I hate myself

[The Batman]

i really do there is nothing i like about myself sometimes i hate to look in the mirror i don't like to look at couples at school cause i know that'll never be me the last girlfriend i had told me she only went with me cause she felt sorry for me everyone i love is dying and my life really has no meaning i'm sad all day and i get headaches that just won't go away it seems everything i get is taken away my life has been a literal hell

[MAXD88]

Ugh, I'm really sorry man.
I'm sure that you have alot of special qualitys, but maybe the people in your life can't appreciate them. In other words your probably in the wrong crowd. Believe me, Iv'e been there, and i know it sucks. Im sure there is someone out there who honestly likes you, your just not in the position to find them.

Also, I used to get these headaches pretty frequently. However, I started drinking alot of water throughout the day (of course i had to go to the bathroom alot) but it seemed to pay off and now I don't have to worry about that sort of thing anymore. Or maybe your just under too much strain.

[Hyper]

You hate yourself because of other people?

Firstly let me clarify this to you.. You DO NOT wan't to hate yourself.. You say it with such ease, trust me you are not there yet.. But if you get there you'll see what I mean

Hating yourself is the worst possible thing you can do to yourself it leads to so many bad things.. That just make things worse and scar your soul

There is no reason to hate yourself

In fact there is no reason to hate at all..

Maybe if you tell us a bit more about your problems we can atleast comfort you and give you some hope or even better, hopefully some good advice..

We're all here to listen and help as best as we can.

[oscaryu1]

i really do there is nothing i like about myself sometimes i hate to look in the mirror i don't like to look at couples at school cause i know that'll never be me the last girlfriend i had told me she only went with me cause she felt sorry for me everyone i love is dying and my life really has no meaning i'm sad all day and i get headaches that just won't go away it seems everything i get is taken away my life has been a literal hell

You suicide, you show those gay ass people that their right about you. They think - Your weak, stupid, gullible, childish. When you suicide, 3 words - They were right.

You live on to see the moment they suffer. You live on to show them what they said was shit and squat. You live on to pass life and get over it. Once they attack you, counterattack and have no percy. Period.

[bbychop]

Just about everyone goes through that stage where you hate yourself and everything around you, but you have to be strong and not let it overwhelm you. Hating yourself, I agree, is the hardest thing you will ever do to yourself.
You have your good qualities about you, just like everyone else. Instead of focusing how everything is/has been messing up, focus on the bright side of things, even though there may not be many.

[dem.re.cmd.exe]

You hate yourself because of other people?

Firstly let me clarify this to you.. You DO NOT wan't to hate yourself.. You say it with such ease, trust me you are not there yet.. But if you get there you'll see what I mean


We're all here to listen and help as best as we can.

1.) Yep, totally riight. I never admitted I "hate" myself so easily. I just was angry with myself.. which turned to hate after about 3 years, but even after 3 years of bottled anger I always acted happy. You are probably very frustrated, but all you need is a talk with anyone to let it out.

"When you suicide, 3 words - They were right."
I just want to say that statement is a little bit harsh for me.

[Serenity]

i really do there is nothing i like about myself sometimes i hate to look in the mirror i don't like to look at couples at school cause i know that'll never be me the last girlfriend i had told me she only went with me cause she felt sorry for me everyone i love is dying and my life really has no meaning i'm sad all day and i get headaches that just won't go away it seems everything i get is taken away my life has been a literal hell

I feel your pain. Do you feel worthless, like you'll never accomplish anything in the world so what's the point in trying? Do you feel like you're a terrible person that doesn't deserve to live? Do you feel like everyone secretly hates you so you should hate yourself, too?

Welcome to life. Like Amphetemine said, everyone goes through a period of time like this. Unless you have something legitimate to hate about yourself, like you betrayed your best friend to the mofia, you have nothing to worry about.

One thing I can tell you right now, if you're feeling all of this simply because you can't get a girlfriend, you do not have my pity. There is just so much more to life, there's so much more to YOU, than whether or not you can convince a girl to date you. You will have the rest of your life to date, but how much longer do you have to be 17 years old? You're never going to get this time back, so spend it worrying about you and how you want to live your life- not about what other people think about you, girls or guys.

If your life has no meaning, give it meaning. Things aren't just suddenly going to get better- you have to apply yourself to something and make the decision that because you and you alone are in control of yourself and your life, you are most definitely going to bring yourself out of what I call a chronic case of down in the dumps and you're going to enjoy yourself doing it. Read a book, draw a picture, go for a walk. Leave your house, enjoy the sunshine, go to the mall. Just do something.

I've long been a believer in the idea that people are as happy as they make up their minds to be. You have just given up hope, thrown your life away to misery. You've accepted that you're just not meant to be happy and your life is a waste. Keep thinking like that and it'll come true. If you start looking at the good things about you, about your life, however small and seemingly insignificant they may seem, you'll grow to learn that you are indeed a good person completely and totally deserving of a great life.

PS What Max said about drinking water really does help get rid of the constant headaches.