Not sure

[RedViper]

Okay, so I'm out to my family and a few friends as bi, but to be completely honest, I don't have any sexual attraction to girls. I can still have an emotional connection with them, which was why I classed myself as bi. What do you guys think, am I gay or bi?

[TapDancer]

I feel the same. . . . Girls are really great, and I so wish I felt something towards them. . . . but, physically no. Because the idea of anything sexual, or even kissing a girl, doesn't feel right. That's why I identify myself as Gay. You sound similar to how I feel, however, I can not dictate your sexuality, only you can identify who you truly are. Messege me, or quote this, if you want to talk about it further. :)

[RedViper]

I feel the same. . . . Girls are really great, and I so wish I felt something towards them. . . . but, physically no. Because the idea of anything sexual, or even kissing a girl, doesn't feel right. That's why I identify myself as Gay. You sound similar to how I feel, however, I can not dictate your sexuality, only you can identify who you truly are. Messege me, or quote this, if you want to talk about it further. :)

I guess I worded it wrong, I was more asking for an opinion than a dictation. Thanks for your input, its good to know that others are In the same situation as me :)

[TapDancer]

I guess I worded it wrong, I was more asking for an opinion than a dictation. Thanks for your input, its good to know that others are In the same situation as me :)

Its okay. My personal opinion, I think you might be 100% Homosexual. But, that's an opinion, I suppose only you will know. But good luck with it all, it isn't exactly the easiest thing. . . .

[RedViper]

Its okay. My personal opinion, I think you might be 100% Homosexual. But, that's an opinion, I suppose only you will know. But good luck with it all, it isn't exactly the easiest thing. . . .
Yeah, you may very well be right. I've had a girlfriend and I did care for her A LOT, but I was never actually sexually attracted to her

[TapDancer]

Yeah, you may very well be right. I've had a girlfriend and I did care for her A LOT, but I was never actually sexually attracted to her

I was in a similar situation. I am as frigid as them come, but, the difference between kissing a boy and a girl. . . . well, I wasn't regretting letting the boy kiss me, put it that way. As much as I believe that love should be defined on hearts, not parts, the thing about it, is being physical with someone, to me is like, being completely vulnerable with someone, and actually trusting them to that level. I am not saying relationships rely on sex, heavens no! But, if you feel that you can't express love for someone on that level, then it goes to show, can you really love them at that level. I mean, for example, you can be fonder of a girl than your own boyfriend, but, she could be a best friend. Totally different relationship. . . Sorry, I'm rambling, but, this is how I see it. There will always be the right person out there for you. . . it so happens that mine will have a penis. Whilst I know so many lovely ladies, and would date their personalities in an instant, I know I can never be 100% devoted to them, also, that wouldn't be real fair to them. Lol, I'll stop rambling now :3

[RedViper]

I was in a similar situation. I am as frigid as them come, but, the difference between kissing a boy and a girl. . . . well, I wasn't regretting letting the boy kiss me, put it that way. As much as I believe that love should be defined on hearts, not parts, the thing about it, is being physical with someone, to me is like, being completely vulnerable with someone, and actually trusting them to that level. I am not saying relationships rely on sex, heavens no! But, if you feel that you can't express love for someone on that level, then it goes to show, can you really love them at that level. I mean, for example, you can be fonder of a girl than your own boyfriend, but, she could be a best friend. Totally different relationship. . . Sorry, I'm rambling, but, this is how I see it. There will always be the right person out there for you. . . it so happens that mine will have a penis. Whilst I know so many lovely ladies, and would date their personalities in an instant, I know I can never be 100% devoted to them, also, that wouldn't be real fair to them. Lol, I'll stop rambling now :3

Ramble all you like :) I see your point and also, I guess it'd be kind of unfair of me to date a girl and not even have the desire to pleasure her sexually, I'd feel really guilty, whereas with a guy I'd have trouble keeping my hands off him. I know exactly what you mean about the sex thing, it shows that you're willing to let yourself become that vulnerable with someone.

[TapDancer]

Ramble all you like :) I see your point and also, I guess it'd be kind of unfair of me to date a girl and not even have the desire to pleasure her sexually, I'd feel really guilty, whereas with a guy I'd have trouble keeping my hands off him. I know exactly what you mean about the sex thing, it shows that you're willing to let yourself become that vulnerable with someone.

