do they mind me being a virgin

[liezia]

girls do u think guys mind if u are a virgin and they have to brake it/
or do they prefer it if u are not a virgin any more, i am really ready to be sexualy active, but i dont know about my virginity, its not special or anything to me,

i just dont want the first guy to run away!
so should i loose it some other way or will guys not mind in general if i am still a virgin

[liezia]

i need your help girls

[NatalieKallen]

Honestly, I don't think they will care one way or they other. I don't think it really feels all that different to them to brake it. It does give them bragging rights tho for popping your cherry so that might be something to think about.

[Wanderer_]

Depends on the culture - middle eastern islamic have such a high value on virginity that they have very high rates gold hymenoplasty (surgery to restore the hymen) so husbands can take their wives virginity/break the cherry again and again- which of course hurts her, but that's okay they are just women.

[Taryn98]

I don't think it matters either way.

[ReginaGeorge]

It doesn't matter, it only changes the first time a little bit, but when having sex with a new person, you have to learn their body and what they like anyway.

[anyone50]

I think it depends on the guy as some guys like one poster says loves the bragging rights while others don't. If your a normal active teen and masturabate there is a pretty good chance you no longer have an intact hymn so it's not like everyone bleeds during their first sex so most guys could never tell

[ForrestGump]

Personally I don't care. I am also a virgin and I would prefer my first time to be with someone who hasn't had sex either. Just my opinion. I don't think you should worry about it.

[Clara13]

Im a virgin couse I didint have an intercourse yet, but I dont have my hymen intact anymore, I think I broke it masturbating. I just think that my first will be easyer if it dont hurt, and if dont hurt I will be more relaxed, enjoing as well will be my partner.

[EricaTaylor]

Most boys don't care a thing but saying they did if you are but you can mbate and break it if you want, not trying to give you any bad ideas...

[Prodigy17]

I don't think any guy would think being a virgin is a bad thing, some would think it's a good thing. Only exception would be if you're say 21+ then the guy might think well she's never going to have sex, maybe she's waiting till marriage etc.

Every virgin I've been with has broken her hymen some way so never been pain for her

[redneckgal]

I don't think it should matter. In my case I am a virgin and plan on staying that way for a long while yet. When I am mature and ready for that right guy then I think is when it will happen for me.