Sucking off a friend

[GoodFriday77]

Is it gay to suck off your best friend, you both are st8 and have girlfriends, is this still gay?

[xmojox]

In a word, nope.

[Johnisbi]

Yes it is, defiantly. Don't listen to people on here.

[Second Chance]

If one guy sucks off another guy, then that is a gay act. Whether or not that makes you gay depends if you get turned on by your friend. My guess is the fact that you are performing oral sex on your friend makes you bi-curious at very least.

If this means anything, I view what you are doing as cheating on your girlfriend because once a person is in a relationship they should only do sexual stuff with that person. Unless you are in an open relationship it is kind of shady to do stuff with someone else even if it is someone of the same sex.

[DeepFriedFat]

ive got to agree with Johnisbi - It is definatley gay to suck off another guy.

[ImCoolBeans]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[Cognizant]

Yes it is, defiantly. Don't listen to people on here.

It's defiant to experiment?

[DerBear]

Yes and No,

I mean I guess if it was like once then yes. However if you were to start doing it on a weekly basis I'd begin to think otherwise.

[Bill22]

No, you guys both have girlfriends.

[teen.jpg]

Yes, yes it does. Technically, homosexuality is the sexual attraction, or action, with the same sex. Which is what you did.

But why does it matter? Who cares if it's gay? Is there something wrong with that? I think not. If it makes you happy, it doesn't matter who your attracted to.

[Catholic Guy]

No it's just experimenting nothing gay about it

[Naue]

No, to be gay you have to feel both an emotional and sexual attraction towards another man.

Even if you don't feel that, you can call yourself gay. The labels are there to work for you.

But no, if it's 'casual favours' like that.

[pjones]

have done it twice with my best friend. we don't consider ourselves gay, just horny boys

[Twilly F. Sniper]

Not a heterosexual act, no.

[sampson]

having sex with the same sex does not make you gay, just as having sex with the opposite sex does not make you straight

[ShaunMino]

It's a homosexual act, no one can deny that.
But if you are not physically and emotionally attracted to guys, and like girls as you say then You are not gay. You just happen to do something that is.

[ExhibitG]

not gay, however depending on the way you look at it, sucking off your guy friend might be considered cheating if you do have a girlfriend. so be cautious of that.

[phameez1]

uptop h? b?n

[ReginaGeorge]

Read this:
http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=171005

Also, that's cheating. You both cheated on your girlfriends. You should be more concerned about that..

[Destinyforce]

Giving your friend head is a gay act, however does not conclude whether you are gay. You do not have sexual attractions for each other, right? You don't want to form a relationship beyond friendship. I believe this was just you guys trying to get off. You were probably extremely horny as-well. For those above who have said you are gay, are so wrong! This act was yes, maybe a gay act, but that makes you gay?

[Ryhanna]

It's a gay action, but it doesn't make you gay. As Jess said, I think the bigger issue here is that you cheated on your girlfriends. Yes, it does count if it's with a guy.

[Iam_1]

I would say no unless you have feelings for him. Its just having fun. No biggie

[Wanderer_]

Is it gay to suck off your best friend, you both are st8 and have girlfriends, is this still gay?

If you aren't attracted to guys then not gay - sucking off a friend is just making someone you care about feel amazing/having some fun

[kye.]

Is it gay to suck off your best friend, you both are st8 and have girlfriends, is this still gay?

It's only gay if you like it. IF you tried it and you didn't like it, then you were plain curious. This only works to the one who's giving it because obviously the one receiving it would enjoy it even if it was a guy.

[Xpert]

Yes, it is gay. First, why should you suck? I am sure that you do that coze you like it and so be careful.....liking that is gay.

[Abyssal Echo]

It's a gay action, but it doesn't make you gay. As Jess said, I think the bigger issue here is that you cheated on your girlfriends. Yes, it does count if it's with a guy.

I agree with Josh and Jess its a gay act but doesn't make you gay. and you guys cheated on your girl frinds.

[Pure Innocent Nun]

I would be more concerned with the fact you both cheated on your girlfriends.

[ethan 27]

its homosexual

[Straya]

Not its not unless you have feelings for him

[JoaoBraz]

SORY to tell you but that's pretty gay

[Mayon]

I wouldn't think so, no. 'Gay' means to be attracted to the same sex. Whilst gay people do suck each other off, it doesn't me they reserve the right to do it, nor do you suddenly turn gay if you do it.

[CoolKid97]

If you did it once then I don't think your gay. Your just expeiremting and horny. However If you continued then maybe your bi or gay?

[MaguireUk]

No its just experimenting and being curious most guys go though it, feels great, have fun but i wouldnt tell the girlfriends keep it quite from them

[fast8]

no it dont make you gay

[Meh Guy]

Some say yes, I say no. A sexual act doesn't make you gay. Do you like guys, do you want to do it more often? If so, then you might be gay

[norcaldude18]

I can't believe people say it's not gay to give another guy a blow job... smh. To everyone saying it's not gay, check out this video, and tell me if you still think it's straight.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8iblERuJPSw

[Pete_Dude]

No its just experimenting and being curious most guys go though it, feels great, have fun but i wouldnt tell the girlfriends keep it quite from them

I agree, I feel it's simply 2 friends experimenting together. Yes I'm aware that alot of people are like EWWWWW when they hear about 2 straight/curious guys who are good mates experimenting with each other. Personally I think it's only gay when there's an emotional attraction between the two.

If it's simply 2 good mates having fun, whats the issue?

[Thekiid031]

i dont think so

[salty]

um gay

[paulw]

having sex with the same sex does not make you gay, just as having sex with the opposite sex does not make you straight

The labels are there to work for you.

These two things are the two smartest comments in a weird mixed up thread imho.

It's a homosexual act, cos it's between two people of the same sex (i.e. homo means same and sex means .... sex!). But does it MAKE you anything? No. You can call yourself whatever you like, really.

As they say, one swallow doesnt make a summer .... or a gay boy. :rolleyes:

As for the cheating thing .... yeah be careful, it may have felt like harmless fun, but even if you didnt mean anything by it, that might not be how your gfs would see it, so be very careful.

[zman199922]

I think it is fine because I had sex with a friend but we just moved on and consider ourselves stupid.

[zman199922]

*ourselves

[Pete_Dude]

If you aren't attracted to guys then not gay - sucking off a friend is just making someone you care about feel amazing/having some fun

Good call Eva

[Troy35216]

Is it gay to suck off your best friend, you both are st8 and have girlfriends, is this still gay?
why do you care?

[Smeagol]

Well, it's a homosexual act, it doesn't make you gay. I suggest that you do not do this while you are in a relationship, even though it's just fooling around, your girlfriends may think otherwise. Think of it this way... do you want your girlfriends going down on each other and you not knowing about it?

[countryboi9]

giving and getting a bj from a guy is gay at all