hmm..is it love?

[sashoma]

ok.. so theres this girl. ill tell the story how we met. my dads girlfreind came over 2 spend the night and she brought 2 of her kids. a 13 year old girl and a 9 year old boy. the girl brought a freind which is also 13. ( im 13 as well) so anyways.. we spent a lot of time together and we went on a walk and hung out outside til like 1am. we came in and chilled inside 4 a while til 3:30 we wer supposed 2 go 2 bed. i was in my room and me and morgan (morgan's the freind) were texting eachother i came out of my room. they wer in the livin room and i layed down 2 talk 2 them at about 4:15am. we layed there talking and holding hands and feeling eachothers hair until like 5:45. brianna fell asleep at like 5:30 (shes my dads girlfreinfs daughter.) and she asked what i was thinking. i told her then i asked wut she was thinking. she kept saying "nothing." then at about 5:50 she said " well..i wanna kiss you but i dont want brianna to know and i dont want ur parents 2 walk out and find us. " then we kept talkin about it til like 5:55 and she said "well.. it would be akward either way" so i said " then lets go ahead and kiss" (i left out a part where she asked me if ive ever kissed any1 b4. this was my first kiss) then we wet out lips and kissed for like 10 seconds. she said "well theres ur first kiss, goodnight" and i went 2 my room..

i know this all sounds cheesy and i didnt explain it very well.. but i think im in love and i think she is too becuz she talks 2 me wenever she can and put me on her top 4 on myspace. i need to know what to say because she lives 40 minutes away from me and i wont be able to see her for like 2 weeks.. ive been cutting myself recently jst becuz i cant see her so..any advice on what to say wud be helpful. thankyou :)

[TakenAway--x]

At your age, it's just infatuation. Love is an entirely different situation, and when you are in love, you just know it.

You guys like each other, but I really don't think you should resort to claiming to be in love just yet. Give it time.

[Gumleaf]

If there's any question, it's not love.
love isn't a maybe thing.

the only time I think that love is a maybe thing is when someone has done something to you that would, understandably, change your feelings.

right now i think you just have feelings for her.

be careful with this, though... if your dad marries his girlfriend, that would make you and that girl stepbrother and stepsister.

no. he kissed the friend, not the daughter. so stepbrother/sister is out of the question.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

I would definitely NOT take this as love at this point. You know, you're very young and infatuations get really strong and you feel real special and all that. A good indicator (no offence) was how one of your reasons for it being love is that she put you on her myspace top 4. Yeah. Not really a strong backup (her making the time to see you IN PERSON even though she lives really far away is a much better reason). So yeah... not yet but who knows what the future will bring (did that sound as cheesy to you as it did to me? :D).

[RaisingSand]

It was your first kiss, of course you feel something. It's not love though. You will know love when you find it. It's probably infatuation, as above mentioned.

[angryhalfdemon]

it's hard to tell if it's love at this early stage in your life. You're young, there's still a good four years to go.

:) Try not to think about it too much. Take your time, let the situation develop further. You don't have to eliminate the possibility that it could turn into love, but don't convince yourself it is love this early, before you know for sure. In my opinion, the longer it takes for a relationship to grow into love, the longer it will last. :P

[sashoma]

sorry i havent been on in so long..............but anyways thx to evry1 who helped me. we've been talking and trying to figure out how to see eachother..we got something planned out this weekend thatll be good for our relationship and we found a house that were buying..i just hope itll all go well..i never stop thinking about her and i think its the same for her.....i have NEVER felt anything like this..