What's wrong with me?

[Nickalodeon14]

I'm 14 every girl I know at school has boobs and most have their period. I haven't developed breasts at all. I have no period. I have pimples rarely. I'm scared kind of that I'm growing into a male? Everyone at school thinks I look like a boy. I have broad shoulders and stronger than the other girls like my arms are even cut like theirs an my hands look like theirs and I'm 5'11" and 162 lbs. My face I guess even looks masculine because people always refer to me as a he until I correct them some idiots still call me a he because they think I'm trans and just want to be a girl. I have a vagina so I'm a complete girl but I don't get why I just don't look like other girls do. I don't have body or facial hair. My voice is normal only slightly on the heavy side but I lighten it it sounds really feminine. Yet people just judge me as something I'm not. I present myself like any other girl. I used to fit perfectly as a normal girl at my old school in elementary school. Now, in the oddball. But everyone can see I'm different. What's wrong with me? I went to A dr at 11 but they said it was usual given my mom was a late bloomer that it could be genetic. But she wasn't like this. I saw her pictures she just looked like a little kid. Advice?

[Nickalodeon14]

Btw I do think I have hips or at least my butt seems to develop in a feminine manner as well as my legs kind of. But when I wear jeans no one even seems to notice. I've worn short skirts or short shorts then I just get gay slurs yelled at me. Because people think I'm some tranny dude when I'm really just a girl.

[TinyDancer]

Everyone develops at a different rate. Two things for sure will happen. 1. you will get your period. 2. your boobs will grow. You can speak to your doctor about it but I'll he or she will take a wait and see attitude for now. And don't pay attention to those idiots in school. They're one reason you have a middle finger.

[NatalieKallen]

sounds like you have had a tough time, but kayla is right. Just give it some time. You have been to the doctor and he/she has the most experience in this field so if something was wrong the doc would definitely speak up. i know its hard but just ignore all the stupid comments. surround yourself with people who care about you and screw everyone else

[EricaTaylor]

Sorry about that but everyone grows at there own rate and I'm sure people will eventually stop being jerks about stuff like that.

[anyone50]

As everyone has already said there is not set time for a girl to take on all the secondary sexual charateristics such as boobs and the fact that you feel other features more resemble a boys features is proably just you believing what everyone says. If you have already gone to the Dr. and have gotten a clean bill of health i wouldn't get too worked up about this since you are just 14 there is still time.

[workingatperfect]

All girls develop at different rates. However, if you get to your 15th birthday and still haven't started, you need to see a doctor, as it can indicate a health problem. Also, when you say they haven't developed yet, do you mean like at all? No breast buds or anything, just completely flat? Or are they just really small. If there has literally been no development, I think you do need a check-up, or to just consult a doctor. If you meant they're still just at the training bra stage, then you're ok as long as it hasn't been more than 3 years since they first started developing.

You're probably ok, and it's just a little delayed, but it never hurts to check with a doctor, especially if it's causing you as much stress as it seems to be.

[Berad]

You're probably just a late bloomer. Try going to your family doctor and just telling him, I doubt there's anything wrong but he'll probably give some piece of mind :)

EDIT: Oops, sorry. Didn't realize this was a girl-only section (was looking under "new posts").

[lauren1]

I really don't think you have anything to worry about. I developed early, but there are some in my class who are aged 14 who haven't started to go through puberty at all.

Try to relax and enjoy your life. Things will start to change sooner or later. You can be sure of it.

[Nickalodeon14]

All girls develop at different rates. However, if you get to your 15th birthday and still haven't started, you need to see a doctor, as it can indicate a health problem. Also, when you say they haven't developed yet, do you mean like at all? No breast buds or anything, just completely flat? Or are they just really small. If there has literally been no development, I think you do need a check-up, or to just consult a doctor. If you meant they're still just at the training bra stage, then you're ok as long as it hasn't been more than 3 years since they first started developing.

You're probably ok, and it's just a little delayed, but it never hurts to check with a doctor, especially if it's causing you as much stress as it seems to be.

I meant that I have grown anything I could go shirtless if I wanted to honestly