View Full Version : How can I tell my friend I'm bi and not gay???
Juan barnard
March 14th, 2013, 07:25 AM
A few months ago I came out as gay to my friend (I was completely sure I was gay, now I'm completely sure I'm bi LOL) and I made sure he knew I'm gay and that there was no changing that (apparently meeting the right girl does change that! Lol) so now I don't know how to come out again as bi lol, I don't wanna look like I'm confused and that I absolutely don't know my sexuality (I do know now) so how can I tell him I'm bi without looking like I'm crazy?!
Gwen
March 14th, 2013, 07:29 AM
Just sit down with him/her and tell them directly that you've finally figured out your true calling/sexuality and that's bi-sexual. He/she should understand.
Harley Quinn
March 14th, 2013, 12:57 PM
Sometimes these things happen, sexuality is not always 100% definable. It's a fluid thing and it can change at times, if you're completely sure just tell your friend you've had a long think and you've come to the conclusion you're bi and that you've met someone who made you figure it all out. Or, you could just not tell them, it's your choice at the end of the day and it isn't uncommon to fall for someone that's not in the same gender, it happens.
Ryhanna
March 14th, 2013, 06:12 PM
Just explain that sexuality isn't always 100% definite. Your feelings can change, and your likes and dislikes can change. It can be very confusing, and sometimes you can find yourself very surprised, as you're suddenly liking something you never thought that you would.
I'm sure your friend will understand. :)
Pierce
March 16th, 2013, 12:21 AM
I think you should stop and figure out who you are before you tell anyone else. Don't rush to put a label on yourself because you might have different feelings later. Even now, I'm not telling you that your not bi but I'm saying that there is a possibility that you might feel different later on. I don't think liking one girl would be enough to change you from gay to bi. Again before you come out a second time as something else, make sure you now how you feel first. Best of luck man, really!
Twilly F. Sniper
March 16th, 2013, 01:09 PM
honestly, I think you can't really do that knowing how my classmates acted towards me since the day I came out as bisexual (to everyone.) Theyll call you gay because you arent straight. I know I hate that too :/
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