JoeHillsTSD
March 14th, 2013, 08:10 PM
If you haven't seen my previous posts in this sub forum, I basically asked about trying to ask me crush, let's call her Girl A, out on a date. Recently, I've been making a bigger attempt to talk to her and get to know her better in preparation of me asking her out.
I have this friend, let's call her Girl B, who obviously likes me: she texts me first everyday, she drops everything she's doing in class when I enter the room to run and hug me, she follows me around class, and she'll nestle up next to me and lay her head on my shoulder at random times. I didn't find this as a problem until yesterday. I was talking to Girl A at the end of class hoping that I could get a quick conversation with her before school ended, and Girl B cut us off during conversation. She stood next to me and hugged me and laid her head on my arm and wrapped her arms around me. Girl A just stared and didn't say much, but it awkward. When the bell rung I was hoping that I could walk Girl A up to her locker and talk to her, but Girl B grabbed Girl A and started walking without me, so I couldn't talk to A alone or get much of conversation in because B kept begging me to walk with her to her locker.
That's not it though. I also have a friend, Girl C, who I had a crush on during the summer and beginning of the school year. When my friend's saw me hanging out with her, they immediately started making jokes about me and her, and she immediately shook her head and say she wasnt into me. So, I stopped pursuing her because I'm not one to be clingy. Fast forward 5 months later. Now she does some of the stuff Girl B does to me but a lot less clingy. Take today for example, me, Girl C, and another one of my friends were walking to class. Girl C and my friend were going to the same class but I had to go to a different one. She wanted me to walk her to class and told me to "hold her hand, or put my arm around her".
Help me: Am I thinking too far into this, someone let me know. Does Girl B seem like a clinger to you, and how should I get rid of her without hurting her feelings? And do you think Girl C likes me? I'm confused at this point and can't really tell.
I have this friend, let's call her Girl B, who obviously likes me: she texts me first everyday, she drops everything she's doing in class when I enter the room to run and hug me, she follows me around class, and she'll nestle up next to me and lay her head on my shoulder at random times. I didn't find this as a problem until yesterday. I was talking to Girl A at the end of class hoping that I could get a quick conversation with her before school ended, and Girl B cut us off during conversation. She stood next to me and hugged me and laid her head on my arm and wrapped her arms around me. Girl A just stared and didn't say much, but it awkward. When the bell rung I was hoping that I could walk Girl A up to her locker and talk to her, but Girl B grabbed Girl A and started walking without me, so I couldn't talk to A alone or get much of conversation in because B kept begging me to walk with her to her locker.
That's not it though. I also have a friend, Girl C, who I had a crush on during the summer and beginning of the school year. When my friend's saw me hanging out with her, they immediately started making jokes about me and her, and she immediately shook her head and say she wasnt into me. So, I stopped pursuing her because I'm not one to be clingy. Fast forward 5 months later. Now she does some of the stuff Girl B does to me but a lot less clingy. Take today for example, me, Girl C, and another one of my friends were walking to class. Girl C and my friend were going to the same class but I had to go to a different one. She wanted me to walk her to class and told me to "hold her hand, or put my arm around her".
Help me: Am I thinking too far into this, someone let me know. Does Girl B seem like a clinger to you, and how should I get rid of her without hurting her feelings? And do you think Girl C likes me? I'm confused at this point and can't really tell.