Ultimately, you will never know until you have dated a both a girl and a boy and make the comparison. Oh, and I agree, something about guys that just makes them attractive. I could write a long list of reasons why, but, I'm sure you could too xD

[RedViper]

Ultimately, you will never know until you have dated a both a girl and a boy and make the comparison. Oh, and I agree, something about guys that just makes them attractive. I could write a long list of reasons why, but, I'm sure you could too xD
Haha, yes, yes I could. I'm not fully out yet, t's not "Facebook official" or anything, not that I really use Facebook, but yeah, only my family and a few friends know. Plus, to my knowledge, there isn't exactly an abundance of gay/bi guys here

[TapDancer]

Haha, yes, yes I could. I'm not fully out yet, t's not "Facebook official" or anything, not that I really use Facebook, but yeah, only my family and a few friends know. Plus, to my knowledge, there isn't exactly an abundance of gay/bi guys here

Funnily enough, I wasn't fully out when I was "Facebook out", but that is another story. But, you would be awfully surprised, I go to a catholic school, being the out gay boy, I hear a lot of things, and I'm telling you, there are way more gay people than you think, they are just all in the closet. Never give up hope.

[RedViper]

Funnily enough, I wasn't fully out when I was "Facebook out", but that is another story. But, you would be awfully surprised, I go to a catholic school, being the out gay boy, I hear a lot of things, and I'm telling you, there are way more gay people than you think, they are just all in the closet. Never give up hope.

Oh I've had my theories about people :P One of them is now out as bi too ^_^
Oh hey, you're in Australia too! Where abouts are you?

[TapDancer]

Oh I've had my theories about people :P One of them is now out as bi too ^_^
Oh hey, you're in Australia too! Where abouts are you?

Cenny Coast brahh. Like, I actually live in a shire (But not The Shire) :P

[RedViper]

If you lived in The Shire I'd probably just stalk you until figured out where it was and just chill with some hobbits :P

[TapDancer]

LOL. One things for sure, your defiantly not the stereotypical gay.

[RedViper]

LOL. One things for sure, your defiantly not the stereotypical gay.
Why's that? :)

[TapDancer]

Why's that? :)

Because, stereotypical gay guys would probably have said "OMG I LOVE THE SHIRE, WHO DO YOU THINK IS HOTTER MITCH, OR ANDY?!??!" Or "Yuck, I don't watch that show, it portrays Australians as being trashy and cheesy, and SOME of us are higher than that"

[RedViper]

Because, stereotypical gay guys would probably have said "OMG I LOVE THE SHIRE, WHO DO YOU THINK IS HOTTER MITCH, OR ANDY?!??!" Or "Yuck, I don't watch that show, it portrays Australians as being trashy and cheesy, and SOME of us are higher than that"

There's a TV show called The Shire?

[TapDancer]

There's a TV show called The Shire?

Um, yeah. . . . where have you been? D: I mean, I don't classify myself as mainstream, but, I also don't have foxtel, so. . . .

[RedViper]

Um, yeah. . . . where have you been? D: I mean, I don't classify myself as mainstream, but, I also don't have foxtel, so. . . .

I've just been chillin' here, under my rock :P I don't have foxtel either

[TapDancer]

I've just been chillin' here, under my rock :P I don't have foxtel either

Foxtel is for the rich Bogans. Freeview for da win. xD

[RedViper]

I don't really watch tv all that much though, I'm more of a dvd kinda person ^_^

[TapDancer]

Depends on what you watch though. I mean, I love British comedy, maybe I have a bad sense of humor, idk?

[RedViper]

Which British Comedy?

[TapDancer]

Anything with Rowan Atkinson, The Vicar of Dibley I always find funny, especially because certain aspects of it I can relate to my own life.

[RedViper]

Other than Mr. Bean, I've never really watched Rowan Atkinson, I like The Vicar of Dibley though :P I love things like Dexter, Suits, Law and Order: SVU, NCIS, Castle, Family Guy, House and Supernatural :)

[TapDancer]

You have pretty much summed up what I watch there. Except, I have my diva moments, yes, I watch Glee. That and The Good Wife.

[RedViper]

I wouldn't say I have 'diva' moments, but I have Disney moments xD

[TapDancer]

Oh yeah. I'm a sucker for those fairytales. Have you seen the new Oz movie? Its great. Anyways. I'm off, so, I can wake up in time for school, and then praise god or something because they have a new pope. Oh joy :/

[RedViper]

No, but I've been meaning to watch it. :) Well, that sounds.. horrifying to be honest :P You enjoy that ^_^ Ttyl