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bubble21
March 15th, 2013, 06:22 PM
I dont know if im supposed to put this in a different place or what, but its a relationship thing so in gonna put it here for now.
Anyway as a guy thats crushing on another guy and i want to ask him out... Well what do I do? Now i dont even know if hes gay or bi or what, but hes really nice and funny(in general), and appealing overall. I know for a fact that he hasnt gone out with anyone from MY school so far(Hes new), so i cant tell what his sexual orientation is. And i dont want to go up and ask him "Hey are you gay?" thats just rude. And i also know that he hangs out with this other kid alot, and i know for a fact that hes bi(but has a girlfriend ATM)*, and he seems to be offended whenever someone makes a "gay" remark about something. So with that being said i would like as much help as possible :). Thank You All

*I mentioned this because he might like him for all i know(heck i have a crush on him)

Britanian11
March 15th, 2013, 08:29 PM
Well, I don't know. I'm not gay, but you could probably write him anonymously (after he is single) and see if he is interested. I honestly have no idea how gay guys meet up.

Gay girls though...I know how that goes down.

Pierce
March 16th, 2013, 12:06 AM
I'd say be 100% sure (or at least 99%) that he is gay before you ask him on a date. Bring up the topic of homosexuality or gay marriage and see what he has to say. Are you out of the closet? If so, it should make things a bit easier. Best of luck! Sorry my advice wasn't that good. If you ever need help especially on this issue just message me on my wall.

bubble21
April 6th, 2013, 11:00 PM
Thanks to you both for the advice, I've yet to ask him but the help is much appreciated. :)
I'm sure i'll muster up some courage to talk to him sooner or later.