View Full Version : Nothing to do on weekends
cincibearcats11
March 15th, 2013, 03:44 PM
Everyone I know is doing things on the weekends, such as tonight, going to a dance at our sister school (I go to a Catholic all boys school). While I'm sitting here, complaining about it on forums, and most likely tonight staying up 'till midnight watching TV and playing Sim City. I'm in no ways "depressed"; just feel bored and lonely. There's only two people I ever hang out with (my good friends) and I feel like no one from my new school (I'm a freshman) wants to hang out. I have friends at school, but not any REAL friends.
Any advice and please tell me I'm not alone!
Gloria1917
March 15th, 2013, 05:40 PM
I'd say; Develop a hobby! Your friends will not always be there to hang out with you, so find an activity to do that you will enjoy and want to do. If you're bummed about not having many friends, then put yourself out there and try to meet new people! You're a freshman and you have time to make new friends, you are not going to receive instant gratification unless you really express yourself to others around you. (Maybe you could find friends with people who also engage in the same hobby.):rolleyes:
dontfiguremeout
March 16th, 2013, 02:23 PM
Well if you ever find yourself doing nothing on the weekends, maybe do a fun project, like doing a drawing or go buy something and paint it! Or try to learn how to do something. Now if you want to hang out with friends, how bout you start making plans with them. You start, and then after a while you are having fun with them, they'll then want to invite you to do other things with them. Eventually they probably will have you meet some of their friends too. I think you just need to show yourself a little more that you want to hang out.
crepesuzette
March 16th, 2013, 09:29 PM
me neither. i just don't have a life.
cincibearcats11
March 17th, 2013, 09:30 AM
Sometimes I feel like I'm not included in a lot because I went to a public school before this, and a lot of people are already friends from other private schools. It's really hard - someone was even talking about their "wolf pack" of three people and it just makes me feel bad that I don't have something like that.
xmojox
March 17th, 2013, 04:41 PM
If you wanna have friends, be friendly. If you wanna do something on weekends, then do something. Volunteer somewhere if nothing else.
justin 13
March 19th, 2013, 03:29 PM
You r not alone dude. I'm your VT friend. I wanna tell you many things about being alone, but just one thing: find something u like, and stick on it. A hobbie, sports, and then u will find friends with similar interests. I play soccer and I go to a Catolic school 2...
AJJ1
March 19th, 2013, 04:17 PM
Everyone I know is doing things on the weekends, such as tonight, going to a dance at our sister school (I go to a Catholic all boys school). While I'm sitting here, complaining about it on forums, and most likely tonight staying up 'till midnight watching TV and playing Sim City. I'm in no ways "depressed"; just feel bored and lonely. There's only two people I ever hang out with (my good friends) and I feel like no one from my new school (I'm a freshman) wants to hang out. I have friends at school, but not any REAL friends.
Any advice and please tell me I'm not alone!
Get a hobby, join some sort of club and meet new frenz, if not,,, add me i too am looking for frenz!!!:D
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