Unsure need help

[VanessaT]

As I mentioned before my bf and I have recently started having sex, the problem is that he wants to take a picture or a video of us doing it but I am hesitant to give in to this request. My question is have any of you done this and if you did do you now regret it? I know the risks of doing this but I am still unsure about it since I do have a wild side.

[jegoss02]

I personally do not do this nor do I recommend it. I am not sure of your relationship and its strength but something can happen and the video/picture may be used against you. Honestly it is up to you but I would not do it. If you still feel hesitant, go with your first feelings and say no. Like i said, it's up to you.

[anyone50]

I'm going to agree with jimmy on this one your first instincts are ussually the right ones. You should never do something because someone else says they have done it. Asking others if they have done this shouldn't even be included in making a decision like this that can have a far reaching effect on your future. it's unimaginable to think he could post these pictures on the Internet when a relationship is going well but statistic prove that during the teen years most relationships don't last and often end up bad with resentment towards both parties involved. If you doubt this you can google sites like exgirlfriend revenge or any number of web sites dedicated to guys posting pictures and videos of their ex's. Here is a suggestion, when he brings this up again ask him why he needs those private moments video taped when he's got the real thing.

[lauren1]

I haven't had sex, but I know I'd be horrified if I thought my boyfriend wanted to video it. Surely it's much too personal, and something which should just be enjoyable and stay between the two of you.

[Taryn98]

I don't think it's a good idea. That guy will have that video forever and never get rid of it if you break up. I wouldn't trust that he doesn't show others.

[VanessaT]

I don't intend to do it at least not now, but like i said I do have a wild side.

[Prodigy17]

If you do it make sure you position the camera so your face is never visible

Trust me when I say guys will show the vid/pics to their friends

[stepht]

I personally don't have a problem with this idea but I think you need to trust your instincts on this one. If you're worried abut it its prob for a good reason so maybe best to not do it.

[NatalieKallen]

If you are at all worried about it I would advise you not to do it

[Jinxxy]

Sex is a personal, intimate experience for you and your boyfriend alone and who knows where those photos/videos are going!?

I've taken photos, but we deleted them straight after looking at them together and made sure they'd all definitely been deleted.
It's best not to, to be honest...

[Cassygurl13]

Yah, don't do it - i'm crazy safe about that sort of thing - otherwise you'll just be another one of those clips on some site!!

[princessholly]

Ya don't do it I made that mistake and regret it ever since all though I got it removed and my repuatation back it can really harm you because they can threaten you saying if you don't do this I'll share your video