up a bit I guess.

[Nikkineedsmore]

I like giving them but have never gotten used to my BF finishing. I may need to loosen up a bit I guess.

In what way? You dont know what to do when he finishes or you're just uncomfortable with it?

[sambeans]

In what way? You dont know what to do when he finishes or you're just uncomfortable with it?

well, I guess its the cumming that I need to get used to.

[Sandra Main]

I love giveing bj. Gets me wet also. Love the taste only gave it to one boy now my ex

[Taryn98]

what is the point of this post?

[Jalinta]

Well personally I actually like it - I find it a bit exciting actually and it's a bit of a turn on ;)

[DerBear]

There isn't a question, this is more of a statement :locked: