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wildabeast
March 15th, 2013, 09:40 PM
So recently a good friend of mine lost her bf who is a douche and now as a friend I'm there for her but she's going from sad to mad to being a bitch to everyone. Now there's Alex who's liked Kailynn since before Kailynn she and her bf were together has been stressing since their break up because he told her how he feels and since she obsessed with her ex she didnt even listen to him so he called me up crying. So recap? They both need me. While I'm having girl troubles. Im tired of this.

Kailynn needs to look behide her. And realize that Alex has been there and he knows her better than anyone and her ex isn't the. World cause he wants u for ur sexual favors z omg I'm tired of both of them calling me crying it brings me down. Watching Alex chase her and fail is watching myself in the past uuuuug the feels

bloodshot_eyes
March 15th, 2013, 10:01 PM
Don't trip about that stuff kid. I understand how that feels, you're trying to get your stuff done, but your friends come along needing your help. Everyone needs to be heard by someone, maybe you're that person to your friends. Just try to set your friends straight, don't be all mean about it, but you can just let them know that they need to handle their stuff on their own because you have your own life too.
If you need someone to talk to, I'm here man.

wildabeast
March 15th, 2013, 10:11 PM
Thanks man it's hard to hear them cry because they are both two of the happiest ppl I know and since they need me I can't say no man

bloodshot_eyes
March 15th, 2013, 10:23 PM
I get you, you're just trying to be a good friend.

wildabeast
March 16th, 2013, 09:57 AM
Yeah man

Whiskey-Lullaby
March 18th, 2013, 03:32 PM
I Know what you're going through.
I think the worst part of it is when you see people pretending they are not ok, seeking for attention while you are slowly falling apart inside, quietly.
I'd say just try to be the nicer to them you can while protecting yourself.

Jinxxy
March 18th, 2013, 03:43 PM
It is normally the most Depressed people who are the most experienced - that is why people are coming to you for advice.

I also suffer from Depression and I had countless people coming to me for help, I've saved so many lives, that I can't even count them on one hand, too!

Though I'm Depressed, we are here for a reason - make your reason to be here saving the lives of those around you and find peace in their happiness.

That's how I deal with my Depression :)

I hope this helped x

wildabeast
March 30th, 2013, 01:04 AM
Same here but I'm just at a low but ill try to help more ppl thanks