when to loose it

[liezia]

hi

i realy need some advise,
i think im ready to loose it, im old enough now, and i want it

what is the best way to do it and with who?
some one u know or do not know?

[emily-candace]

you may be old enough to loose it but are you old enough to have a baby if you get pregnant and take care and get a job to care for it and pay any hospital bills and but baby food for it and clothes. you had better think this one out honey.

[Wanderer_]

you may be old enough to loose it but are you old enough to have a baby if you get pregnant and take care and get a job to care for it and pay any hospital bills and but baby food for it and clothes. you had better think this one out honey.

You don't believe in contraception?

[liezia]

condoms? i hear they suck, what do u think?

[Grand Admiral Thrawn]

Don't do it with someone random. You've waited this long, wait a bit longer. Find someone you like, someone who likes you.

The first time is supposed to be special. :P

[NatalieKallen]

I agree with Taylor. you shouldn't just do it to be doing it. wait till you find someone special and someone you want to share this once in a lifetime experience with.

[emily-candace]

yes but the Pill isn't 100 percent effective, women do get pregnant on them and condom's break and they also can slip off a boys penis and I'm sure your mom won't let you get the injections.

[AbbaZabba]

Don't do it with someone random. You've waited this long, wait a bit longer. Find someone you like, someone who likes you.

The first time is supposed to be special. :P

This is well said. All I want to add, your body is ready, just make sure you are emotionally ready.

[christina2707]

I be with Tayler and Natalie, do it not when the only reason is that is been done. Wait on the right person, you can trust and who like you you and you like him

[anyone50]

I would hope you arn't serious about having sex with someone you don't know just from a saftey standpoint. I can't go into details on how you should do it becuse thats aginst the rules here. You say you think you are old enough im sorta curious what age do you think is old enough? I think age has less to do with this than maturity and being ready to take on the responsibilities if something should go wrong and you bring a baby into this world. My advise is to wait until your sure and not just think your ready.

[workingatperfect]

I would hope you arn't serious about having sex with someone you don't know just from a saftey standpoint. I can't go into details on how you should do it becuse thats aginst the rules here. You say you think you are old enough im sorta curious what age do you think is old enough? I think age has less to do with this than maturity and being ready to take on the responsibilities if something should go wrong and you bring a baby into this world. My advise is to wait until your sure and not just think your ready.

Good answer. All I'd like to add is that I think if you need to ask how to do it and who to do it with, you're probably not mentally ready. If you can't even decide for yourself who you want to give your virginity to, it's probably best to wait until you're more sure.

[randomnessqueen]

i say wait
really wait
you should find someone special
and i guarantee that anyone you get with now, you wont still be together by the time youre twenty

[Wanderer_]

and if you still can't find someone after turning 20 to do it with... eBay I guess?

[EricaTaylor]

I agree with Taylor.
Wait intill you find someone you really love :)

[carmen97]

Just do it with someone you like as everyone else is saying use a condom if you're not on birth control and the best way to do it is however you both are comfortable

[Heike16]

wait as long as you have the feeling it is right! A little later is better then too early!